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Is it stupid that I still like him?
I am 13 years old and in 7th grade. Over the summer, I went to my friend's house with my two best friends and three guys. Two were from my school already and were complete d-bags. But the third was a guy from a different school. When we were at her house, he was flirting with me a LOT. Also, there was a girl that he recently dated calling him frequently when we were there. One time when she called, he made my answer the phone and tell her to: "Stop calling my fricken boyfriend!" Of course, I listened to him. Later, back at my house. He texted me saying: what up fake gf? I responded: nothing much, fake bf ;). Then he responded something cheesy like: wanna make that a real bf ;). Me, being stupid, said yes immediately. Flash forward. We broke up because he thought that I wasn't into the relationship. Now he's dating one of the school sluts. I'm pretty sure I still like him. Oh, and for the record, I'm known as "the nerd" in our grade, and he's known as "the player". Should I just suck up my feelings and get over him?
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Hey,
I'm 16/f but have been through a similar experience to you.
For about a year I felt like wanting to get back with my ex. This is because humans want what we can't have.
So you know that becacause your ex has a gf now, you can't have him-so you want him, follow?
Over time however, i've come to realize theres a hell of a lot more to life than living in the past. As hard as it may be, your gonna have to move on at some point in your life so you may as well do it now whilst your still young.
My advice-write down a list of all the bad things hes done to you, and read it when you feel attracted to him. It's always gonna be hard moving on from someone so significant, but thats life-gotta take the rough with the smmoth.
Also, you'll come to realise that your worth much more and someone will love you and be faithful, not a player and messing with your emotions.
Good luck :)
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Do you want to get over him?
That's all up to you and that's a decision that you need to make. Not to mention he does have a girlfriend now and it seems to me that he's moved on. I guess you can talk to him and tell him about hwo you feel but I don't know if its going to move further due to the fact he has a girlfriend. I would say move on and find another guy who isn't a "player" and who is a decent guy who is going to treat you right.
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