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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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Sometimes I can be so tired. I can be lying in bed for hours and not be able to fall asleep even though I'm so exhausted.



What can I do?

No sleeping pills or doctors. Thx.

You could have insomnia. My best friend has it and she hasn't slept in days even though she's tired.

See your doctor.

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i got my preriod very late.. so my boyfriend think that i am pregnant. we went to the clinic for five times and i took five urine test. it all came out negative. i am really scared because my stomach is getting big than it was. after that clinic that i took five urine test, i went to a different clinic. when i took another test. it came out negative.
does this means that i am not pregnant? or the test is just messing up. i've been hearing that the urine test is not accurate and also the blood test. i dont know what to do. they wont let me have a ultra sound so i know if its in there or not.
can someone tell me.. if im pregnant or not. i am really scared and i dont want to have a baby.

Sometimes the test can come out negative when it's really positive. Take a pregnancy test from the store, or take a blood test. Blood tests are more accurate.

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is there any way to make my boobs get bigger?
cos they're really tiny, like really tiny. and im almost 16, and i feel really uncomfortable in a bathing suit and it really just sucks cos im also really tall and really skinny, and i kinda look awkward.

No. No. No. No. No. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.

Just wait, you've still got a few more years to grow.

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my family is really messed up. my mom can't stand up for herself,and shes such a jerk. my brother keeps saying im fat and i was wearing shorts and he said "you shouldn't be wearing those when your legs look like that". and he always takes away my things,he took away my purse,now i can't get it back. i'm only 13 and i feel like everyone is putting me down and taking things like im a baby.i really need to know how can i lift my confidence up and be happier and be stronger?

Go in your room and get your shit back. Then kick him in the nuts & tell him to stay away from you & your things.

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need someone to talk about my problems with in a conversation.
they are mostly friendship ones.

is there anyplace i can find people to talk to who will kind of give me a total other point of view?
since they are not my friend?

You can IM me. My screenname is on my column.

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tommorw i have the my doctor physical .
i havent drank alcohol for about 19 days [ i havent been accually drunk for over 3 months], but im worried my doctor still be able to tell i drank by a blood or urine test ?

When you take a physical, they don't really do a urine test on you. They just check your weight, height, hearing, eyesight, things like that.

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ok so everyone always talks about how good sex feels. but it sounds so painful to me. i mean i know orgasm that's supposed to feel good and stuff but whats the point in doing everything else if it hurts so much and there are so many risks involved? sorry this might be weird i am just wondering...

Sex doesn't hurt after you have it enough. It'll hurt the first couple of times, but after that it feels good. Just remember to wear a condom, and make sure it's with someone you love.

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I get so scared when I babysit this kid named Tommy. Whenever I go over there, this person always calls saying, "Nice outfit," or "Is Tommy asleep yet?" I have told the parents, and asked them if anyone has called like that but they think I am joking. Assist please!

Are you an idiot? Call the damn police before you get raped or killed.

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are most guys a boob man or an ass man?

Depends on the guy. They're all different.

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I love my mom so much. But most times she really scares me. She dresses like a hooker wearing really tight short shorts and and belly tops that reveal way too much. She goes to these late night clubs and always brings strange men home. I can almost swear that they are high. One guy showed me his gun and laughed histerically but never told me why he had it. I don't know what to do. She scares my friends away, and one time during a parent teacher conference my teacher almost called the cops. I was so humiliated.

What do i do?

Either tell the same teacher & get your mom some help, or talk to her yourself.

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i swallow my gum atleast once a day
what are the negative effects of this ?

The most it could do is clog your intestines or you could choke. I swallow my gum all the time & it doesn't do anything to me, and if it does, I'm not noticing.

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string like for sewing is made of what?
where did it come from?
how about cotton and a button?

when you wear a blue polo shirt, how do they get it blue?



answer even just one and ill give you good feedback

All of these things can be found on Google. You're being lazy.

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My uncle has the hotts for me. What should I do?
I know because:

1. At family gatherings when I wear things like short skirts, he always asks me to bend over to pick up random stuff he doesn't need.

2. He always follows me especially when i go to the bathromm or am getting changed and since i'm his only neice he ignores everyone else and says i am "special"

3. One time our family was watching a movie and he MADE me sit on his lap.

4. He offers to shop for bras with me. My mom passed away a few years ago and he feels obligated to replace her or something.

He keeps trying to invite me to sleep over his house but luckily, i've been busy. Whenever i'm alone he's always there and he sometimes say's things that make me feel uncomfortable.

What do i do?

Confront him with someone else, tell authorities, or another family member who can do something about it.

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I think my friend is a lesbian, but I don't want to ask. She NEVER has crushes on any guys and if she has, she's never told me. I've caught her looking at girls butts and it's really creepy! One night we had a sleep over but i left some of my clothes at home. I asked to borrow hers but she insisted it would be fine with her if i slept in the NUDE!!!!!
Other times, we've had sleepovers and she'd change right in front of me. Most girls do that, but when i went to change in the bathroom, she freaked! she kept saying "we are both girls, why don't you feel comfortable around me?"
It probably wouldn't be good by saying i thought she wanted to take pictures of me but.....
i've joked around saying "what are you a lezbo?! Haha!" but she puts on like a pity smile and changes the subject.
Once i said it in front of other people and she was quiet for the rest of the night.

HELP!? it's creepy, she's into me!

I think you might be a homophobic little bitch, but that's my opinion.

There could be a ton fo reasons why your friend does these things. She's probably comparing herself to you, and maybe she was just kidding about sleeping nude thing. She is your best friend, and best friends do joke around. At least me and mine do. There's nothing wrong with changing in front of girls. You have to do it at school to change for gym. They have the same thing you have, so no need to be an ignorant jerk about it.

Just stop worrying and if you think she is then ask her. And if she is and you ditch her, then you suck.

+EDIT+
So damn what if you caught them making out? If you can't accept someone because their sexuality isn't the same as your's, then you need to check yourself. And you are a bitch. You're ignorant as hell.

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I am told and must admit I'm a fussy eater. I am male and 16.
The thing is I eat quite routinely. My breakfast always consists of Wheetabix, lunch always consists of Tomato Sauce sandwiches! Amongst other things, eg yesterday I also had a doughnut, banana and sausage roll along side that.

The thing is if I was offered Spaghetti, curry, Pasta or something I'd reject it. I think truthfully I've never tried them, I just feel like I wont like them.

I also have a problem with fruit and drink. I feel I don't like strawberrys, oranges, grapes etc but I love the drinks!

Whats the case here?! Should I try and eat the stuff I hate or something?

There's nothing wrong with it, but you should try & eat them because you might find you really like them. I used to HATE watermelon, but I started eating it like 2 summers ago, and it's basically pretty amazing stuff. I love it. I regret not eating it all those years.

Try it & see how you like it. You might not, and if you don't -- cool, then don't eat it anymore. If so, keep eating. Also, it's best not to be so fussy with what you eat because if you don't eat certain things you could be missing a ton of nutrients & proteins [sp?] that your body needs.

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why do guys think it is hot when a girl masturbates?

Because it turns them on.

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me and my boyfriend have been going out since 4th march.. thats nearly one n a half months..
and all weve done is huggeD?? is ther something wrong.. its hard because i always give me friends advice about love and taking it to the next step, but i can;t even take on my own advice and do it myself. i don't know if its me or him. his always the one whos hugging me so it must be me. he sent a message the other night saying '' i love you, do you think we should take our relationship to the next level '' and i replied '' yes '' and then nothing after that.. we sat next to each other in the movies and nothing still happened~!! pls i need help.
thanks
love julia xxx

It's no big deal. Some couples go months without kissing or doing anything. And it's better to move slow anyways. Cause if you're going out for a week, and you've already done everything, that'd be lame, and bad.

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Are side bangs for anyone or does it depends on the shape of your head, how thick your hair is, etc because I want side bangs but I don't know if it'll look good on me every girl in my class has this beautfil skinney longish head but I got this fat round square-ish one with poofy thick hair

I think they're for anyone. Also, try to get your hair thinned out & maybe layered a bit. It'll look a ton nicer. =)

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I'm from upstate New York..


Can someone tell me why everyone loves Paris in the rain? I always hear it in the songs/movies I have.

Because Paris is the city of love, and everything is more than likely better there. That includes rain.

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Does anyone know a website where I can find a blank pro-con worksheet I can print out and use.

Keyword: Blank

We use them all the time in History and Language and I'm tired of drawing them.

Thank-you so so much!

Make one for yourself in Microsoft Word and make a ton of copies. Or you could stop being lazy & just draw them.

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