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How to get everything back?
alright.. so basically there's this girl. she used to be my bestfriend (lets call her sally) well sally was my boy bestfriend's girlfriend (jimmy) so my two bestfriends were dating. everything was great, until i realized sally was being a huge whore. i was jimmy's bestfriend first.. so after i debated what to do for a while i told him how she would flirt with every guy she could get her hands on. he yelled at her but they made up, and i was fine with that. i thought " ok, now she's scared that they'll break up and she wont flirt anymore" well that didnt work. she kept flirting.. so i told him again. this time i even had proof she did (pictures, texts, etc) so they broke up.. i didnt want to tell sally i did this because she was still my bestfriend and i didnt want to loose her. i just didnt like her choices. sally ended up finding out and we found for like two days. sally would always be a bitch to me and treat me bad.. so i didnt really mind. they ended up getting back together after a day.. and me and sally ended up making up. sally is a grade below me, jimmy, and all of the other kids who hated sally (everyone hated sally because she was a huge bitch) so sally comes up to me and tells me how everyones talking shit about me and how i turned into a bitch and shes just being really rude to me. well now most of the people who hated her are friends with her and all turning at me and calling me a bitch and a backstabber and that i start all the drama... when really this is the first drama i've EVER started. and i didnt even start it, i was just involved. the guy who started this in the first place is bitching at me now. he constantly talked shit about sally then one day, just to SUCK UP to jimmy, he became friends with her and started spreading lies about how i always talk shit about sally which i dont. and i didnt tell jimmy to break up with sally, i just told him what his girlfriend had been up to because i was his bestfriend. sally played the nervous game with another guy and grabbed his dick, jimmy deserved to know that. but anyways... life just kind of sucks now and everyone thinks im mean but really im the sweetest girl ever. i need help on how to get my reputation back ;\
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Why the hell would you want to be friends with "sally" and "jimmy". They( mostly sally) are the bitches. Honey here's the true: YOU NEED NEW FRIENDS!!!! You won't wrong for telling jimmy that sally was having sex with some other guy. Or grabbing some other guy dick. What ever. She was wrong.
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Wow this kind of drama sucks. You did do the right thing by telling Jimmy about what his girlfriend was doing. You weren't doing it to break them up, you were being the good friend.
My opinion is that you need to find new friends. Sally will probably never be the right friend for you because of how she acts and treats you. Jimmy keeps making the mistake by going back to her and if he's mad at you then that is extremely stupid.
Find friends that aren't like that and are grateful to have you around.
With your friends right now, let everything die down. There isn't much you can do because Sally is telling lies and people like to believe those more.
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Sometimes the right thing isn't always the popular choice, but it's still what it is- the right thing. What's important is that you did the right thing.
Sure your reputation's shattered and all, but one day your "friends" will realize that they made a mistake and hopefully they will learn from it.
People tend to focus on the bad things about a person instead of the good stuff. However, that doesn't go for everybody. I think you're better off with someone who will value you as a friend.
If there's a part of you that still wants be friends with "Jimmy" or "Sally", I'll leave that decision to you. Although, I feel that you should try to find a new friend.
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