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if you just wanna be friends then why...
I dated a girl for 2 weeks(im bi). she decided we should be friends then in the future maybe something else. She will say things like so you cant handle bein friends huh or i dont want a relationship if we cant be friends then we shouldnt talk. but the other night i went out and she was like oh you went out? so the night after i got off work early she was shocked i went home she was like oh figured you would go out or something. if she just wants to be friends why she being like that?
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She doesn't know what she wants, Sounds to me like she is just playing a mind game. If she wants to be friends with you then that's fine but I would also sit down and talk to her that if she wants a friendship with you then she needs to know that's all it is. The user below me is right, Sometimes people act out on things to more then what it is. Maybe this girl makes a better friend then a girlfriend, She is the one that wanted a friendship then she should respect that's what it is. I would sit down and talk to her but I would do it in a way that if she wants to be friends then fine but respect your privacy by not asking constantly of where you've been and who you've been with.
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It sounds like this girl doesn't know what she wants she sounds extremely confused. Sometimes girls even when we aren't in a relationship we act like we are. We want to know where you were who you were with and what you were up to? Sometimes its a 'game' where we think you might not go out because you'd rather be with us and that you're thinking of us. Other times its just to see what you really have been up to. My advice would be to give this girl some space because she sounds confused and sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. Eventually she'll come to you with her mind made up on whether or not she wants to be with you but for now give her space to think.
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