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16/F
i just started having sex with my boyfriend, but for some reason i`m not satisfied. I lost my virginity to him a few weeks ago, and tha first time was pretty uncomfortable. Now everytime we hav sex, i`m feeling nothing. (although he`s enjoying it).. is there something we`re doing wrong or is it just me?
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When I lost my virginity, this same thing happened to me. Don't do what I did, because I kept going with the flow and it didn't do anything for me but he was having a great time lol I don't know if you do this or not but never PLAN on having sex like on a certain day or time because that takes away all the mystery & passion from it. But the main key here is FOREPLAY. You need foreplay to have a great sexual experience. You need to get excited and hot to a point where you NEED to have sex with him or you'll feel like you're going to explode. Start off with a hot makeout session and move slowly to taking off both of your clothes, and then go from there. If that doesn't seem to work, trying new positions couldn't hurt.
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one; the first mistake you made was having sex when you weren't ready. & i know you weren't ready because your first time isn't supposed to be 'uncomfortable' its supposed to be memorable.
two; you guys aren't doing anything wrong, you just aren't in the mood. you need to let him know that you don't want to have sex anymore until you are ready & really want to, it'll make the sex so much better.
three; strange enough, there is a possibility that he's not having sex with you in a way that you find pleasurable. for instance, i don't enjoy sex as much, unless he's on top. if i'm on top, it tends to hurt & makes me want to gag, and its not really enjoyable at all. maybe thats your all's problem. try a different & new position, maybe that'll make things better.
i hope i helped.
good luck =]
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