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Confused!!
ok, my question is...heres the story...i met this guy who i really like and who likes me and hes always working and whenever i call him his grandma always says hes not there even when he tells me hes going to be there and i think shes either lieing or he just doesnt wanna talk to me and i dont know what to do or what to think...hes a great guy but i mean it upsets me that i cant talk to him and i dont know how to handle this..i called him tonight and his grandma said that he wasnt there and i asked if i could call back and she said we're all about to go to bed...and then i said well can i call back in 10 mins to check and see if hes there and she said yes and then when i called back no one answered...i dont know what to do so if anyone has any ideas for me please let me know!!...Thanks
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Is there any other way you can communicate with this guy? Such as the computer..on AIM by chance? I know how difficult it can be to try to get to know someone. Honestly, it doesn't sound like this guy is trying to make an effort, so think to yourself, is he really worth the effort? If he is, then possibly try to leave a message with him, say it is urgent, and establish some kind of communicate, like if it is worth it to talk through e-mail or instant message. If one of you already has it, then the other should download the system. Hardly an effort at all! I hope this guy shapes up so you can talk...I hope I've helped.
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Well, do you ever actually SEE this guy? I mean, if you know where he works, you could stop by there and talk to him, unless he lives REALLY far away. And the reason you get mad and upset when you cant talk to him is because you like him, lol.. But I mean if you don't ever see him and he's always working, how would you keep a relationship going if you ever got one started? And btw - do either of you have the internet? Could you email eachother? If none of this advice is what you want, then I guess you'll just have to keep calling and trying to get a hold of him.. good luck!
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umm just go up to him at school you know and talk to him about it he is probably just shy or something like that or maybe his grandma is like an over protective freak that wont "let her baby get confused by some cheap whore" thats what my grandma said to me when she met my 1st gf but she wasnt she was a really nice girl and we are still good friends.
so ya just confront him and ask him about it. see if you can find out whats going on without trying to bring the grandma into all of this.
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hmm..maybe you should talk to him about it!!
just tell him that you won't call him anymore if he doesn't want to talk to you! & just find a new guy!!
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Dont call to much. Then his grandma might get pretty POed. So just go up to him during school and say "hey i tried to call you a few times when you said you would be home and your grandma said you werent there. Maybe if you want to talk could you call me since i can never call at the right time?" Something like that. Just try not to be persistant. Hope everything works out and i hope i helped :)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
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have him call you or just find someone else to get to know better and hook up with
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Well you said he likes you... maybe the attraction vanished... i mean he doesnt nessicarily like you anymore. He is dealing it iin the wrong way if this is the case... just keep trying and if things dotn change give him up.
-beccers_boo
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