13/f
I gotten really close with this one guy (I'm a freshman and he's a senior). We text everyday and he is really nice to me. He tells me I smell good and my hair is cute and offers to be my pillow for bus rides (we are both in band). He even gave me a cute nickname and tells me he loves me all the time. Yesterday, when I fell asleep on him on the bus ride home, our section took pictures of us and made fun of us for the rest of the day. He told me that they think I like him, but he doesn't mind as long as it doesn't bother me. Earlier he asked me if I like him. Does it mean anything? Btw he has a girlfriend.
meg1013o5 answered Sunday October 30 2011, 10:01 pm: I think he does I have the same problem and when i confronted the guy he said he did but he didnt want to do anything for sure to make sure i liked him and i said i thought u had a girlfriend and apparently he was lieing to try and get me... so maybe ur guy is doing the same thing [ meg1013o5's advice column | Ask meg1013o5 A Question ]
Xui answered Monday October 24 2011, 3:41 am: There are a few things weird about this
1, He is a senior, He is or either soon going to be 18 and that would legally make him an adult.
2, He has a girlfriend and is willing to risk his relationship he has now to cheat with someone else.
Really, You don't find it at all weird that someone that is 18 years old would be showing interest in someone who is 13? There is nothing wrong with being 13 but someone who is of his age should not be looking at people your age.
Also, Do you really want to put yourself in position where you would possibly be the girl he cheated with? Imagine how his girlfriend would feel if she ever found out. Don't be his rebound, That is exactly what it would make anyone who cheats on their partner. It sounds to me that he may not necessarily like you he likes the idea of using you. Guys think about sex, Sometimes unfortunately the older guys go for the younger girls because they are more vulnerable and believe almost anything. He has a girlfriend, I think your best bet is to let him play someone else a fool. You should know well enough that someone who cheats isn't right for you never mind the fact that he is too old for you as well. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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