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tryin to get back with my ex they just wanna be friends for now theywasnt ready for a relatonship.They said dang back up and give it a rest, put a lil space there then maybe you will get the answers you are lookin for. whats that mean? (link)
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Well first off the way they said that was rude and disrespectful which no one deserves.
Bascially your ex is saying that they need time to think about getting back together with you. After that response though why would you want to?
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okayy im 14 going on 15 (f) and i have had plently of boyfriends before but after being single for a while i want to get back in the game. i wanna boy friend but i dont know who too make my self avalible with being a hoe or having people think stuff like that.. i have my eyes on a few guys but i wanna be withh one guy for a while so he can met my parents how can i do this and the guy i really want i dont talk to because he is one of those cute prepy mexican guy that alot of girls like . what should i do !!! thxx (link)
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Let me start off by saying...
One: You should start going out on dates with guys that how you find a boyfriend. You can't just one out of a group and claim as your boyfriend because that's not how it works.
Two: You shouldn't refer to yourself as a hoe. And nor should you pay attention to people that mayy call you a hoe. Be confident in yourself and don't let people tell you otherwise. Calling yourself a hoe shows the guy that really have no respect for yourself.
Three: It's not like its the 1800s you can go out and ask a guy you like out or flirt with a guy that you like and see what happens. Sometimes even making friends with guys helps because those friendships can turn into relationships or maybe you can meet someone they might know. You should go through the dating process and find the right one, a lot of girls just have boyfriends to have boyfriends and thats not the right thing to do. Take your time and don't rush yourself you're young.
Four: As for the guy you like why don't you talk to him? What's stopping you? Talk to him or flirt with him and see what happens.
Good luck!
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I am 13 years old and in 7th grade. Over the summer, I went to my friend's house with my two best friends and three guys. Two were from my school already and were complete d-bags. But the third was a guy from a different school. When we were at her house, he was flirting with me a LOT. Also, there was a girl that he recently dated calling him frequently when we were there. One time when she called, he made my answer the phone and tell her to: "Stop calling my fricken boyfriend!" Of course, I listened to him. Later, back at my house. He texted me saying: what up fake gf? I responded: nothing much, fake bf ;). Then he responded something cheesy like: wanna make that a real bf ;). Me, being stupid, said yes immediately. Flash forward. We broke up because he thought that I wasn't into the relationship. Now he's dating one of the school sluts. I'm pretty sure I still like him. Oh, and for the record, I'm known as "the nerd" in our grade, and he's known as "the player". Should I just suck up my feelings and get over him? (link)
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Do you want to get over him?
That's all up to you and that's a decision that you need to make. Not to mention he does have a girlfriend now and it seems to me that he's moved on. I guess you can talk to him and tell him about hwo you feel but I don't know if its going to move further due to the fact he has a girlfriend. I would say move on and find another guy who isn't a "player" and who is a decent guy who is going to treat you right.
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I'm 13/female (this might be really long)
I have liked this guy for qiute a while and i know it was too late to tell him now because I'm moving to a completely different state but I just wanted him to know so that i wouldn't regret not telling him later, but i think i did something wrong.
Ok this is how it went, I have my piano class with him and he's been flirting with me for a while and i thought i should do something. So yesterday I told a bunch of people that were hanging around us to leave for a couple minutes so that i could talk to him alone so that i wouldn't be embarassed if he said no in front of other people and so that he wouldn't feel pressured to say anything because it wasn't cool or whatever it might be. so i said, "ok, if i wasn't moving, and i asked you out what would you say?" and he said "i don't know" and he smiled at me. Ok so i was freaking out cuz i have no idea what 'i don't know' means and i was just thinking about him all night last night and today i was trying to talk to him about it again and he wouldn't look at me!!!! I was so confused and worried that i did something wrong that i just shrugged it off but it was still in the back of my mind. It was torture and one of my friends told me that he could just expect a certain reaction from me to test me or something? idk but anyways...
Then just now at another friend's soccer game, I asked her about it because she has gone out with the same guy a bunch of times so she knows him very well, and I told her what happened and she thinks he might like me because he gets shy around people he likes and he won't even look at her if he likes her.
So what do you think? Is this normal? I trust my friend's opinion because she did go out with him a LOT of times so she knows him very well. I will try to talk to him again tomorrow.
Any answers are welcome. Thank you all for answering in advance!!! (link)
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I believe that if a guy likes you he will do anything in his power to show you and nothing will stop him. Then again everyone is different and that means all guys are different and react differently to things. He could be shy or maybe he's not interested. I mean my guess is as good as yours when it comes to this. I don't know the guy and therefore I can't really make an assumption. I can only go based off of my dating experience.
I mean you're moving so why do you want to tell him this now? Are you expecting something out of this? Like a long distance relationship (LDR)? I guess if you want that then ask him out and if not then I would just leave it alone. You said what you needed to and now the ball is in his court. Now whether he does something or not is up to him.
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My boyfriend is turning 19 next week and I am 17. I'm trying to write this really romantic note for him and I found this certain quote that I want to put in it but I don't know if it would make sense because of our ages! It's:
"If you live to be one hundred, I hope I live to be one hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you."
does that make sense if I were to put that? lol please let me know haha (link)
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Yeah it makes sense...it's actually really cute. It's basically saying that you don't want to live without him! :)
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So.. I have known this girl for a good number of years but she has given me some situations.
So... her side is that she keeps asking about the guy im seeing and asking how he is and earlier on she joked about how she should hook up with him.I told her not to message him and she did. I asked her and she said no.
His side is that he makes jokes and includes her in them and earlier on we walked and he was like oh she has to live around here. He brings her up a lot in jokes.
WHAT DO I DO!?
I have gotten hurt really bad before... and I dont know what to think. Should I talk to him about it? (link)
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You really consider her a friend?
I find that crossing the line and I find it to e very disrespectful. Whether it's a joke or not it's not funny when you tell someone not to do something and they do it. As a friend she should have respected your wishes. I don't care if she is your best friend or not you don't do that to a friend. If you ask me you should be questioning your friendship with her because she seems like a crappy friend to me.
As for the boy, I would tell him how you feel and how you don't want your friend to be involved or be apart of this relationship.
I have a friend who had done a similar thing and I was bull. There is nothing worse than a friend backstabbing you or doing something that you CLEARLY said not to do.
In the end though you must choose what you want but I can tell you right now your "friend" doesn't sound like a friend at all.
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Hey, thanks for taking the time to read this. I am 17, female. The boy I will be talking about is 17 as well and also has a girlfriend. This kid was in my 10th grade english class and now this year we have a class together. In english, I felt like he was flirting with me then but he went and got a girlfriend half way through 11th grade year. This year in the class we have together, I feel like he is flirting with me again... there is this girl in my class who has an infamous name around our school for doing something illegal and my friend wanted to know who she was so he told me to take a picture of her and send it to him, I am not bold enough to do something like that so, this boy who has a girlfriend took the picture of her for me on his phone and sent it to me. I thought that he did it just so he could get my number because he needed to send it to me. I am usually not a quiet girl but on the off chance I am being quiet, he will intentionally talk loud enough for me to hear to the girl that sits in between us and say something mean about me so I look at him, tell him he's mean and smile at him and he'll flash his charming smile back. I will sometimes be talking to the boy that sits to the left of me and the boy that has the girlfriend will laugh because he doesn't hear/can't understand what I am saying when I wasn't even talking to him. Next month my best friend is putting on a benefit concert and he told me to recruit many people to go. I told the boy in my class that I would really like if he would go and he wasn't aware of what it was so I explained it to him. After I told him how he goes about getting a ticket and telling him that he better go, he said he would feel like a dick if he doesn't go knowing that I would like if he did. He didn't say anything about telling his girlfriend and seeing what she wants to do. Also, when he realizes I am having problems with something in that class, he will come over to me, lean over me and explain it to me. The thing that really made me think he's flirting is last week, I was listening to my best guy friend singing a song and I said how happy his song makes me and how good of a singer I think my friend is and the boy with the girlfriend said he could probably do better.
Do you think he is major flirting? If so, what do you think I should do about it considering he has a girlfriend? Thanks (link)
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Let me ask you a question.
How would you feel if you were his girlfriend and he was doing this behind your back? You wouldn't like it or appreciate it very much I bet.
Point blank he is off limits, he's not single and he's being a jerk. To flirt with someone else besides your girlfriend is pretty much asking for trouble. If I were you I'd be friendly like "hi" "how are you?" and thats its nothing more. Stay away from him he's bad news. Think about it this way even if he were to let's say "break it off" with his girlfriend and go out with you. What's not to say he won't do the same thing behing your back and talk/flirt with another girl behind your back?
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There is this boy that likes me A LOT and I like him to but deep down but my friend tells me he is to SHY to ask me out. HELP ?! (link)
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Then why don't you go ask him out yourself? It's not like the old days where you had to wait for the boy to court you. If you like him and he likes you and he isn't making a move then go on and ask him. Do you like him? Do you want to go out with him? Then ask him out before someone else does. It's better to say how you feel than to say nothing at all. Good luck! :)
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Hey. I'm 12 years old am in 7th grade. I'm home-schooled, but I go to this cool program twice a week and have five classes a day, some educational, some not.
Anyways, I like this guy. He's in 8th grade and 13. We have a writing class together, and he's always trying to talk to me and pokes me alot and stuff. He sits next to me, to. We read the same book series (Warriors) so we talk about that, to.
The only thing that puts me off is my best friend. (I met her last year, and the guy I like this year.) She and the guy I like used to go to public school together and dated in 5th grade. We all kinda hang out at our school in a big group with other people, but the guy always ends up walking or standing by me or my best friend. And three weeks ago he asked my best friend out again, who said no.
Do you think he likes me or not? (link)
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Stay away from him!
One: He dated your best friend...NEVER date someone who your best friend has dated unless you talk to them about it and they are okay with it.
Two: He might just be using you to get back at your best friend or maybe even to make him jealous.
Three: This guy sounds like bad news!
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Is it considered cheating if you cheat on your boyfriend with a girl? (link)
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Everyone thinks about it differently and has certain rules about it. It's pretty much cheating because it's another person and not your boyfriend it should just be you and him in the relationship. Making out or what have you with someone else is cheating!
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i just need some one to talk to my famiy are all really mean to me i cant take it any more . the drama i just wanna walk away and disappear for ever but that is just not a option , i went walking in the woods behind my house they called cops on me said i was sucidial . when i came home they hand cuffed me and forced me to go to er to be evaluated omg . is there anyway i can disappear? change my idenity? so i can be left alone by these people ?
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I'm not really sure what is causing your family to react in the way they do. Not saying you have, but have you done anything to make them believe that you might hurt yourself? Has there ever been an event in time where maybe you said something or did something that might suggest you would hurt yourself. I know it might be hard to see but your family cares about you and wants to protect you. I'm sure how old you are or if you go to school but maybe talking to a guidance couselor would be best or maybe another adult you trust. Have you talked to friends?
Try and reach out to someone close to you I feel that, that would be best for you at the moment.
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18/f
why do i feel the need to do my hair and makeup again? i stopped when i was 16. now i see all these girls and i feel intimidated because i dont really do anything but apply a little mascara. i want to be happy when i look in the mirror, but im not. i dont understand why because i should be happy. i want to dye my hair, but i know this is just going to lead to temporarily happiness. (link)
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Happiness comes with in. Make-up and doing your hair is not going to make you happy. What do you like to do? What makes you come alive?
For me it's singing and music...it brings out the best in me and just puts me in an overall great mood. Ignore those girls at school that seem to have everything going for them changes are they have things going on they just won't tell anyone. Think of something that makes you happy. Do something that makes you happy! Keep your head!
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i have tried to be supportive, i have tried to hang in there. looking for the simplest, least messy method (link)
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For years and years I felt everyone had something to say about how I was acting or doing things. It gets to a point where you can't listen to anyone else and listen to yourself and what you need. I'm not sure what's going on in your life but there is no reason for you to give up. Giving up is not an answer it's just going to make the situation worse. Have you tried talking to someone? Do you have a friend that you could reach out to? What about someone you feel comfortable with?
I know things don't feel great now but things will get better. i know how it feels to feel hopeless and worthless believe me. I know now that I'm worth someones time and that I'm surrounded by people who love me and who really care about me. Keep your head up and don't give up!
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i have issues have you ever been in like a great mood then out of no where you can hate the world and just wanna end your life cause all ur hopes a dreams arnt going to get you anywhere....well i feel that way right now i dont know why i dont know what to do talking doesnt help im 14 wat should i do thxx (link)
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You're not alone know that.
Everyone gets to that place in our lives where we question what the future holds for us. Unfortunately we have to wait to see what the future holds for us. The BEST thing to do is to keep your head up and be positive about thigns. It's hard I knwo I've been there! I try to think of something good and either one piece of news or someone being a jerk can turn my mood to the worst. Those times I don't even want to be around myself and I feel hopeless and worthless. It's best to talk and do somethings that you like to do. I'll admit I love listening to my iPod and dancing around my room like an idiot because it's what I love to do. I feel happy and I feel free. Find something you like to do or find something that makes you happy. Another thing I like to do is take walks because it clears my head and makes me relaxed. Try not to think negative and keep going with the positive!
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I'm 17 and I get guys in their early to mid twenties hitting on me, but when I'm in school most guys just want to be my friend. I've had boyfriends but none lasted very long. There's this one guy that's been hitting on me since I was in middle school, he chased me down the street one time just to ask me how old I was and where did I live. He's friends with my brother and every time he comes to my house hes either staring at me or trying to flirt with me and I don't like him. He's 24 yrs old and he's been hitting on me since I was like 12. I was having a conversation with this one guy and he was 18 and I told him I was 17, he reacted with a holy sh*t. I don't dress slutty or wear make up and I don't understand why older guys hit on me or think that Im older than my age. So is it because I look older or because guys think I'm easy because I'm younger? (link)
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Guys will be guys.
When I was 17 the same thing happened to me. I worked at a restaurant and there was a waiter/bartender who was 25 at the time. He was always flirting with me and talking to me. Meanwhile at school I couldn't even get a guy to notice me in a 'relationship' kind of way. What I figured out as I got older is that the guys your age might be immature or scared. Older men have experience in talking to women. Guys your age might still be immature and not into getting a girlfriend or maybe just maybe they don't know how to talk to girls making it look like they're not interested. Things will change I can assure you.
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im 14
well, ive been dating my boyfriend Jonny for about 3 weeks now. & im not 'in love' with him. hes a sweet guy and everything, but im not in love with him like i thought i would have been. me and him went through so much to be togher :/ befor we dated he was my bestfriend. and i always went to him for all my guy problems, and like i cant help but think of other guys sometimes.
i really dont wanna lose him bc i really like him. like, is it a good thing that im not in love so early in the relationship? or should i end it befor it gets seriouse? :/ (link)
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Well you know it's ONLY been 3 weeks?
I'm confused by this question because I don't know exactly what you're looking for in a relationship. You know that there is no actual "spark" that they speak of. When you get into a relationship there is a "honeymoon" phase where you're 'goo goo ga ga' for each for at least for a couple of months. I guess if you don't feel the way you think you're suppose to then it's best to end it now and be honest with him than rather continue a relationship where you don't feel the same way.
I dated my best friend. We were friend for 7 months and then dated for a year and a half. I started to feel at the end that I wasn't happen and there was another guy on my mind that I wanted to be with. I was always trying to find ways to tell my boyfriend at the time and I just couldn't. I didn't want to hurt him and it was really hard to tell him how I felt.
My advice is be honest with him and yourself and move on. It's best you do this now rather than waiting later to tell him. Put yourself in his shoes hwo would you feel if he did this to you?
Honesty is the BEST policy!
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I'm 18. Female. Senior in high school. I like my friend who is also female. We are both Bisexual. She is a junior in high school. We've never had girlfriends, and its been a while since we've had boyfriends. ive liked her on/off for a year, and i dont want to ruin our friendship if she doesnt like me like that. also, we are in orchestra together, and she is my section leader.. so if anything bad happens to our relationship, or even if shes weirded out by me liking her, it will affect that class ,and i dont want that to happen. what should i do?
thanks a bunch :) (link)
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Well you have to figure out what is more important having a relationship or the friendship? I know you really like her but it sounds like the friendship means a lot more to you. I've asked out many of my guy friends and it hasn't always worked out. Sometimes they got so weird they would stop talking to me. People take things differently I guess but it could be that if you do say something she might be unsure. Have you casually brought it up saying something like "I had a dream last night that we were together" and seeing what she says. You shouldn't be scared or anything its not like you're planning on stalking her or anything. I'm sure you'll figure out something and when you do you'll be happy with your decision I'm sure.
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i just found out that i am preganet my last menstrual cycle was aug 31st to sept 5. i cant remember if i slept with the other guy the week of my period or the week before my period. and i splet with my boyfriend they week i should have been ovulation confussed is there any chance the other guy can be the father i am about 8 weeks preganant (link)
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There is no one that is going to be able to tell you who the father of your baby is. So it's best that you get a paternity test done and find who the father of the baby is.
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i like a guy who has been in a relationship with another girl for two and half years. he says they are done but last week over fall break he went nine hours to see her, has pictures of them everywhere, constantly texting her, etc. he shows signs of liking me but i do not know how real it is because we never really hang out unless he wants me to spend the night with him (we never do anything) and seldom texting. what should i do? quit trying? give him space? keep trying? (link)
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To be honest, I would move on.
If a guy wants to be with you he will do anything to hang out with you and will go out of this way to talk to you. No offense but this isn't a love triangle it sounds more like you're being used because he can't be with his ex. You don't deserve that so move on and find someone who is going to give you the attention you deserve!
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I dated a girl for 2 weeks(im bi). she decided we should be friends then in the future maybe something else. She will say things like so you cant handle bein friends huh or i dont want a relationship if we cant be friends then we shouldnt talk. but the other night i went out and she was like oh you went out? so the night after i got off work early she was shocked i went home she was like oh figured you would go out or something. if she just wants to be friends why she being like that? (link)
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It sounds like this girl doesn't know what she wants she sounds extremely confused. Sometimes girls even when we aren't in a relationship we act like we are. We want to know where you were who you were with and what you were up to? Sometimes its a 'game' where we think you might not go out because you'd rather be with us and that you're thinking of us. Other times its just to see what you really have been up to. My advice would be to give this girl some space because she sounds confused and sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. Eventually she'll come to you with her mind made up on whether or not she wants to be with you but for now give her space to think.
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