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"i make mistakes, it's what i do. i speak without thinking. i act without knowing. when i drink, i drink so much that i can barely walk. i'm a fantastic lover though. & an amazing friend. God knows i mean well."
i'm kari sue rose. obviously.
i'm a graduate at pound high school & i'm 19 ;)
i'm an upcoming sophomore at uva-wise, where i want to pursue a career as a college professor.
i am a manager at little caesar's & it takes up a good percentage of my time, but i love where i work.
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actually i read too many books at a time.
& once i start writing i don't know when to stop. i'm head-over-heels for this one specific guy that i've been with for heck & ever[jonathan mark gibson] he's my world & i love him.
i'm not a fan of profanity, especially when girls do it. it's not impressive & it's not attractive. there are better words in this world dear.
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okay way back in the beggining of july this year, i found a quarter sized drop of brownish/reddish blood. i remember that before i noticed the blood, i had cramps and it was hard to stay still and it would only feel better if a moved a lot and i kept feeling like i had to go to the bathroom sooo bad, and then i didnt even need to go. i havent found any blood since and its now almost halloween. was that my period or did i pop my cherry? i dont remember if i was being active that day when i found the blood, but i play soccer and run a lot. (link)
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the same thing happened to me about 5 years ago. i never knew what it was either, but now im assuming i had popped my cherry, because i've had sex many times & never bled.
the day it happened though, i asked my mom & she said it was a sign that i was going to start my period, but i never did for almost a year.
so you can't really tell, but it's nothing to panic over, pinky promise. ;)
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When my relationship with my bf first began he didn't open up to me that much. But I thought it was because our relationship had just started and I needed to give him some time. It has been 2 months now and he still doesn't open up to me. He's so cute and he's really nice, i don't want to have to let him go. I want to know how I can get him to open up more. What should I say? What should I do? Help please. (link)
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my boyfriend & i have been together for about 14 months & he still doesn't open up to me very often.
its just a guy thing & maybe he's not that comfortable around you yet, you guys have been together for only two months, which too me, isn't that long.
just give it a while, he'll eventually notice that you are someone he can open up to.
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would and ingrown hair be a hair coming out a pimple looking thing, because i have one of those, and what should i do about it?? thanks (link)
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yes that sounds to be like an ingrown hair & you are supposed to pluck it.
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i just started having sex with my boyfriend, but for some reason i`m not satisfied. I lost my virginity to him a few weeks ago, and tha first time was pretty uncomfortable. Now everytime we hav sex, i`m feeling nothing. (although he`s enjoying it).. is there something we`re doing wrong or is it just me? (link)
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one; the first mistake you made was having sex when you weren't ready. & i know you weren't ready because your first time isn't supposed to be 'uncomfortable' its supposed to be memorable.
two; you guys aren't doing anything wrong, you just aren't in the mood. you need to let him know that you don't want to have sex anymore until you are ready & really want to, it'll make the sex so much better.
three; strange enough, there is a possibility that he's not having sex with you in a way that you find pleasurable. for instance, i don't enjoy sex as much, unless he's on top. if i'm on top, it tends to hurt & makes me want to gag, and its not really enjoyable at all. maybe thats your all's problem. try a different & new position, maybe that'll make things better.
i hope i helped.
good luck =]
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There's this guy I met, a friend of some friends. And I really like him. I know he likes me, he's told me. And I think we're going to make a go of it. But I've got one doubt - he's also made it clear from the beginning that he likes another friend of mine. They've known each other for years, and she says to me that she isn't interested in him and that I should go for him. He's liked her for longer than me though - but he said he liked me the minute he met me. Which is a big plus, because he's liked her for so long and nothings happened but he meets me and after 6 weeks we're as close as he is with her. Should I go for him? I'm just a bit worried that he'll still have like this unrequited love for her (OTT, but you get me) even if he's with me. (link)
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its mainly your decision, but you have to be aware of the fact that he may cheat on you with her, or he may not give you the full attention he gives her.
he must like you quite a bit, for you to be the first person who he's liked since he's liked her.
but once again, its up to you & your heart.
good luck with whatever choice you make.
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so my friend asked this kid if he liked me and he said why do you care? and then she was like i just wanna know. and then he didnt say anything. and then she asked him again and he said SERIOUSLY why do you care? and she was like i just wanna know. and then she said im not gunna stop bothering you until you answer me so do you? and he said maybe maybe not.
do you think that means he does or he doesnt? even if he didnt say it but most likely.
thanks in advance =) (link)
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if he didn't like you, he would have said no. clear as day.
more than likely he likes you & just doesn't want anyone to know about it yet, especially if he knew this girl was your friend.
to get the honest truth, talk to him & ask him yourself. =]
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Okay, well I'm not the most popular person in my grade, I'm average, not a nerd but not popular. And, there's this popular girl that always hangs out with me at the football games, and I don't know why. Her name is Mackenzie, and at school, she's usually making fun of the fact that I'm dating Dane, or she's completely ignoring me. I don't even want to be friends with a popular person, it could lead to me being popular and then I'd lose all of my real friends. Besides, I don't want to be someone I'm not. So does anyone know why she's all the sudden hanging out with me? (link)
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you may say that you aren't popular, but then again you could be?
or (not to be rude) maybe at football games, shes just lonely & sees you, so she talks to you.
idk? its hard to explain.
she could just be really friendly outside of school, but when her friends are around, shes a total jerk (absolute popular status quo)
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my friend is over obsessed with camp. she wont stop talking about. me and my friends try and clue her in, and she knows that we dont like when she does it, but she still goes on about her "bffs." we feel like extras, backup. my friend even told her about the problem. she doesnt seem to care that we're mad. What should we do!!?? (link)
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more than likely she just misses camp & her friends. you need to either just listen to her, or tell her again that after the 100th time of hearing about it, it gets old & you both would appreciate it, if she would just for once quit talking about camp.
or maybe even next summer, you could offer to go with her & make memories together, like my best friend & i did.
you'd have a blast.
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My best friend Amanda and i want her to come over to my das's house and spend the weekend.But it seems on my mom weekends {i don't want her to come over} she is free.But on my dad's weekend there's always something. Do i stil trust her,or anything?Tell me what to do!Plez?! (link)
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your question really doesn't make much sense at all, if you edit it & make it readable, i'll give you some advice :]
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Okay, I go with a really sweet guy!! But my brother hates his brother!! My brother does not want me to keep going with my BF!!!!!!What should i do??????? (link)
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it shouldn't matter what your brother says, he isn't your boss & can not control who you can & can not date.
its your decision; don't let him make it for you.
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Okay I know you will probably say i'm to young!!!!!! But I know i'm ready for sex so what's the big deal???????? (link)
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i don't really understand what you are asking? if you say you are ready for sex, then you are ready, you shouldn't ask us, we don't know how you feel.
we can't say you are too young because you didn't state your age, but i lost my virginity at 13 & would give anything to get it back. its not that i regret it, because i don't, i just wish my first time was more special.
if you are ready for all the risks/pressure/gossip/ and everything else that follows under sex, then go for it.
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My hair is like super strait and extremely hard to curl or scrunch anybody got any tips on scrunching hair? (link)
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i use catwalk's Curls Rock gel & scrunch it in my hair a little while after i get out of the shower (like when my hair is damp, not soaked) & then i let it dry & scrunch it again with water & Aussies Sprunch Spray.
it really works for me =)
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I've been going out with this guy about a month now. We like each other very much. Just two days ago he was telling me how I'm the only one for him and how he likes me so much. Yesturday I found that he got drunk three days ago and had sex with some dirty girl from school. He claims that he remembers nothign of it. He apologized many times. I don't really know what i should do. I still like him a lot but he still went too far with that girl. I dont know whether i should forgive him and go back with him, forgive him and just stay friend, or completely shut him out. And it would be weird at school because i see him for every class. He's 17 and I'm fourteen by the way. (link)
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i can put myself in your situation & in my opinion this is a tough one.
even though he was drunk, he still shouldn't have cheated on you, especially through sex. kissing/hugging is a different story.
by any means, my best idea is just to see if he is going to continue to get drunk & cheat on you.
if you think he won't do this again, then don't break up with him. but if you think he may, then go ahead & save your heartbreak.
if you really love him, you'll know what to do.
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okay i really like this boy named adam.. and i think we would be good togetehr and we have a lot in common and talk alot and stuff. but this isnt the problem.. the problem is that not alot of poeple like him. everyone says hes really annoying and stuff. and everyone gives him the cold shoulder. honestly, i dont even know who his goood frineds are reallly. like he has kinda okay frineds. and like usually i wouldnt really care. but now im a freshman in highschool and i dont wanna start out with everyone not liking me becazuse of who i went out with. some of my friends are like oh as long as your happy but my best frined at school doesnt really get along with him. like they are friends but she says he really annoys her. and she tells me i shouldnt get involved with him becauise hes a jerk and stuff and that hes twofaced. hes the biggest sweetheart to me and tells me the cutest things. and i really like him. but i dont know what to do. and if i dont end up with him - how do i tell him that i cant date him because no one likes him!? what do i do!? pleasee help. (link)
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if you really like this person, it shouldn't matter whether everyone else likes him or not.
don't follow the trend. popularity shouldn't matter. just because no one else likes him, doesn't mean you have to agree with them.
they probably don't even really know him & only say they don't like him because everyone else is saying so.
just follow your heart & ignore what everyone else says.
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Hey guys I'm a 14/f,
So Im trying to decide whether I should date this guy. I have a crush on him and he likes me but he also dated my best friend. But the two major things that I'm having doubts about is that
1. my parents are really strict and its better just not to tell them that I'm dating someone. So I would have to sneak or lie.
2. lots of people dont like this guy and they say he is like an asshole. But the thing is that I think the only reason he does this is because he is insecure about himself and he is nice to me and my friends.
So should I date him? thnx so much! (link)
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if you like this guy, then date him.
your parents are going to have to accept the fact that you are fourteen & will have a boyfriend sooner or later.
it shouldn't matter what other people tell you about him, find out for yourself what he is like first, before judging.
just date him dear :]
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I am almost 24. My husband is 31. We were married just under 18 months ago, and we haven't had sex in that time. Not just sex.... We haven't been intimate at ALL. He will still hug and kiss me, but it's like he just isn't attracted to me. He swears up and down that it's not that, and that his equipment is "broken".
Problem is, he doesn't seem to have any problem going to adult sites.... he denies it, but I've seen his internet history, and I know he's INTENTIONALLY going to these sites. I've walked in on him before.
What can I do? I want to be intimate with him, but whenever I try to approach him, I get pushed away. I'm beginning to feel like a roommate and not a wife, and my friends are wondering how I've stayed faithful. How do you spice up your marriage when your husband won't even get STARTED? (link)
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he doesn't sound very healthy.
i agree with the other person's advice, just make him get help. i know it may be hard for you to do, but seriously. if he really wants to be intimate, he'll make this effort.
its not your fault, it's his.
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there's a boy who's been in like all of my classes for the last 2 years and i really like him. he's really sweet, funny, and he's really nice to me. i talk to him a lot and i help out with his movie club but he doesn't seem to notice me as anything more than a helpful class mate. i'm not the most outgoing person but i get along with him pretty well and i really like him.i wan tot get him to notice me as more then a friends what can i do? (link)
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just be nice to him & keep on talking to him, just not constantly. give him space & yet let him think that you are noticing him, flirt a little, and even get to know him better.
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i think i have fallen in love with my best friend, she acts like she likes me all the time. But she is in a serious relationship with somone right now. I dont know what to think because she somtimes acts like she likes me. i would literally do anything for her to just give me a chance.
what should i do? (link)
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just wait. i know you probably hate to hear that, but its true.
if she likes you like you think she does, she will soon be with you.
good luck
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Well, I am now dating this guy named Dane. He is one of the only guys I feel comfortable around, and he can make me laugh like no one else. But there is one huge problem...He is my best friend, Rachel's, ex boyfriend, and I am pretty sure she still likes him because she always appears to be upset whenever I talk about him or when I talk to him or smile at him. I don't know what to do, I don't know if I should break up with him or stay with him because the last thing I want to do is hurt anyone's feelings, and it's going to happen either way. Please help me. (link)
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honestly it just sounds like your friend is a little jealous.
if he makes you happy, there is no reason to break up with him, although it is very caring of you to want to make your friend happy, just sometimes its a good idea to do something for yourself.
don't break up with him if its going to make you miserable.
your friend will soon get over it.
good luck
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Alright, well, I've never been kissed ( and I'm 15 ).
So I mean, I've been asked by guys ( which I find funny in some weird way and then just put it off ) because I guess I don't want my first kiss to be that way, and tonight I was asked again, and of course, me being me, I said no. And I'm just afraid that's giving guys vibes that I like, hate them or something which isn't true. I just want my first kiss to be special, but lately I'm just like,"God, do it, get it over with, whatever." But I don't know, I don't even really know what my real question is.
I guess I'm just asking for your opinion on things. Like; what would you do if you were me? (link)
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it is completely okay to want your first kiss to be special.
don't just kiss someone because you want to get it over with, wait for the person you want to kiss, to come along. it'll make the kiss so much better & your memory better too =]
you wouldn't want to kiss someone random & then look back at how crappy your first kiss was(like mine =\ )
i think its sweet that you want to wait, and if i could go back to the past, i would have waited for a special first kiss, too.
=]
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