Hey thanks so much for ur advice befor. Im haveing a couple of doubts though what if he Thinks hmm if she doesnt like me I wont like her and I will loose him! I dont know what to do hes in my 2 period Gym and I see him in the halls I alwaz get mebrassed when Im around him but sometimes I can talk. We send each other alot of texts ans sometimes talk on the phone.Its just the girl he likes Is ALL his type she emo and shes pretty shes flawless and has a new bf everyweek!and Im a preppy chick. I changed mysef to get him once and then he cheated on me with a older girl and it broke my heart how he didnt even care!!well IM SOOO CONFUSHED and I want him to like me WHAT SHOULD I DO????
Yours Truly,
**confused**
First mistake - changing who you are for a guy. NEVER change yourself to get a boyfriend. If he's decent, he will like you for you, not who you're pretending to be.
Second mistake - you still liking him after he's cheated on you. This should be a big newsflash for you. He didn't like you before you changed, he didn't like you when you changed, what makes you think he'll like you if you keep trying?
Mackenzie answered Monday May 2 2005, 6:25 am: If you have to change youRself to get him to like you, he's not Really liking *YOU*, is he? He's liking what you'Re *PRETENDING* to be, so what's the point in pRoceeding with it? Relationships aRe based on tRust, and if you have to act like something you'Re not... that's fiRst lie alReady, and the Relationship would have just begun; so obviously that's not the best way to staRt things off. It honestly doesn't sound like this guy is woRth competing foR, so if I weRe you, I'd let him go do whateveR he wants with that little snot that he likes so much, and move on. It'll be difficult foR you, of couRse it will... moving on is tough foR eveRyone.. it takes couRage and honest woRds to get oveR someone, but sometimes it just has to be done. I wish you the best of luck - I Really do hope eveRything woRks out! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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