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Could someone PLEASE tell me what a douche is? (What is does, how you use it, everything) and what does 'THO' mean?
THO: titty hard-on; nippin out;having hard or pointy nipples that can be seen through clothing
Douche: a brainless person in one way or another, thus comparing them to the cleansing product for vaginas. (douches are things girls use to clean out there vagina)
i need some tips on how to flirt
because well i like this guy
he likes me
now i have to make him like me even more
so i need to flirt a bit
but i SUCK at flirting
and dont give me any [be yourself] junk
not happening
he already likes me for being myself thank you very much
Smile at him
Giggle
Bump into him into the halls and then keep walking, then turn around and smile
write him notes
mess around, like play fight
but if you can't flirt well it shouldnt matter as long as he likes it. if he doesn't flirt back then stop because you'll make yourself look like an idiot. Do cute things, but do be yourself (even if you didnt want to hear it) because if he likes your for yourself then thats good, but if you are acting dumb he should be able to tell your acting fake. So be yourself, but just had cute and flirty to it by smiling, giggling/laughing, playing around, walking down the halls together. Hope this helped
um i really sick of everything
like my friends. family. life
anyways to cheer up or bee more happy
That is what your asking.. find something to cheer you up? Thats basically answering your own question. Thats excatly what you need to do. Or try and solve the problems in your family/friends. I can't tell you things that make you happy because I dont know you and what you like. If you want to change things, then you've got to do something about it. Silence will change nothing, because if your not going to do something, no one else will. Take control and don't spend your days being sad, it's a waste! If its music, or sports, or just laying in bed reading.. if it makes you happy then its good (besides drugs or cuting yourself or over eating/under eating.. don't use those as antidepressants). Search for something you love even if it takes more than a few days. Hope this helped
I sweat ALOT. why?? and how can i stop this?? i guess i dont drink much water, like a cup or two a day, unless im really thirsty for some reason, or im playing a sport. i also wear deoderant.. ugh.... its so annoying because even playing in gym for like 20-30 minutes gets me sweaty, and i become sweaty easily. and then i go on through school feeling pretty icky. i guess i get a little too competitive too, but like just today all i did was like double dutch and i was still pretty sweaty. im also like somewhat above 150 pounds, 5'3, and 13 years old. thankyou!
My friend has perscription deorderant and she said its works really well. Also, I hear trying baby powered works. Just put some in the pits of your shirts or clothers after gym. You probably exercise and get more of a work out then you think. Hope this helped
my hair is naturally straight. how do i make it wavy? kind of like picture?
http://z.about.com/d/beauty/1/0/9/E/Oval3.JPG
p.s. looking as natural as possible!
Try sruching it. My friend has naturally straight hair and when she scrunches it, it looks like that a little. Maybe if you get that result when you scrunch it, take a curling iron to some pieces and curl the bottem some. It should work.
Omg okay, so I just started to go out with my boyfriend not even a week ago. And he's starting to really like me. But I just realized that I only like him as a friend. And I don't know how to tell him to hurt him. I don't know what to do. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME AS SOON AS YOU CAN I'M BEGGING YOU.
I really don't want to hurt him because he's a sweet guy, but I just can't feel the connectiong and I really don't want to hurt him. But I do want to stay friends!!!
what should I do ?
Trust me, tell him. Waiting is horrible and will just hurt both of you more. Let him down easy maybe like "When we started going out I liked you, but now I relize that I dont like you enough to be with you" or something thats not harsh. If he likes you, he should agree to still be friends with you. Who knows, maybe you'll end up actually liking him. Its great you don't want to hurt him, but think.. its your life and you shouldn't be stuck pretenting you like someone when you don't, so free yourself. Hope this helped
My friends have been very rude to me latey. Im really sad about everything in my life. What should I do?
Screw em'. If they are being gay for no reason, either figure out what you did wrong and apolizge, compromise, or never mind (remember that catchy saying ;]). If you are a girl and a teenage, girls this age are just harsh. They exclude people, call names, and hurt feelings. You've either got to find out what you did that might have pissed them off, or just find someone who is a real friend and stick with them. Have you ever been a bitch to someone? Have you ever treated someone like they are treating you..? Think about that cause most times friends are acting weird around you is your fault. Im not saying all the time, they might just be jerks. If they are, get real friends that won't be mean. Hopefully this is just a little fight you and your friends are going threw. Hope this helped
Also: if your feeling sad, find something that makes your happy. If its a sport, listening to a band, hanging out with someone, being with family, walking around a city, spending time just laying in bed listening to tunes. Im sure if your friends werent acting rude then you'd be happier about something. But if that never changes, even if it does, just find something you enjoy and stick to it. Hopefully its something healthy, not like eating or drugs because you don't want those to be your antidepressants.
hiiii.
well i just want to know if u guys think this is okay.
well my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 2 months now. and well he tells me he love me. isnt it kind of early. i say it back but i dont know. I really doo like himm a lot i think i love him. but do u guys think we should be saying this already. plizz help me. Im confused.
Time doesn't matter if he really means it. Who knows, maybe he liked you before you guys started going out and fell inlove with you before that. If its true, thats all that matters, right? Don't say it if you don't mean it because you don't want to hand out "I love you"'s to anyone. Hope this helped
what does kinky mean my friends always say something about it but i m like yahh because i dont want to sound like an idiot? lol
"Foot-sucking, rubber wearing, pee on me, fruit-fuckin', candlewax drippin', long fingernail scrapin', tossed salad eatin',multiple partner havin', she-male, oil-drenched, chocolate sauce, whipped cream covered,vibrator usin',dress-up,banned in 30 states type of sex."
Hahah, thats from urban dictionary. Kind of unusual or bizarre sex acts. Hope this helped
any suggestions as to how i can get over a guy???
i have/had a big crush on my friend but he basically regected me so im trying to get over it. how mite i do that exactly. i keep saying to myself: i dont like him. and if anyone asks then i'll say i dont. but i still do a lil. and imagine if wen i get over him, he decides to like me?
thanx ppl
SAM
Avoid him, maybe not like completely. But the less you see of him and talk to him, the more "you" time you get. And when your not around him it is easier to sort out your feelings. I mean, if seeing him hurts then don't see him. Hang out with other guys too, or just have girl nights. Other guys will get your mind off him and make geting over him easier. Also, accept the fact that you need to get over him and he doesnt like you. I know its harsh for people to do, but once you do that its 10 times easier to move on. Hope this helped
I have a friend who is cool and all but i think i may be afraid of her.
Its hard to explain it and well you see if you wear something "punkish" shell give you dirty looks and be like woah nice shirt. thinking shes the only girl that can top it off and like when i say something i joke around but she always gets made at me for everything, she starts all the fights and things and im sick of it. shes 2 faced and i hate it she acts so nice but then to other people shes like really mean and stuff and sometimes i cant look at her afraid i might set her off but if i try to ignore her she makes my life not so great and geez i just need to know what to do and god i would really be help me if you can give me some small slight advice on what to do.
thank you
13/f
Maybe not ignor her, just back off a little. Your not doing anything wrong, shes sounds pretty twofaced and scary (her attitude). Like, if you don't have to be around her, then don't. Why would you want to have a friend when you are scared half the time? If she does try to fight you (just incase) have someone to back you up hah. You should try to confront her, but for your safety.. do it online if you can. Don't be like, "YOU TWO FACED SCARY JERK" blabla cause of course she'll freak. Maybe try "Sometimes I feel you just act different and it makes me feel like crap because you change and I dont know who you are sometimes", and just sound sweet. If she has some scummy remark, laugh at it or try being like "yeah okay". You can try to just be a bitch back to her too. Hope this helped, and i.m me if you need to.
If i cut out pop and junk and was doing 200 sit ups a night how much weight do you think i could loose in 25 days ??
I do this cuting out that bad stuff is good for you, but just because you do situps doesnt mean you'll loose weight. It will build up your muscle, and muscle weights more than fat. If you want to loose weight, cut out bad junk and jog for 20 minutes a day. Hope this helped
my lil sis is worryed and trying to gain wieght. im telling her, she just needs to go throught puberty a lil more.
shes female, 12 years old, about 88 pounds and like mabie just about 5 foot.
is she underwieght, or normal?
thanks
She is underweight. According to ,
www.am-i-fat.com
try and get her eating more, not a bunch of junk cause then she'll just be gaining fat. But once she goes threw puberty she'll grow alot more.
how do you get them smaller?
Jog or run daily. You won't see results fast, but i know people who ran alot and got tiny. It also builds up muscle and indurance. Right now the weather isn't the best (in Illinois atleast) so try running on a tredmil if you have it. Remember, distance matters more than time, so slower and longer is better then fast and short. Also drink lots of water to keep you full and hydrated. And when you run your heart rate increases and your metobolism burns more. Hope this helped
Hey Katie! I LOVE YOU!
Kelsey
Kelsey Ilve you too! ive never laughed harder at someone for no reason, besides Gianna. Everything you do/say/and think is hilarous. You are def. on my top 5 for most missed next year
My Dad was in an argument with my Mom like always today and he said, "YOU WONT LET ME TALK TO MY KIDS! YOU WONT LET ME HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM! WELL IN 2009, I'M MOVING! THE BASE (like a military base) IS BEING SHUT DOWN AND MOVING TO ILLINOIS AND I AM MOVING THERE WHEN THAT HAPPENS! WE ARE NOT HAVING TWO HOUSES AND I AM NOT STAYING MARRIED TO YOU! I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY YOU THINK I LOVE YOU! I HATE YOU, YOU ASSHOLE!" Yes, and lucky me...I got to listen to it like always. To make this clear, my mom has never done anything to offend him and only tries to help him. I learned that all of my conversations with him turn into him yelling at me for something, so I try to stay clear of him and not bother him...my mother has nothing to do with it. My mom asked me today if I would rather him stay here till I get out of High School. I told her yes, but I honestly don't. I mean, I want to stay in my neighborhood and all, but I can't take anymore of his yelling, screaming, and when he threatens my mom and stuff. I feel like half of this is my fault. Half of the time he is yelling and cussing at me and my family for all of these little things. I've cried myself to sleep plenty of times because of the things he's said to me. Am I wrong to not want to be around my father?
No your not wrong. I don't blame you. Its not your fault either. I've heard it a thousand times that kids think it is there fault that parents fight or devorice, but its not. Go ahead and get away from your father if he acts like that. No one would want to be around a person who treats other people with such a bad attitude. The best to do would to be to help out your mom and other family members (if have any else) threw this hard time. Hope this helped
i just started watching the show "scrubs" when i was on vacation in florida.. but i dont know what channel it is on where i live (long island, NY)
so if anyone lives here and knows what channel its on, it would be appreciated.. thanks.
NBC and its also on Comedy Central alott. I think like week nights, but I catch it alot.
for them, my dad says that they;ll ask questions.. is that true?
and like if they do, then what type..?
thanksssss =]
I don't think they do. They might ask if you've been on a team before, or what other sports you've done. But when I tried out for junior high they didnt ask questions, and my sister is in highschool cheerleading and she never told me they asked her questions, so they probably don.t
what can you do when you cried so hard you got a terrible head ache and feel sick, but you know your going to be crying harder tmrw, and posssibly tonight and are going to feel like shit again. =)
iloveyou.
You can do your best when you are on some blue matt, and give the dark haired 8th grader who smelled bad hugs =). i love you somch
im thinking about trying out for cheerleading (im in 8th grade) and so if i tryout its ganna be for the high school. i did it once but didnt get in - that was in like 5th grade ha. and im doing tumbling and stuff like working on back hand springs and back tucks ect. what are tips on making the squad .. like what do you have to do. pretty much can you tell me everything you know. thanks
Haha, i'll try and teach you everything I know. I.m me at Skkatanic because I can explain it easier, and you can ask me questions directly. This is what you need..
- Good jumps
- goood tumbling (at least a standing flipflop or running roundoff flipflop to make freshmen: keep in mind you still need other skills besides tumbling)
- tight motions and abiltiy to dance
- loud voice, facials, enthuastisum, cheerfullness, spirit, and you have to want it (pretty much selfexplaintory)
- know the positions for stunting (basing, back spoting, flying if you can, and front spoting- basing and backing are the most important)
For tumbling: keep taking classes. Work on your strength with your arms so you can get over on your flipflops, work on your leg strength so you can get high backs and eventually layouts, fulls, etc (working on a trampoline is good help). Ask a friend or anyone who can tumble to help you out, because I learned alot of my tumbling from my sister insted of a tumbling instructor. Also work on flexibility too, just because being flexible comes in handy when your a cheerleader. So do the splits as far down as you can go every night, and do a pike position on the ground and reach for your toes. Anything helps.
For jumps: Again, do flexibility. You should have good toe touches, double toe touches, left/right hurdlers, and pikes. The stronger your stomach the higher your jumps get. Jumps are hard to explain. So just look off pictures and learn! Also, you need to practice alottt. Heres a site with alot of good shots of jumps.
http://www.mspineapple.com/p_jumps.html
(Please do, browse around that site! Look at the photo albums, and tips for tryouts. Its a great site for anything you want to know about cheerleading)
Tight motions- work on strenght. Ask someone to help you out to make sure your motions are right before you get the hang of doing them the wrong way. Also, look at pictures cause they help the best.
for Stunting- get strong! if you want to base, learn the hand placements. There is two types of bases, secondary and main. There is a backspot, sometimes a front spot (not always), and of course a flyer. The main base holds the flyers right foot (usually flyers fly on their right foot so the main base stands on the flyers right side) at the heal and toe. The secondary base is then on the flyers left side holding the middle of the foot (inbetween the bases hands) and either the top of the flyers shoe or the wrist of the main base (there are different techenques). If the secondary base chooses to hold onto the bottem and top of the flyers foot instead of the main bases wrist, the secondary bases left hand holds on by the shoe laces and the right hand holds at the arch of the foot (middle). When cradling, both bases catch the flyers body and legs. The back spot is most important on catching because they catch the upper back, neck, and head. The backspot pushes up on either the flyers butt or waist while going into stunts. Position on the backspots differ. What I just explained is how do go up into a lib or any one footed stunt. Look at pictures for explaintions. Stunting is too hard to explain cause there is a big varity of things.
http://www.mspineapple.com/p_stunts.html
I hope this helped and wasnt too confusing. I.m me if you need anything else about cheerleading.