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Is she a friend?
So.. I have known this girl for a good number of years but she has given me some situations.
So... her side is that she keeps asking about the guy im seeing and asking how he is and earlier on she joked about how she should hook up with him.I told her not to message him and she did. I asked her and she said no.
His side is that he makes jokes and includes her in them and earlier on we walked and he was like oh she has to live around here. He brings her up a lot in jokes.
WHAT DO I DO!?
I have gotten hurt really bad before... and I dont know what to think. Should I talk to him about it?
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You really consider her a friend?
I find that crossing the line and I find it to e very disrespectful. Whether it's a joke or not it's not funny when you tell someone not to do something and they do it. As a friend she should have respected your wishes. I don't care if she is your best friend or not you don't do that to a friend. If you ask me you should be questioning your friendship with her because she seems like a crappy friend to me.
As for the boy, I would tell him how you feel and how you don't want your friend to be involved or be apart of this relationship.
I have a friend who had done a similar thing and I was bull. There is nothing worse than a friend backstabbing you or doing something that you CLEARLY said not to do.
In the end though you must choose what you want but I can tell you right now your "friend" doesn't sound like a friend at all.
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As much as it may hurt you to hear this, they have a thing going on from what you wrote, so if i were you i would get both of them together and talk about EVERY SINGLE little problem you have with eachother and if that doesn't work just dump your boyfriend and no she's not a real friend, she doesn't deserve your patience or trust so ya if i were you... always talk about things first though, because it's not good to jump to conclusions, trust me i've been down that road before and i learn that the hard way.
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