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OkAy HeLp Is DePly SuDgEsTeD !
Okay well im a 13 years old girl im going into Jr.high and like all my friends are going to a different school. Accept for ONE, and she is nice when its just me and her but like she is two faced like alot when she's with me she talks shit about someone and then i'll ask her is there someting about me you dont like? and she say no and then from other people i hear she does talk shit about me and wont tell them what she has said about them. God i mean its horrible. can you answer how i should react to this? and one more question how can i be like top gog/ and or popular in 7th grade? like just popular. ya know
Thanks in advance! :D
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who cares if your popular or not, it doesnt even matter. just make new friends and dont act fake
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hey,
well how to deal with her...hmmm,
just tell her to her face. tell her you keep hearing people who say that she talked stuff about you and you dont like it. tell her you dont like epople jsut coming up to you and telling you that she talks behind your back. id say step away from her. like dont trust her alott and dont talk to her that much. first before you do anything find out though if shes really talking behind your back then you can step away.
now how to become popular...
just talk to everyone. be friendly. i know in tv shows and movies it shows that the popular ones are always mean. thats not always true. trust me. ive been through it. jsut talk to everyone and dont be twoface evryone hates that! also, join as many clubs and after school activites as you can. jsut be a good student. and just please dont try to hard. people will notice. good luck!
xoxo,
blackluna7111
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ok just looking at the title of this and the way it was type i agree..it is deeply suggested.
Anyways on a more serious non-sarcastic note
If shes talking shit about you either confront her, or forget about her and your friendship. No one should be treated like that.
Secondly, your going into Jr. High, try to make it a fresh start. If you want to be popular, try to talk to everyone. If it's like a popularity clique you wanna be in, try to find common interests and i guess "impress" them.
If you do become popular, DONT BE TWO-FACED. It will kick you right in the ass.
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part one to your anwser - how to deal with her.
on IM ( i usually deal with shit on IM and im 13 also ) be like hey whats up and stuff and a little on in the conversation not meanly just be like 'so why do i hear your talking shit about me?' or something. and if she says she doesnt be like well i dont want to rat on anyone but ___ amount of people had said so, i like you your a good friend but i dont want to hear your talking about me. and just go from there.
part two - i am popular and i knew i would be from the get go because in my town we have town cheerleaders and almost 90 percent of the girls become popular. and i was one who did become popular. join sports and such thats what i did. ive been in soccer since i was young and most cheerleaders also played soccer, so yah.. ha.
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ok, i dont have really have any tips on how to be popular or anything, but this is if you do get popular.
Dont be 2-faced. it gets you in to trouble, no point really. if u want to say something about some one either tell it to their face or you might not want to say it. Because you could tell your best friend it and you and her get into a fight, well she will probably tell that person what you said. (i know from experience)
Just a warning.
As for your friend with the 2-faced problem, the best advice i can give you is 1)not to tell her anything too personal,stuff you wouldnt want some one else to find out;2)if you do confront her she may deny it, (most people i know do), everyone talks about some one at one point, especially us girls,some may not do it as much as others but weve all at least commented on some ones outfit and shit like that.
Another thing dont be what other people want you to be, because you could end up going to college and never seeing them again and stuff, just be the best you and be yourself, even if your dorky (like me). When i was going into seventh grade i really wanted to be popular but my friends werent and they showed me that as long as you have good friends you should be happy, when your popular you have an expection and have to worry about who is doing what, and who is talking about who, just a bunch of shit.
basic point is: popularity= more drama - true friends.
In most cases. I really hope i helped! Good luck! (if you got any questions about what i wrote or any of that feel free to ask away!)
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