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he is to SHY to ask me out.
There is this boy that likes me A LOT and I like him to but deep down but my friend tells me he is to SHY to ask me out. HELP ?!
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Well you could ask him out but there is method to approaching him regardless of who you want to ask who.
First of all, are you usually with a crowd of friends? Is he? you should catch him when you two are alone (or maybe you and one other female friend). Ask him some non-threatening open ended questions could be as simple as being about his hobbies or a class you share etc. Strike up a conversation real casual like. Get him to do some simple activities with you (getting lunch or picking up a coffee). Tell him a little about yourself. Hopefully this will open him up a little bit. If you end with a compliment, if all goes well its possible that you two could establish contact. Establish some small social gatherings or lunches so it doesn't put the pressure on him right away. After that you two could go alone to a movie or something else.
Just gradually build up his confidence around you. :)
Eventually he may ask you out.
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Then why don't you go ask him out yourself? It's not like the old days where you had to wait for the boy to court you. If you like him and he likes you and he isn't making a move then go on and ask him. Do you like him? Do you want to go out with him? Then ask him out before someone else does. It's better to say how you feel than to say nothing at all. Good luck! :)
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