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ok so i've been talking to this guy online. and he goes to a different school then me. im 15 and he is 16. im gonna be a freshmen and he is gonna be a junior. we talk all the time. we get along great. he is always saying im beautiful. and last time he said i reall do mean it. and he is always saying im here for u if u need someone to talk to. and earliar he just gave me his number. oh and he is my ex best friends ex boyfriend. they went out for like a week and a half. i was wondering if he likes me? or has feelings for me?

sry its so long. please help.
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hey

whoa it definitely sounds like it! if he said all those reassuring things like you're beautiful & that he's there for you, then he may very well have strong feelings for you.

he seems to be way over your ex best friend though, so i wouldn't think too much of it.

no one on this site can accurately tell you, whether he likes you or not.

if you like him, why not flirt back & tell him you like him? :] what's there to lose if he goes to a different school than you?



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just be honest with her. i mean, i can see why she would be upset, but tell her that you really like him & hope that she understands. if things don't work out with you & your mom, you REALLY need to sit her down and clearly explain to her. also, listen to her side of the story :]


im on summer vaca but i think im gonna have LOADS of trouble with 7th grade next year. i need some study tips or some way to make time since i play sports that take up most of my time.



thanks. (link)
hey

look, academics is your number one priority. sports is second.

if you start out 7th grade with lots of trouble, you should consider dropping a sport so that you have more time to study. that is my honest opinion.

you should consider making a schedule & STICKING to it. designate 1-2 hours of ONLY HOMEWORK time. aka, no phone, no IMing, no hanging out with friends, watching tv, etc. in that frame of time, get ALL your homework / projects / studying done.

i am a straight A student right now, and it was PRETTY easy to get there. you just have to prioritize. write down every assignment you have in your agenda (that's what we call it.. like an organizer) & invest in a monthly calendar at home. write down all your assignments on it & all your other extra curricular activities. that way, you can see how much time you have left after each day to complete each assignment.

i'll tell you what i do in addition to that. im SURE you've already begun getting overlapping assignments, which is when you have more than one assignment due at at time. when i get an assignment thats due date is closest to today's date, i get as much done on that one as possible. i'm not the type of person who does "a little bit each day." i start a task, i end the task & move on to the next one. i dont know how you are, but that's how i function & i find it to be very effective.

think about it. you have a to do list of 20 things. wouldn't you rather be able to check each thing off as you do it instead of doing a LITTLE bit of each one? you feel like you've accomplished nothing, when you actually have!

to be perfectly honest, sweetie, 7th grade is the easiest of all of middle school. in 6th grade, all the teachers load up on work saying, "THIS ISN'T ELEMENTARY SCHOOL ANYMORE! IT'S MIDDLE SCHOOL!" & in 8th grade your teachers say, "WE HAVE TO PREPARE YOU FOR THE HIGH SCHOOL!" if you do really well in 7th grade, 8th will be a breeze...

you just have to learn how to manage your time & stay organized.

another tip i have that i find VERY good :] is you have a separate binder for each subject. now, i know you're thinking, "that's crazy!!" but if you have a 1/2 inch binder for every subject, you don't have to take as many binders to each class (aka less binders being unnecessarily dragged around). if you have a math worksheet, for example, and you need notes from your binder, you only have to take your MATH BINDER home. not your "everything" binder. it's that simple. also, keep a homework folder. if you ONLY have a math worksheet & don't need your notes, just stick it in your homework folder instead of dragging your whole binder home! :]

now that i've told you everything you need to be organized for 7th grade, just go to this site -

http://www.google.com/search?q=study+tips&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&aq=t&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a

- & read up on each link. there's lots of different types of studying, so no one can really tell you HOW to study. it depends on how YOU retain information.

it's only july 10 - don't worry too much about having trouble with 7th grade. try your best & do the BEST work you can. don't skip homework when it only takes 10 minutes.

i'm sure you'll do fine. just believe in yourself.

[ oh & i'm really sorry this is kinda long, but i kinda had to say all that stuff ]



Hi im 14m and i was wondering...im about 6 1/4 and about 1 inch thick...i was wonder if thats big or small..please answer
thanks..
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hey

wow that's big for a 14 year old :] no worries.

average for a fully grown adult male is 6-7 inchess so you're definitely good to go.



what are some really funny your tube videos? your favorites? (link)
hey

i have one favorite.

the myspace movie.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CunJcv89wuk


these are good too -

shoes.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SMF2Eb0Wa_I

text message breakup.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XcidD2HFK8M

muffins.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MNxwAU_xAMk

yellow fever.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FOyRWuklsiQ



what are some really funny your tube videos? your favorites? (link)
jklproductions
Search them on youtube
They are realllly funny.
Espeicially ''Fred goes to the park'' or any other Fred ones.

Charlie the unicorn.
Again, it's really funny.

Pat and stanley - in the jungle
I could watch it over and over again and NOT get bored.

Kozo the purple dancing hippo =]
There isn't that many of him but it's still funny


Hope i helped
xx


i want to make a AIM new screen name. I have tried....

Xx_muah_xX
Xx_kisses_xX
Xx_Erin_xX

and stuff like that, but they have all been taken. I really want my sn to have Xx_ _xX in it, with a word in the middle. But I want it to be cute, and I dont want any numbers in it. Please give me your ideas.

Thanks : ] (link)
Hmm... well what you should do is think of a word that describes you then put your name after it.

Or you could use character symbols and write your name, or a word, out.

Just be creative =]

Hope i helped
xx


14/f

okay, my boyfriend calls me his everything.. and that he doesn't want to loose me and stuff like that.. and me & him worked out EVERYTHiNG so theres basically nothing wrong in the relationship. but one of the things that we worked out still bothers me.. cause yannoe it was dealing with this girl .. who used to be my friend cause she talked behind my back and stuff.. and was also his last girlfriend. and it had been almost a year since they've broken up. and hes kinda stupid in relationships cause they stopped talking because she was talking behind my back to him, so he didn't want to be friends with her anymore. and like 2 months later she talked to him first, and now they're friends again. like.. bestfriends. so thats why i can't trust them together yannoe? cause she told him that she doesn't hate me and she stopped talking about me a long time ago. but EVERYBODY knows she hates me... she even left some clues that are obvious that says she hates me.. and she talked about me to him, but he was slow enough not to know. and he says "she wouldn't lie to me.. cause we're good friends." and he even talks about our relationship problems with her.. but the reason why i have changed, and i don't want her to get to know me anymore. and then when we talked it out... he told me that he'll change and he'll come to me now, and talk it out with me for now on. and that he loves me, and that his ex and him are bestfriends.. but she could basically be his mother (not the first time i heard that), and that i'm not competing with her or anything. >. (link)
hey

look, i agree with the person under me with that if you really TRULY believe that you guys are meant to be together, then stay with him. but it would be a risk, you see. because what if lyna & your boyfriend have something going on? what if one day he breaks up with you because of her?

i, honestly, think that he does like you truly right now & doesn't realize the position you are in is very awkward not only with the relationship with your BOYFRiEND, but for the relationship you [partially] have with lyna. i mean c'mon now, is your boyfriend compLETELY oblivious to the fact that you don't like him talking about your relationship ship problems with a girl that said horribly mean things about you behind your back? that's insane. but guys are strange creatures.

look, have you tried talking to him? just alone. have you ever sat him down & told him, "look, baby, i know that you told me i'm your everything, & i know i like you a lot. but it's REALLY burdening me that you & lyna are best friends. i'm not going to force you guys to part or anything JUST because i'm your girlfriend & you have 'to do everything i say' cause you don't. you make your choices, but i'm just informing you that the excessively close friendship you have with lyna is making this relationship a little awkward for me." just flat out tell him the truth. don't don't don't say, "STOP BEING FRIENDS WITH LYNA!" he will think you are the dominant, demanding, well, bitch, but you're not like that, i know. so my suggestion would be to type out EXACTLY what you want to say on like microsoft word or something, modify it & partially memorize it. because, if you just email it to him / IM it to him, it can EASILY get around to lyna. so just meet him at a cafe or at your house one day, & just talk to him about it.

a good relationship has open communication, girl.

also, hun, why don't we step back & take a moment to look in his shoes? he loves this beautiful girl and is going out with her, and is best friends with his ex-girlfriend. his girlfriend & his best friend are at odds, & it's hard for him too. just don't say anything to make HIS awkwardness more, well, awkward.

she probably became best friends with him because she still likes him. she probably wants to know EVERYTHING that's going on in his life. - keep your friends close & your enemies closer, is the saying that she is following.

if he gets mad at you / doesn't listen, i wouldn't bother talking to him about it again. cause i mean maybe he's thinking that you want to take control of everything including who he is friends with. you HAVE to make it clear that that's NOT your goal. you just want to sort out the problems in the relationship. -- i'd break up with him if he's not willing to listen to your side of the story.

if there is something unclear in my answer, please tell me in the feedback.



this is me: im 13 im only a small bit over average height, i have slightly tanned skin, im pretty thin, i have short spikey dark blond hair, i skate, i play football, i have a deep voice, i like to wear boards shorts, flip-flops, tee shirts and caps. i wear abercrombie and hollister.i like to play sport and im easy to talk to. (link)
hair is the main thing. and short spikey hair sounds weird. let it be natural and kinda shaggy. spikey hair is for little boys.


15/m i dip (chewing tobaco)and if my dentist knows i dip can he tell my mom (link)
Yes. If the dentist can tell your mom that you're eating too much candy, he can tell her about chewing tobaco. And by the way, that's gross. Girls DO NOT like that, at all.


Ok, so this is a bit of a silly question, but do you know anything about working on ski boat motors? I know it's different from a car, but you are the most knowledgeable in the engine repair field, and quite frankly the only person I trust to ask.

I don't have all the information, because I'm a silly woman... ;)

But I can tell you the problem- the linkage needs to be repaired (replaced?) I want to say it is underneath the motor? Not real sure on that.

Is it hard to do, I wonder? Anything you may know about it will be of great help.

No worries- I won't be the one working on it, but the boat mechanics in our area get $70 per hour, and that is WAY out of our budget, so we can't go that route.

Thank you so much for your time, and I hope I that I wasn't too vague, as I feel I was...

*By the way- Nice picture... (link)
honestly dude. first off boats. i know nothing about. but secondly, i can say this much. if the linkage needs to be replaced you need to find out if it's the accelerator linkage or the shift linkage. then follow the linkage from the accelerator or shifter to the engine or transmission (do boats even have transmissions? i guess they do there has to be something to transmit the engine's power to the propeller) i guess just follow the lines and see where they lead, pull em up, buy replacement lines, and go from there. all an accelerator linkage really is, is a metal line that opens and closes the fuel pump relay and allows for more or less fuel to be put into the engine. replacing it yourself isn't hard, just time consuming. i don't know much about boats, but it's not a difficult job for a car. just a long one.


my best friends birthday is coming up and i want to get her something special...and i cant get her a neclace bc thats what i got her last year..and it cant jus be money or anything

i need ideass

thanks in advance. (link)
Well for buying maybe you can do like a theme gift.
Like for example:

A Day at the Beach.
-beach bag
-water bottle
-towel
-magazine
-sunglasses

Or

A Day at the Spa
-face mask
-a loofa thing
-eye tweezers
-a cucumber lol
-lotion
-bodywash
etc.

And maybe you can make like a collaged picture of you two and frame it.
If theres a dollarstore or something in your area you could get a nice frame.

If you don't like the theme ideas maybe some Cd's or if she has an ipod some accessories for that. Maybe some books, makeup, clothes, jewelery, etc.


15/f
I had sex. I told my doctor b.c. she said it was confidential. She told me she was going to do a pap-smear next time we met. I'm totally against it because I'm not having sex again untill I'm married. Can I like .. refuse to have one? (link)
You probably can. They can't MAKE you have one. Just tell her I'll pass or something.


Okay well im a 13 years old girl im going into Jr.high and like all my friends are going to a different school. Accept for ONE, and she is nice when its just me and her but like she is two faced like alot when she's with me she talks shit about someone and then i'll ask her is there someting about me you dont like? and she say no and then from other people i hear she does talk shit about me and wont tell them what she has said about them. God i mean its horrible. can you answer how i should react to this? and one more question how can i be like top gog/ and or popular in 7th grade? like just popular. ya know
Thanks in advance! :D (link)
ok just looking at the title of this and the way it was type i agree..it is deeply suggested.

Anyways on a more serious non-sarcastic note

If shes talking shit about you either confront her, or forget about her and your friendship. No one should be treated like that.
Secondly, your going into Jr. High, try to make it a fresh start. If you want to be popular, try to talk to everyone. If it's like a popularity clique you wanna be in, try to find common interests and i guess "impress" them.

If you do become popular, DONT BE TWO-FACED. It will kick you right in the ass.


Alright, so I'm going to get my eyebrows waxed for the first time EVER sometime this week, and I'm a little nervous.

1) How long will it take?

2) How do they do it?

3) On a scale one to ten, ten being highest, how bad did it hurt for you the first time?

4) What age did you start getting yours waxed/plucked, etc?

5) How often will I need to get them redone or whatever?

Plz help, I'm a little confused, and really nervous. (link)
hey

whoa, no need to be nervous girl!

1.) a few minutes, like, maybe 5-10
2.) they put this hot liquid on your eyebrows (where they want to take the hair off) and they put this almost tape-like looking thing on top of the hot wax, press down, and rip it off really fast.
3.) 3 or 4... it didn't hurt.
4.) i got mine first waxed when i was 13
5.) probably every few weeks, maybe 4-6 depending on how fast your eyebrow hairs grow back.

i don't get my eyebrows waxed, i get them threaded. threading shapes your eyebrows.



okay so about a week ago this guy fingered me, and afterwards he jacked off to himself.afterwards maybe a couple hours later he fingered me again. i don't think he washed his hands after he jacked off so could this mean that i may be pregnant? (link)
hey

well, if it was a couple of hours the chances are slim but still there. the possibility that the sperm lived for two hours and then made it right into your vagina is quite unlikely. sperm usually die within an hour of being exposed to the outside air. i wouldn't worry too much, but if you're scared then take a pregnancy test to be accurate.



This guy acted completely into me and than he does a 180 and ignores me, why? (link)
maybe hese just very flirty, and he didnt like you really after all.


ok i know this song is sang by femals and its a hip hop pop genre, the music video has a big martini glass in it and the girl sits inside it and she sings the song, and thats all i can remember maybe also the song being something about the word sexy?


help! what is the name of the song and who sings it anyway??? (link)
haha im pretttyy sure its "naughty girl" by beyonce
because she says sexy in that song a lott =]


is there a way you can block people on here?? (link)
sorryyy no but if your having a problem with someone, then you should just report them under the "report abuse" on the left-side navigation
or just go here http://www.advicenators.com/abuse.php


ok i know this song is sang by femals and its a hip hop pop genre, the music video has a big martini glass in it and the girl sits inside it and she sings the song, and thats all i can remember maybe also the song being something about the word sexy?


help! what is the name of the song and who sings it anyway??? (link)
it could be Naughty Girl by Beyonce
other than that i dont know.


when you're on your honeymoon do you have to have sex? is that what the guy usually expects to happen? (link)
Its supposed to be the ultimate gesture of love, thats kinda why you should wait 'til you're married. I would expect it, because love is the most romantic and pleasuring thing really that you can do.




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