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"Don't turn awayDry your eyes, dry your eyes
Don't be afraid
Keep it all inside, all inside
When you fall apart
Dry your eyes, dry your eyes
Life is always hard
For the belle of the boulevard."
-Belle of the Boulevard by Dashboard Confessional
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I dont wanna hear how i shouldnt do it
just tell me if there is a way i can do it painlessly.
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Don't give up yet. Let's talk about it.
Here's my e-mail: joosteene@yahoo.com
alright.. so basically there's this girl. she used to be my bestfriend (lets call her sally) well sally was my boy bestfriend's girlfriend (jimmy) so my two bestfriends were dating. everything was great, until i realized sally was being a huge whore. i was jimmy's bestfriend first.. so after i debated what to do for a while i told him how she would flirt with every guy she could get her hands on. he yelled at her but they made up, and i was fine with that. i thought " ok, now she's scared that they'll break up and she wont flirt anymore" well that didnt work. she kept flirting.. so i told him again. this time i even had proof she did (pictures, texts, etc) so they broke up.. i didnt want to tell sally i did this because she was still my bestfriend and i didnt want to loose her. i just didnt like her choices. sally ended up finding out and we found for like two days. sally would always be a bitch to me and treat me bad.. so i didnt really mind. they ended up getting back together after a day.. and me and sally ended up making up. sally is a grade below me, jimmy, and all of the other kids who hated sally (everyone hated sally because she was a huge bitch) so sally comes up to me and tells me how everyones talking shit about me and how i turned into a bitch and shes just being really rude to me. well now most of the people who hated her are friends with her and all turning at me and calling me a bitch and a backstabber and that i start all the drama... when really this is the first drama i've EVER started. and i didnt even start it, i was just involved. the guy who started this in the first place is bitching at me now. he constantly talked shit about sally then one day, just to SUCK UP to jimmy, he became friends with her and started spreading lies about how i always talk shit about sally which i dont. and i didnt tell jimmy to break up with sally, i just told him what his girlfriend had been up to because i was his bestfriend. sally played the nervous game with another guy and grabbed his dick, jimmy deserved to know that. but anyways... life just kind of sucks now and everyone thinks im mean but really im the sweetest girl ever. i need help on how to get my reputation back ;\
Sometimes the right thing isn't always the popular choice, but it's still what it is- the right thing. What's important is that you did the right thing.
Sure your reputation's shattered and all, but one day your "friends" will realize that they made a mistake and hopefully they will learn from it.
People tend to focus on the bad things about a person instead of the good stuff. However, that doesn't go for everybody. I think you're better off with someone who will value you as a friend.
If there's a part of you that still wants be friends with "Jimmy" or "Sally", I'll leave that decision to you. Although, I feel that you should try to find a new friend.
what would you do if the person your life revolves around, has a rapidly growing brain tumor and is shunning everything/everyone sayin he gives up on life? my world has halted and shattered into a million peices. we have been dating over a year pretty seriously and want to become more after college. He is my everything id do anything in my power and beyond for him but i cant even keep myself composed, i cant even tell anyone so they could help me. He woke up in the hospital again today for passing out, he says he is done with life, its irreversible..any advice at all is needed, and what do i do, what do i say to him, what do i do for the future. sorry if i am all over the place
Just pray and hope for the best. But more importantly, be there for him. The last thing he needs right now is for people to give up on him. He's going through a tough time right now and he will need every bit of love and support to move forward. Let him know how much he means to you.
I hope everything works out. Stay strong.
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I gotten really close with this one guy (I'm a freshman and he's a senior). We text everyday and he is really nice to me. He tells me I smell good and my hair is cute and offers to be my pillow for bus rides (we are both in band). He even gave me a cute nickname and tells me he loves me all the time. Yesterday, when I fell asleep on him on the bus ride home, our section took pictures of us and made fun of us for the rest of the day. He told me that they think I like him, but he doesn't mind as long as it doesn't bother me. Earlier he asked me if I like him. Does it mean anything? Btw he has a girlfriend.
He seems to like you. The only way to be sure if he really does have a girlfriend is to ask him. You're good friends with him. I'm sure he wouldn't mind if you asked.