my bf just told me he was a pothead...and hes been doing it for almost a year. and we've been going out for more than a year, i dont know what to do. hes lied to me for so long. i told him if he did it i'd dump him but he did it anyway. i only said that so maybe he wouldnt do that but it didnt work. idk what to do. im so confused and idk. please help. and dont tell me to dump him because i cant. i love him too much to do that. no matter what he does.
well if you love him as much as you say you do then you wont have to break up with him. you have been going out for over a year and he has just started about a year ago... so you know what he was like before he did it and then what he was like after he did it. there was no obvious change in your relationship because of it because you would have suspected something was up. by you knowing about it now, shouldnt change that way you feel about him and it shouldnt change the way he feels about you. i wouldnt say he has lied to you about it, just neglected to tell you. you didnt ask him if he was where he would of said no, so its not a lie. he just didnt voluntarily offer to tell you that. i wouldnt really worry about it tho. there is really nothing to worry about.
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Ok, a couple of months ago, one of my guy friends (not a really close one, but somebody i talk to alot) moved away, and i was sad, but not a lot. Then i started to talk to him online alot more, and he was always nice, and teased me, but in the nice way, and now i think i kinda like him. He might be coming back for winter break, and i dunno what to say to him if he does. I dont even know if he'll wanna be my friend once he sees his ex (they broke up because he was moving, but i think they still like each other) wat do i do?
act normal. talk to him just the way you would online. the only difference is now your actually talking to him in person. you dont have a computer to send the messages for you because he will be there with you.
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okay, i really need some help. One of my best friends is dating a 24 year old!!! and she is ONLY 16. They only talk on the phone though and see eachother maybe once a month at most. It's totally unhealthy.. I'm really scared for her because every time they do see eachother, theyve gone further and further, sexually. They've only made out, hes sucked her boobs, hes fingered her, and theyve had "dry sex" or w/e.. This has been goin on for about 4 monts now.. Ive tried several times talking to her about it, but I just dont know what to do anymore.. please help
tell me again, why does that bother you? and why is that any of your business?
if they are happy and are willing to that then as long as they dont get caught having sex then it will all be ok.
granted it is illegal and he could be charged of corruption of a minor its none of your business. because she is of age of consention, thats pretty much all the can get him for. they may be able to get him for rape but she would have to testify that it was and there would have to be proof. so it could happen but it would be unlikely.
dont worry about it.. let them go. as long as they are both happy and enjoying themselves with each other it is nothing to be freaking out about. in my opinion it is still none of your business.
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am 19 and my bf is 24, he hasnt called me in 5 days,we only been going out for a week but in the first two days we really hit it off, but i dont know why he is not calling me,he would call me faithfully but then it just stop,please help me what should i do.
your 19, grow up and quit acting childish. he may be busy. he does have a life aside of you. and the phone works both ways. if you are so damn obsessed that you need to talk to him every damn minute of every damn day then get off your lazy ass, pick up the phone and call him. its easy, trust me... all you do is pick it up and turn the phone on and dial the numbers of his phone number. any one is capable of doing that. who knows, if your that obsessed you may have his number on speed dial and just dont use it. if thats the case than all you got to do is hit one little button.
not hard at all... sounds pretty simple now that someone has explained tyo you exactly what to do, doesnt it?
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i am a 13 year old girl with a lot of friends. boys and girls. but mostly boys. im a girly girl though not a tomboy or anything. when i am with my guy friends i am totally normal and myself.the only problem is that whenever i am going out with a guy, i get nervous. i dont really act myself around him. do you know anything to help me over come this problem?
just think of him as just a guy friend until you get used to being around him. treat him as you would one of the guys.
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I always thought my wife liked my body. But recently, in front of a whole group of friends, she stated that I'm "not allowed" to wear a swimsuit, which got a laugh. She then expounded on this, stating that I am "very white, and very hairy, and when I wear my work shorts, I get a "tan line" from just above my knees, to just below them. This shows in my swimsuit. Everyone thought it was really funny but me.
Do you think she was "just kidding', or did the truth slip out there?
yeah, i definately think that the truth slipped out there.
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At night when I'm in bed, my jaw always clinches. It gets so bad to wear it even starts hurting and I can't help doing it. I've tried putting my tongue in between my teeth but I just end up biting my tongue.
It also happens during the day. But I just make sure I always have gum with me because it keeps my jaw from clinching.
Does anyone know of anything I could try that would help? Or should I go to my dentist?
go to your dentist to see if he can help ya do anything about it.
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Ok, I'm 17 and me and my bf just broke up. Well, i'm not suppose to talk to him ever again and I did. Huge mistake, but now he's saying he will tell my mom we've been talking if I don't see him or do what he wants me to do. What should I do?
well if you still like him then still talk to him and if you dont and you are scared not to be with him because of him going to tell your mom you were talking to each other again, then just tell your mom your self and tell her that he wants you to do things that you dont know what they are or even if you want to do them. this is sorta like blackmail. get your self outta this as quickly as you can before someone winds up hurt, especially you.
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Okay well i was dating this one guy (Rick) and he was really nice and kinda cute and we talked like all the time on the internet and at school but whenever we started going out at school he didn't talk to me and it looked as if we didn't even know each other but whenever i talked to him on the internet he was sooo nice and it seemed as if i was falling in love with him... well since he never talked to me i broke up with him (all my friends told me to also)... well one day at school i decided i was gonna have my friend (Ashley) do it for me after school... well whenever i was in 7th period i decided i didn't want to... i told Ashley that but she didn't listen all she said is "if your gonna do it... its now or never" so she went and did it with a whole bunch of friends of hers (which i told her not to tell anyone but she did anyways) and then i was really sad and kinda mad about it b/c i didn't wanna do it... well i regret it A LOT! and now well there are a few other guys that like me and that have been asking me out but i don't know if i'm ready to go out with anybody.. i heard that rick still likes me but i don't know if i should go back out with him or someone else.. like my friends made fun of me for going out with him in the first place b/c he isn't the cutest guy in the world and they would really make fun of me if i went back out with him... and plus one of my friends like him but i know she wouldn't care if i went out with him ( i don't think she would) but i don't know if i should let him know how i feel or just keep it in and see if i eventually get over him! please help me!
*Helen*
you have to do what ever will make you feel better. dont listen to what every one else will say. you have to be true to yourself. you owe it to yourself to let him know how you feel and if there is a second chance for you. if not then you tried to work it out. and if things dont work out, look on the good side... you have a few other guys that really like you and want to be with you and you can get to pick the lucky one of them. hope this helps.
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I have a friend who likes this boy that does bad things that she would never do. I was talking to him on AOL and kinda got into some topics with him that i shouldn't have. I really love my friend but i would never want to hurt her. I try to keep her away from him because i don't want anything to happen to them. Now that i've had these converstations with him what should i do? I don't like him but he's starting to tell people things that aren't true and i'm afraid that sometime it will effect my friend and i's friendship.:/
well if you know she will never do any thing that he does, what are you so worried for. you have to let her find out for herself about him and the things she does. but if you are really all that concerned about her anf for her then let her know how you feel. and next time you talk to him on aol save the whole convo and show it to her. i dunno what else to tell ya so good luck
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i think i might have breast cancer. there is a lump in my breast and i don't know how to tell my parents or my boyfriend. i dont want to go to the doctor until i am for sure that i might have it. I don't know what to do! please help me!!!
the only way for sure t know is if you go to the docs. it could be cancerous, but it could not be. you should tell someone and get an appt. for the docs.
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First off, I am a girl, and I am dating another girl. Now on to the problem. Ive been dating Molly almost 11 months now. A few months ago, things got really rocky between us, so we took a short break, and things got alot better, and we didnt fight or anything. Now, about 2-3 weeks ago, she, just out of the blue, says she wants a break, a longer one, and when I asked why, she said she didn't know how she felt anymore. She says she is starting to fall out of love with me, and that she needed space so she could work it out. It was really hard for me, at first, but now I am getting better. Now the thing is, she is sending mixed signals. Sometimes it seems like things may be getting better, others, not so much. She even tells me that I can 'do stuff' with other girls, should I choose to (I dont want to) and then when I hang out with someone that something could potentialy happen with, I think she gets kinda jelouse (but I'm not sure if I am reading signals wrong). Now I have 2 questions: The whole doing stuff with other people. Is she testing me? Or possibly she wants to not feel so guilty if things dont work? And my second question is, How long should I wait for her? Our one year is January 20th. Im only 17, I have invested a year of my life into our relationship, I am not ready to give up yet. What can I do?
it could be that she is testing you, so to play it on the safe side, dont do anything just yet with other girls. and if she asks you if you ahve done anything and why not that way you can let her know that you didnt want to, you only wanted her and that you were having such a hard time with your break away from her. as for waiting for her, find out from her if there is a chance of you two getting back together at all. if not then that is your que to just move on. if she says yes there is a possibility then wait for her as long as you'd like. if you cant wait for her then mess around with some other girls until she is ready to come back to you. i am not say you have to date them and i am not saying that you dont have to either. its your choice. if you want to date and mess around, ok, and if not, you would just rather mess aound and not date, ok. but talk to her first, before putting your whole life on hold for her. see if there is a chance for you two again if not then you dont have to wait and you know that it is ok to go around with other girls. if things dont work out and she is feeling guilty then theres nothing that wil change that guilt. so dont worry about her feeling guilty. but i hope this helps. good luck and ahve fun.
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do u have to not be a virgin to be put on birth control??
No, you can get if it you are a virgin or if you are not. That has nothing to do with it.
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are you spossed to shave..'down there'? i dont know what to do, because i dont want to feel stupid when i do stuff with a guy(i havent yet) and im shaved or unshaved..when im not spossed to be or whatever, do most girls shave all of it? or just the bikini area?((thats all i do, but im not sure))..help! lol DOES IT HURT TO SHAVE IT ALL!?!DONT U CUT URSELF?..lol im sorry i need to know this stuff! i dont know what to do!!
and i shave a little..of corse but where i shave it, i get little bumps and they dont itch or anything but how do i get rid of them!!!
haha... it all depends on what you like. most girls shave it all but its your body, do what you want to do. no it doesnt hurt. yes, i guess it would be very possible to cut yourself. the little bumps are razor burn, there is nothing to do to get rid of them. they will go away on there own. but to prevent them use a new, clean, sharp razor everytime you shave.
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well my sister is telling me this one dude that very shy likes me and like me my sis says that he tell her stuff to tell me should i belive her?
believe whatever you want but learn how to speak and/or type n a proper sentence so ppl can make out what your saying. you can get what you are asking but it makes no sense.
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ok, my question is...heres the story...i met this guy who i really like and who likes me and hes always working and whenever i call him his grandma always says hes not there even when he tells me hes going to be there and i think shes either lieing or he just doesnt wanna talk to me and i dont know what to do or what to think...hes a great guy but i mean it upsets me that i cant talk to him and i dont know how to handle this..i called him tonight and his grandma said that he wasnt there and i asked if i could call back and she said we're all about to go to bed...and then i said well can i call back in 10 mins to check and see if hes there and she said yes and then when i called back no one answered...i dont know what to do so if anyone has any ideas for me please let me know!!...Thanks
have him call you or just find someone else to get to know better and hook up with
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what do the different color jelly bracelstes mean?
Yellow: hugging
Purple: anal sex
Red: sex, coital or oral, lap dance, (alternate meaning: with no condom)
Blue: blow job
Black: sexual intercourse, coital or oral, (alternate meaning: with condom)
Orange: kissing, necking, bare breasts
Green: cunnilingus or outdoor sex
Clear: whatever you want
White: flashing or gay kiss or french kiss
Glow in the Dark: with sex toys
Red & Black: 69
Pink: licking butt or analingus
Silver: fisting
Gold Glitter: make out
brown: toss my salad ie analingus
Children in school are using them in a somewhat more subdued code:
Black: sex, coital or oral
Orange: kissing
Yellow: hug
Blue: oral sex, or lap dance
Red: Body contact, lap dance, french kissing
White: Friendship
Green: give a flower, or touch me or hug
Pink: flash your stuff
Purple: holding hands
Gold Glitter: make out
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does your cherry have to be popped to become pregnant?
no it doesnt. your hymen (cherry) is just a piece of skin that rips. it can break (pop) by sex, tampon, bycicling, horseback riding, etc... you can hva sex for the first time and get prognant and it is possible that your hymen didnt break. i dont get the big problem with why people dont understand the whole popping the cherry thing.
i knew a girl who had sex with her bf for the first time and she got pregnant and she never knew that her cherry had never popped before. and shortly after she found out she was pregnant she had sex once with her bf and he popped her cherry. she thought it was a miscarriage but she got everything straightened out. and she wound up having a healthy little boy.
this just goes to show you that it can happen.
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Ok..theres this guy that likes me and we aren't going out but we have been friends for a while now..well he asked me to go to a movie with him and I said no because I had to go Christmas shopping but my friends asked me what my answer was and I told them and thats how he found out I guess but I don't know if they told him about shopping and now hes mad because I said no and I have no idea why unless he doesn't know the reason why I said no!What do I do?
tell him that you already had other plans to go shopping and see if you can get a raincheck.
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Dear Advice People Givers:
Hey! Ok, I'm confused. See, I'm 14 & I wanna do something REALLY bad! Like see, here's the thing though.. I'm not really sure how to kiss a guy though.. I mean.. when I got my 1st kiss, it wasnt at all wat I wanted it 2 be. It was kinda one of those "in the moment" type deals. I kno I'm just 14 but is that 2 young? And is there a "wrong" way to kiss some1? Please help. I rate 5's to anybody. So you could say something like, "Sup?" and I'd still rate you, but PLEASE give advice!!
-Stephanie-
no its not too young to have your first kiss. there is no age limit. well what ideas are you thinking about that may seem "REALLY bad!"? cant help ya if i dont know what they are. no there is really no wring way to kiss a guy. but it may not be the best kiss they have ever had and it may not be the worst either. it just comes as a natural.
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