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Sorry I didn't come back and say thanks sooner. :( THANK YOU!


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thanks. I guess that's helpful...


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Thanks!


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I've thought bout this for a long time. This person basically read my mind.


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Thanks for your advice and Im done even thinking about the situation and I found someone new that might be something.


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Thank you so much.


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Thank you!


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Thank you so much. me and her did break up and im doing much better. thank you so much


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It was okay advice could be better though...


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Thank you :)


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Thanks :) I've told him stuff I haven't told anyone before it's just this one thing.


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tyyy :)


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thanks you! i talk to him and we try and fix stuff.


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Thank you! I just wanted to put some thought into it, you know? I guess it will just happen someday like you said. :)


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THANK YOU! you make me want to keep trying! i am going to see a councilor now and it is because of you!


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Thanx, Im staying with my Bf!! :) Oh and btw, the other guy did kiss me but i pulled away, slapped him and told my Bf, Thanx again, u Rock!! :)


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alright i mean, i understand that hes busy and can't juggle it. the breakup was mutual because i couldn't really stand him being too busy all the time. i appreciate the thought though


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Thank you for your time; my boyfriend pays out water bill, which is normally 100 a month; I've tried takling to my dad about rent and he said that he doesn't want his money; he needs to move out, becuse that was the deal; It's just so frustrating. My dad is the type that once he says No, it means no. He NEVER compromises. I had to give him $800 just to let my boyfriend live here! It would be different if him and my dad didn't get along, but they wrestle all the time, and there always going out together. I just don't get it. Ugh, but once again, thank you!


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You make a lot of sense to me. Thank you for your reply... :)


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I have tried the aspirin and stuff for inflammatory and I seen a doctor when i did have insurance and they did some test and said i didn't have arthritis


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Thank you.


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Thank you so much! I took your advice, and now I work at a daycare!


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thank you!!


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I have a really bad sore throat, i don't think it was the same thing! but thankk you (:


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Rating changed by DN: Your account has been closed. You have to have respect for the people who try and help you. Original: Umm i can like both just for your info so uh dont fucking tell me i can onnly like one because i love my boyfriend and it may seem wrong but i broke up with him, kissed the other guy and asked him out again so fuck u!


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thanks


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Gave me a different perspective! [: loved it!


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Hey thanks :) your feedback is great the only downer is that I'm isolated and there's no clubs or anything and if there was i wouldn't really be able to get to them.. Towns over an hour away but thanks :)


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Thanks lol I'm shy tho(:


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thanks


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Thank you-he's since been deleted :)


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you're totally right. thanks for the advice!


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thanks!!!!!


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thank you :)


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thanks,you're right:)


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Thanks for the advice :D


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thank you so much...it just hurts knowing that ill never get to see him again after tonight...i just went to his viewing and it didnt look like him at all with the make up and stuff on him to cover his cuts and bruises. i miss him sooo much! )': ...he still has his purple tips in his hair that he loves(: and his board right next to him(: ....i just miss his smiling face. it was contagious to everyone! ....but he is still living on. he just saved 5 kids lives..his heart is still beating...but in a little 12 year old boy


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Thank you. I know what you mean


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Thanks, my fellow Glee fan! :D These are some good ideas. I appreciate your help. :) I'll ask some of my friends and see if your suggestions would work for me. Have a great day, and happy holidays/new year! :D


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Thank you!


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Thanks so much. My friends don't care to hear me talk about him so your input means a lot to me.


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thats really good advice. I will try that. thanks!


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thanks! that makes me feel better :)


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thank youuu


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thanks for your words of advice!!!


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Thank you :)


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Thank you so much youre advice was great.


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Thank you! I've made a scrapbook for him before, so I think I'll go with giving him a picture in a picture frame, or maybe a storybook! Happy Holidays!


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Thank you so much!


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Thank you very much for your advice it was a big help.x


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Thanks for this it really helped me :)


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I love you!! you have given me (confirmed) what i have been feeling, thinking and im not crazy!! i appreciate your kind words and yup am healing now and its funny the way you said il forget about him, i sure wish we can edit our memories and leave the good memories behind..yeah, boys and girls are supposed to be complimentary and the one for me or for him is not there yet, and il be healing soon and im just feeling sad on idle time i guess.. il keep busy and keep praying and I hope you keep on giving good advice. isnt this site so wonderful!! I wish i could heal like you too! Have a good weekend!! thank you so much!!!


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We had other reasons for breaking up, but lack of standard was an issue to me as well. Thank you, though.


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thankyouuu :D really helped !


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Thankss :)


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Thank you so so so much! I never thought of any inside jokees! He loved it alot.


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Thank you so much! This is encouraging. We did break up, but the idea is "taking a break" to make things better, and currently, we are getting along a lot better. Thanks again!


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Thanks.


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Thank you!


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Thats a good way to put it!!! Thanks!!! :D


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Thank you, I'm glad someone feels the same way!


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Thanks!!!


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Thanks, I have told my mom, and she is really annoyed that a grown woman is threatening me. But the only problem is if she phones her then that gives his mother more reason to phone me again


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He and i are both nurses and have been for two years.


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Thanks...last night I got some earplugs but they felt weird! lol I dont want to feel deaf! But thanks!


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ur right haha. i have sworn mutual friends to secrecy but maybe its time they speak up :)


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Thanks that's what I'm planning to do.


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We have talked on the phone and it's great. It's just for some reason in person he's awkward. He could tell me jokes over the phone for hours but if we talk face to face he freaks out haha. Thanks(:


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Thank you(: I have slays wanted what I can't have so I guess this situation is no different. I want the "chase" as you said.


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okay thanks!:)


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I wasn't going to pursue him anyway because I grew up with his girlfriend. Thank you, though.


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Your the only one who wasn't like "There's not point." Nd I thank you for that. Oh and I know.


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thanks.


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Thank you... I'm trying to stay calm..


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thanx a lot for ur advice...


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thank you, i'll try seeing if my friend crystal can get in touch with her but if it continues i should just let it go and move on you shined a new light on the situation for that i thank you.


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thanks i got a pill :) xx


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thank you ! that helps :)


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thanks so much!


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thank you so much! this helped and i do plan on, one day telling him how i really feel. and i hope what happened to you, will happen to me!


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I don't get a lot time from my mom and some one said I was not cute and my sister was. Right to her and my face. Thanks for the ansers


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thanks!


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Thank you :) its hard to not talk to him , I do miss him but its the right thing to do not to talk..his birthdays next week I dont know if I should say happy birthday or not...and sorry lol why do you think he still wants to talk to me?


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thanks! i think im going to keep looking ^^


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i just met her mom today, and i told my mom, she just shrugged it off.... she was tired of working too much, so I helped my friend as much as i can, she says she feels a lot better now


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I agree with you.. Communication and trust is very important.. I don't understand why his mum didn't just say..Mona you come over to.. or even call me. he makes it such a big issue for me to get more closer to her yet when I call her she acts like shes surprised/shocked as t why I am calling. I can tell it in her voice...it goes both ways not one.. and I don't want to go bend over backwards to please someone or what not if they don't receive it well or do anything in return.. Am I wrong to feel that way? pls do tell me...


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Thank you so much!!!


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thanks, it helps to know others feel this way too


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thanks a lot~!


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Thank you:) I hope I do find someone


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thanks my problem is i really love my current boyfriend of 1 year and i just can't help but have feelings for that ex. i would never talk to him or date him again so idk what to do.


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Thanks, I think she does know though because I was cold to her and all of a sudden she is being extra friendly


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Well the one is my best friend, so I realy can't just stop hanging out with her. And I know she can do what she wants, but I'm just worried she is going to get shot or something


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I want to thank you! I can't express in words enough How much I thank and appreciate your advice! :)


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I agree with the "limited contact and a guy will come around", thank you :)


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thank you! probably the best advice i've gotten so far cause you understand. me and my ex broke up because of a stupid fight that caused me to cheat and miss my single life. biggest mistake EVER. but thank you very much :)


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