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Getting over him but not quite
any suggestions as to how i can get over a guy???
i have/had a big crush on my friend but he basically regected me so im trying to get over it. how mite i do that exactly. i keep saying to myself: i dont like him. and if anyone asks then i'll say i dont. but i still do a lil. and imagine if wen i get over him, he decides to like me?
thanx ppl
SAM
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Hey Sam!
Wow well you've got a "move on" expert here! I totally get where you are right now, I've been there before. Don't you hate how people keep asking, and usually they just dont believe you eh? And you're like I DON"T LIKE HIM!!! but then its all a lie eh?.
Okay well first thing, you are getting a good mind set, thats awesome its a great start. So heres how to follow up on it. First thing pick a hot celebrity. Hmm who would I pick? I dunno, but just pick one, and when ever anyone is like do you like him? be like no, actually I've moved on. And then describe this amazing guy. Let them try and figure out who it is. It'll be quite hilarious once they realize that he doesnt go to your school and lives in los angeles or whatever.
Then pick a new dude. A guy who actually goes to your school. And don't tell anyone you like him. I know you think they're my friends if I cant tell them, who can I tell? But they'll keep asking and turn this one into an epic drama again. K so with this guy, he's not nessicarily mr rught. You probably wont ever go out with him, he's just the hotty in math class you like to stare at and everytime you start to think about your friend, think about this guy in math (or whatever subject lol)
I hate to crush your dreams sweetie, but chances of him likeing you after you quit liking him are very slim, and see you thinking that is one of those things that we don't want you doing, we want you to start working on other guys. If you have that longated wish that one day he may sweep you off your feet, then you'll never move on (think of that. EWWW! Never move on?!?). And we want the opposite right?
K so how else can you move on? Well you can try write down everything about him that drives you crazy. Like his hair is disgusting or an even better one he rejected me. jerk.
Everyones always like k crushes are way easier to get over than actually breaking up with someone, but sometimes its the opposite, becase there are so few ways to get over a crush other than those ones mentioned above, but liek I said, I'm the queen of moving on tips. So try those, but let me know if you need some more. Good luck, and I hope you get over this, we've all been there before. At least I hope we all have, because I've been there a few times. lol. Lot of love,
Angie91
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Avoid him, but not completely. Don't think about him a lot. And do something to take your mind off of it. If you do that, it'll help. But like I've said time & time again, time heals everything.
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Avoid him, maybe not like completely. But the less you see of him and talk to him, the more "you" time you get. And when your not around him it is easier to sort out your feelings. I mean, if seeing him hurts then don't see him. Hang out with other guys too, or just have girl nights. Other guys will get your mind off him and make geting over him easier. Also, accept the fact that you need to get over him and he doesnt like you. I know its harsh for people to do, but once you do that its 10 times easier to move on. Hope this helped
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