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Question Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 12:49 pm

why do guys think it is hot when a girl masturbates?

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Xenolan answered Wednesday April 18 2007, 3:31 pm:
Because if there's one thing that's pretty much universal under the heading of stuff-that-turns-a-guy-on, it's a woman who's turned on. By definition, a woman who is masturbating is sexually excited, or at least she wants to be, or (in some cases) she's pretending to be. A guy will see that, and on some level he'll think to himself, "She obviously needs to have sex, and hey, I'm just the guy to provide it!"

There's also all the sighing, moaning, wriggling, and other actions that a masturbating woman might take that men associate with sex, and therefore find exciting.

Finally, men tend to like it when a woman performs for him, because men also love to be seduced (this is also fairly universal). Generally, men must pursue sex and put forth an effort to get a woman in the mood; when she doesn't need that effort, and actually provides her OWN mood-enhancement, it's like a ticket for a free ride.

One more thing - a lot of men don't like to see women use toys, like vibrators and such. That raises the question, "she's got me, why does she need that? Am I inadequate, or something?" So if you're doing it for you, do whatever you want; but if you're doing it for your guy, leave the plastic pals in the drawer.

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Melody answered Wednesday April 18 2007, 3:18 pm:
Probably because the boy gets to see the girl pleasure herself and take over completely. Guys like it when a girl is in control, and when she masturbates and he watches, it turns him on and gets him horny.

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christina answered Wednesday April 18 2007, 3:10 pm:
Because it turns them on.

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runawayxlove answered Wednesday April 18 2007, 1:17 pm:
hey, even though im a girl, im going to give this a shot because me and my boyfriend were talking about this last night. he said that there really is no reason why except that it turns him on, makes him horny, and he just thinks its sexy. so basically, if your looking to turn a guy on, masterbate.

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