♥[?]♥ Me and my girlfriend are in a delema she is makeing a dission between me or another guy she says she is confused. and she says she loves me but my point of view is if she loves me as much as she says she does then i would this it would be no comp. I love her like no other. Im thinking she is playing both sides she wants me to be here if she picks the other guy and it goes wrong with them. my prob is what should i do if she picks him. I would hope she'd pick me though.
If you love two, you don't love eitheR one enough.. peRiod; no possible way aRound that fact. Though unfoRtunate, I say you'Re betteR off picking up the pieces of youR bRoken heaRt and walking away fRom this Relationship. She obviously doesn't "love" you, because if she did she wouldn't want anyone else... because no one else in the woRld would be able to compaRe to you, and to what the two of you have togetheR. Love is RecipRocal, my fRiend, it's not just one-sided. Think of it this way: what's the point in giving youR heaRt away to someone who isn't willing to give you theiRs? I'm telling you to use youR head, and think of youR *OWN* well being on this one -- Don't waste anymoRe of youR time, teaRs oR effoRt on this chick; she's not woRthy. I wish you the best of luck - hopefully I've been of some assistance! Know that I am *ALWAYS, ALWAYS* heRe if you eveR need a second opinion. Chin up, DaRlin'... you'll be alRight. =D
Well... it depends on what "Shingle" you'Re talking about heRe. FoR instance, a shingle can eitheR be a small, thin piece of building mateRial usually with one end thickeR than the otheR foR laying in oveRlapping Rows to coveR the Roof and even sides of a building. ----OR---- A shingle can be small signboaRds usually designating a pRofessional office. ----OR---- A "Shingle" is a woman's haiRcut, made and most populaR during the mid-1920's I'm pRettie shoRe. It's also known as the "Eton"; it's wheRe the haiR is tRimmed shoRt fRom the fRont of the head to the back of the neck. The "Shingle" cut was slicked down with a cuRl on each side of the face that coveRed the woman's eaRs. This, is an example of a "Shingle", oR "Eton" cut: http://www.objectlessons.org/index.php?mod=PageMod.showComponent§ion_id=1&category_id=5&component_id=115&component_type=&tab=larger ----OR---- Shingles can be an acute viRal inflammation of the sensoRy ganglia of spinal and cRanial neRves. It's usually associated with a vesiculaR eRuption and neuRalgic pains Resulting fRom Reactivation HeRpes, causing chicken pox. I believe it's also called also HeRpes ZosteR, if that helps. If THAT is the shingles you aRe asking about, you might consideR visiting this website: http://www.niaid.nih.gov/factsheets/shinglesFS.htm I think you should find it helpful. =D
♥[?]♥ hey my name is Ashley and i'm a feamle(of course) and i'm 14 yrs. old heres my question for anybody with good advice!!!
I like my best friends ex!!! Heres the scoop... they broke up because my best friend was confused and she cheated on him. Well now(two months later) she starts telling me she now knows what she was missing and she really did love him and she wants desperately to go with him again. Now i've been talking to him since they broke up because he needed a friend cuz he really liked her but she cheated on him.(yea i kno guys actually have feelings...well at least the good ones) and i'm starting to like him now i mean he's the perfect boyfriend he's cute, hilarious, loving, i don't know he's just soOoOo great!! the thing is that my best friend who i've been friends with for almost 11 yrs. still "loves" him i really really think she'll be so mad if he askes me out or if i ask him. I dont know what to do cuz i dont want her to be mad at me but i dont get very many guys nowadays and i really like him and he told me i was hot yesterday please help me!!
Luv,
~~~ASHLEY~~~
P.S. i rate high
So the saying goes: "SisteRs befoRe MisteRs", my daRling! He may be a RemaRkable guy, but do you honestly think he's woRth the loss of youR fRiend?? I don't know anything about this giRl, but I'm going to assume she'd act like any otheR female who has just found out that heR best fRiend is dating the ex she wants back.. and FLIP!! Place youRself in HER shoes.. wouldn't you be angeRed?? Yes, it's tRue she did him wRong and disRespected him, and yes he DOES deseRve betteR than to be tReated that way, but it's just a known Rule of thumb not to get involved with a fRiend's significant otheR, past oR pResent. Well, whateveR you decide to do, I wish you the best of luck!!
♥[?]♥ okay so here's what's been going on.. i've been with my boyfriend for a while and i don't think i've ever been so happy with anyone else. he's the reason i live life each day and the reason i'm so happy. well lately we have been having problems and wouldn't stop arguing, and we would argue over things that we shouldn't argue over. we argued over somethings that i didn't mean to do, like things that i do on accident. i didn't think it was fair but there was really nothing i could do. i've been hurt so bad, and i've also never been so sad in my entire life! i am so in love with him and i want to stay with him but sometimes i don't know what to do because i've been hurt so much! but when we are together and having a great time, then i totally forget the pain i went through. he makes me forget the pain and makes me happy again, he like heals my heart! we haven't argued for a couple of days and we have been really happy and i think it's really good.. but this morning he was acting kind of strange and i was just a little confused because i think it has to do with me but i have no idea what i did. can you help me out and give me advice because he is the greatest thing in my life and means so much to me and i seriously don't want to lose him, but i want to make things better.
You can't let a few bad expeRiences Ruin youR chances at keeping up something that has pRoven to be tRuly RemaRkable -- that wouldn't be faiR to youRself. You deseRve to love and be loved, and although it's definitely taking a chance, it's woRth taking. Just keep youR chin up, push youR feaRs aside and be willing to give this youR all. I wish you the best of luck -- hopefully I've helped.
♥[?]♥ Lately i have been sad all the time im never happy anymore im always mad and sreaming or sad aand crying.. why im i like this all of a sudden..
I know exactly how you feel -- I've been feeling like this all the time lately; just so you know you'Re not alone. I'm not Really shoRe what causes it, it just soRt of happens, ya know? But I think if you just make a point of setting aside some time to be spent completely on youRself doing the things you love to do, you could be able to calm down quickly. Just tRy doing whateveR makes you happie! FoR instance, foR me.. my life is music, so I cRank up my steReo and staRt belting out song afteR song. I find that this woRks foR me eveRytime and even puts me in my cheeRiest mood all day. So if you like to paint... PAINT... if you like fashion, tRy mixing and matching things in youR closets to foRm new outfits. Also, you could tRy meditating, that helps many people Relax and Relief stRess, and keep it off too!! Goodluck to you, fRom someone who knows EXACTLY what you'Re going thRough! I hope eveRything woRks out, and hopefully I've been of some help heRe!!
♥[?]♥ I have had a cough for 6 months after i had the cold the cough stayed i have had anti biot from the doctor but this has not stopped it when i cough i start to gag and can not get breath it is as if i am chocking.
Whoa.. you Really ought to look into having youR phsycian diagnosis you heRe, RatheR than consulting us [though we'Re *fantistic*, we'Re *NOT* doctoRs]. I hope eveRything tuRns out okay! =D
so ive been babysitting jack and jill every other weekend. jill is really good and sweet but jack is not. now there mom wants me to watch them everyday in the summer. and i dont want to! im only 14 i have a life! but their mom is really pushy and in your face.
what should i do?
I'd punch heR in the mouth. But if that doesn't suit you, you could have youR Mom talk to heR about it. Though, if you ask me, it's best if YOU stand up to heR... that way she'll be moRe afRaid of pushing you aRound, because she'll know that even at 14, you have a mind of youR own, and you aRen't afRaid to stand up foR youR rights and beliefs. Just be polite, yet fiRm, and stick to youR guns. Let heR know that you have no pRoblem watching oveR heR childRen, and you'll take excellent caRe of them while undeR youR supeRvision, but she needs to consult with you in advance about taking the childRen to see if you have the time foR it. You can do this; I have complete faith in you! =D
♥[?]♥ I like two guys who are really awesome. I haven't been too close to either one of them yet, but I still don't want to like two guys in case on of them asks me out. I'll call the two guys Ben and Caleb. Ben has always been really nice to me and teases me playfully. Caleb sometimes has been mean to me but never teases me at all. Ben has actually talked to me and he's really cute, while Caleb has ignored me when his friends were around but has smiled at me when no one was looking. I want to give Caleb a chance because he might be nicer if he knows I like him, and Ben already knows I like him and has always been sweet. Any suggestions?
Suggestions? Yeah... Ben. Ditch Caleb. You'Re not even dating Caleb yet and *ALREADY* he's acting like you don't exist when he's with his fRiends - bad sign theRe... Best wishes to you; go get 'em, TigeR! =D
♥[?]♥ ok... i like this guy but i cant say his name, so ill call him MR. BIGGLESWORTH.....and he is dating one of my friends...and the other day my best frined told him i liked him alot and that i was practically in love with him(and i am but that wasnt the way id hoped he'd find out)and he didnt say anything but that copuld have been because his gf was right there idk.....but i really want to go out with and i want him to go out with me to...........on wednsday of last week we were in lunch and he sits about 3 tables over from mine.......and he kept callin my name and when i would look over to him he'd cover his eyes like he was playing peek-a-boo with me and he kept doing it.....then i went to his table to arm wrestle him and he kept letting me win and then finally he plaid for real and he said that if he won that we had to do stuff but he was joking........then i went to go back to my table and he wouldnt let me leave without giving him a hug...........and when he gave me a hug he touched my butt...i know that sounds bad but he only did that when he liked me.......i just want to ask that from what i just wrote....do you think he still likes me or not?i rate good if your answer is good
I'd say "MR. BiggleswoRth" most likely does infact have feelings foR you! HoweveR, if he is involved, especially if with a friend of youRs, I'd say it's best *NOT* to get so much involved with him. If he decides to bReak up with his giRlfRiend, then that's his business, but you Really ought to make shoRe he's not leaving someone else completely foR YOU! And if you choose to caRRie out a Relationship with him in the futuRe, then that's YOUR peRogative, but know that if he found it so easy to leave some otheR chick foR you... what makes you think he won't ditch YOU that fast foR someone else? Hmmm, yeeeahhh.... that's something you should think about. Goodluck to you! Hopefully I've been of some help heRe - know that you can always come to me if you eveR need a second opinion.
♥[?]♥ im 15 and a guy...i work out and all..and i dont excaclt yhave a six pack..but im not fat...and im self consious about my moles...i have a lot of them...and my nipples hang out a bit too...do people notice these things a lot?
Anyone who notices and caRes about it isn't a peRson you want to hold some type of Relationship with anyhow! Life is way too shoRt to always be so conceRned with how you look! The only thing I can tell you heRe is to not eveR let *anyone* make you feel selfconscious about youRself. The opinion that matteRs most is youR own, so if you *FEEL* h.a.n.d.s.o.m.e, you *ARE* handsome! ..to hell with what eveRyone else thinks..
♥[?]♥ ok im goin out with a guy named david!! well we haven't been going out for a long time and i want to brake up with him!!! he is sooo nice and treats me like a princess!!!!! he's soo sweet but i dont know how to brake up with him!!!!!! i feel so guilty!! plz help me!!!!!!!! how should i brake up with him???!!! i rate high!!!
ineedhelp,
megan
Well you didn't exactly say what the pRoblem is, so I don't have much to go on heRe. But, fRom what I have gatheRed... the pRoblem seems to be that you have found a teRRific guy who tReats you like a pRincess, and you'd Really like to kiss him off... just like that?? Hmm... yeeaah, I see.. that's quite the awful dilemma theRe, isn't it... =X !!! I'd say the honest Route is the best to go; the honest Route is neaRly *ALWAYS* the best Route to go. OR peRhaps you can salvage the Relationship by talking to him about it, and if theRe is a pRoblem between you two, togetheR you might be able to coRRect it and go about youR Relationship. WhateveR you decide to do, I wish you the best of luck! Hope I helped!! =D
♥[?]♥ Hey thanks so much for ur advice befor. Im haveing a couple of doubts though what if he Thinks hmm if she doesnt like me I wont like her and I will loose him! I dont know what to do hes in my 2 period Gym and I see him in the halls I alwaz get mebrassed when Im around him but sometimes I can talk. We send each other alot of texts ans sometimes talk on the phone.Its just the girl he likes Is ALL his type she emo and shes pretty shes flawless and has a new bf everyweek!and Im a preppy chick. I changed mysef to get him once and then he cheated on me with a older girl and it broke my heart how he didnt even care!!well IM SOOO CONFUSHED and I want him to like me WHAT SHOULD I DO????
Yours Truly,
**confused**
If you have to change youRself to get him to like you, he's not Really liking *YOU*, is he? He's liking what you'Re *PRETENDING* to be, so what's the point in pRoceeding with it? Relationships aRe based on tRust, and if you have to act like something you'Re not... that's fiRst lie alReady, and the Relationship would have just begun; so obviously that's not the best way to staRt things off. It honestly doesn't sound like this guy is woRth competing foR, so if I weRe you, I'd let him go do whateveR he wants with that little snot that he likes so much, and move on. It'll be difficult foR you, of couRse it will... moving on is tough foR eveRyone.. it takes couRage and honest woRds to get oveR someone, but sometimes it just has to be done. I wish you the best of luck - I Really do hope eveRything woRks out!
♥[?]♥ Hi! Ok, This may seem weird, but I discovered that my bf doesn't like the smell/taste of mint. So I was wondering what type of non-mint things can I use to freshen my breath? Like candy or something... Please help. Thanx!
Well, as faR as toothpaste goes, you can get it in Bubble Gum, Cinnamin, CheRRie, and Vanilla nowadays; I've even seen chocolate. And as foR candy.. tRy flavoRed gum... Hope this helps!! =D
♥[?]♥ hey.. i have a VERRRY bad situation. My mom and dad are getting a divorce and i dont know what to do! Is it my fault? What can i do (if possible) to get them back together? i love my mom and my dad but when they yell and scream its hard for me to love either one of them.... plz plz plz help!! Everytime i think about it it makes me cry!!
Aww! What an awful situation; I'm so soRRie to heaR that! But listen, I'm almost positive it's not youR fault!! It's typical foR the childRen whose paRents aRe going thRough a divoRce to assume it's oveR them, but the tRuth of the matteR is... it haRdly eveR is the child's fault!! And as cRappie as this is, the best thing you can do is keep out of theiR business. I know it's paRtly youR business since you aRe a membeR of the family as well, but whateveR theiR pRoblem is... is between the two of *them*. I would say suggest making moRe of an effoRt to show them how much you love them. SoRRie, Babe; theRe's just not much a kid can do in this scenaRio - just hope foR the best. I wish both you, and youR family, well. Hopefully I've been somewhat of a help to you. Know that you can always come to me foR a second opinion; you can find a fRiend in me.
♥[?]♥ Ok. So i met this kid at a show and we barely talked. But then he came over my friends house with my friend's boyfriend. He's basically really cool to me. Hes totally comfortable to do anything in front of people and is crazy and fun but calm at the same time. He's really nice also. Toward the middle of the night, My legs were over his lap and things like that. But toward the end of the night. But toward the end of the night I was laying on his chest and his arm was across my back/neck. Him and I apperently acorrding to our friends looked really cute together and we were like ok whatever. They wanted us to kiss but it was our first time acutally meeting so yea.
To get to the point..I think I like him but I'm not sure. I want to get to know him better but what if he ends up going out with someone else????
If he ends up going out with someone else, then it means he obviously pRefeRed a Relationship with them at the moment instead of you; oR peRhaps he didn't feel you weRe an option, and was afRaid to question it. If you'Re not shoRe you'Re Ready to date him yet, that's peRfectly fine, but if you feel you have a stRong inteRest in him... tell him so, and infoRm him that you'd like to Remain fRiends until you get to know each otheR betteR. I wish you the best of luck! Hope I helped!!
♥[?]♥ How do you know when your boyfriend/girlfriend is ready to have sex? I'm ready, but I don't know how to find out if he is.
TheRe isn't anyway to know *FOR SURE*. You can *ASSUME* all you want, but only *THEY* know what's Running thRough theiR head, and I'm shoRe you wouldn't want youR paRtneR to feel insulted oR taken advantage of. I say you definitely must question youR paRtneR about his/heR feelings, desiRes and expectations befoRe puttin' on the moves.
♥[?]♥ Hey um... Me and My boyfriend were all okay until one night me and him made out and see before we were boyfriend girlfriend we were like brother and sister (We had a brother sister relationship)
So once that night we made out and I asked him about what he had thought and he said, "I feel as if I am kissing my sister so I was like ok!" So we took it slow and then anthor night he came over we kissed like twice and he still says I feel like his sister then come to find out he says I am almost starting to feel like his girlfriend what should I do see him or Not??? I'll Rate just leave sum answers
Mwauh Taryn
You failed to mention youR age heRe, but you descRibed him as if he's quite immatuRe, so if I weRe in youR shoes... I'd Really move on. What I don't undeRstand is why the two of you botheRed to hook up if you weRen't shoRe if you two had stRongeR feelings foR each otheR than just a simple fRiendship. "Almost" staRting to feel like his giRlfRiend is *not* enough, and why does he believe you owe it to him to wait aRound to see if he even THINKS of you as a giRlfRiend oR not?? He's definitely entitled to his own thoughts, feelings, and opinions, but that's unfaiR of him to keep you waiting on the spot. I say you should definitely call off the Relationship with this guy, and keep it as fRiends. If it's meant to be, it *WILL* be.. when the timing is just Right, but obviously not until then, if eveR. WhateveR you decide to do, I wish you the best of luck!! Hopefully I've helped you in some way! Take caRe!! =D
♥[?]♥ who do i make my self/appereance look more attractice without looking like a whore ? help me plz
You could tRy dying youR haiR, oR simply getting high lights done. Also, if you don't have neat, shapely eyebRows... I *stRongly* suggest looking into that. I'm not shoRe if you weaR make up oR not, but if not... you pRobably should. Even if you feel you don't Really need it... just tRy some lip gloss and eyeshadow. If you'd like some make up Reccomendations/tips, feel fRee to ask me. AnotheR thing, it's impoRtant to keep youR teeth white and youR bReath fResh at all times! And while we'Re on the subject of white teeth... RemembeR to always SMILE SMILE SMILE -- smiles get noticed, my deaR. Honestly, it's not so much "natuRal beauty" as it is asscessoRies. FoR instance, you might want to consideR puRchasing some glamoRous and funky items such as a backpack, shoelaces, bRacelets, puRses and so on. Just be confident, and don't be afRaid to take some Risks and test the limits! I wish you the best of luck -- hopefully I've been of some help heRe! =D
♥[?]♥ I have liked this girl since she came to my new school in January, and well i think she knows but shes always been sort of meen to me but i think she's just playing i cant tell. I had my hair long and i recently cut it because i got in a fight with my mom(lol), but it looks retarted and i hate it and well i was talking to my friends and they said that she had a little crush on me when i had my hair lol, i dont blame her, and well it just hurts so bad because she will never know how much i care for her and now she is like alot more meen to me it's just the wrong time because i'm going through alot... what do i do?
Wow.. you know what... I suggest just avoiding this giRl; honestly, why would you want a fRiend who is so shallow and Rude?
♥[?]♥ hey im from the uk and you always talk about bangs. but i want to know what are they?
thank you
Bangs aRe the fRinge of haiR usually cut shoRt and stRaight acRoss the foRehead. This chick has bangs: http://magazines.ivillage.com/marieclaire/beauty/hair/articles/0,,434725_626714-6,00.html Hope this claRifies! =D
