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Q: Oh god, I have this boyfriend and i like him SO much!!!! and my friends likes him to, she is like lieing and making up things about how my bf likes her....plus hse goes behind my back and flirts with him, wht should i do?
I would say i would talk to her and talk to him and just let him know that he does that. I know with nathan when i knew that a few of my friends liked him i let him know that and he made sure i wasnt uncomfortable when he was talking he was just extra careful. You need to talk to your bf and let him know that she likes him and flirts with him. I know it might be hard to talk to either or.. but u gotta-trix

Q: Does anyone know of any basketball camps for in the summer?? cause my dad and i are going to try to find some for me..! please answer!*~ i rate..

and if you have any questions for me just ask =)
*thanks a bunch*
the YMCA is a great place for that sort of stuff. Check out adventure camp that is extremely fun if you dont like that then check out this place http://web.ask.com/web?q=basketball+camp&qsrc=0&o=0 hope that helped-trix

Q: I am 13/f, 14 in july, but i took a baby-stting class for 2 days at a saint francis hospital...well now that i have done that, i dont know what to do! i mean theres like nobody i can babysit! anybody know a site that i can go to thats like a teen babysitting line or soemthing haha!?!?
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=babysitting+hotlines
http://web.ask.com/web?q=babysitting+hotlines&qsrc=0&o=0

i hope those help you-trix

Q: i am getting a cat soon...i dont know if it is a boy or a girl yet but, my problem is that i cant think of a good boy name or a good girl name. if you have any suggestions...please tell me! thanx! :)
i really like shadow or midnight for either a boy or girl-trix

Q: Recently, I broke up with my boyfriend (I ama female, if you were wondering). I'm 16 and he is 15. Although, it was a teenage relationship, we did love each other. It might not have been that deep and meaningful kind where people get married, but it was love nonetheless. Whenever we hung out, I'd get butterflies and I would be happy, something I haven't felt in a while. Towards the last few days before I broke up with him, he wasn't really there. I felt like he was avoiding me, he wouldn't tell me anything when I did ask him, and we barely talked. Then the day before I did end it, he told me he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with me or not, which made me decide to end it. On the day we broke up, I cried...a lot. Then, that was it. Every now and then I'll think about him and get a bit sad, but otherwise I am very happy. Being as he was my first love, I relaized there will be others and that I should move on, and I am trying to be positive.I can't help but feel guilty that I am not that sad over our breakup. Any advice?
I think thats just a normal feeling and your just getting used to the breakup i dont doubt that you dont have feelings for him because im sure you do but your just accepting the fact that you arent with him anymore and your just not letting it blow you over. Your story sounded pretty identical to mine except he dumped me yesterday :( but im sorry about all this and i hope things get better but you shouldnt feel guilty-trix

Q: The most popular girl in school (i was O.K friends with her) moved to Arizona (i'm in Virginia) and I am happY! SOOO HAPPY! Cause i like being the center of attention. All my bestfriends are sad though, because they liked her! I didn't really though! Is it wrong to be glad???? Cause I feel really bad.
No its perfectly normal. If i were in your spot i would be to-trix

Q: Hey , I have a question. I have this like lump sort of thing inside of my breast. I'm not sure what it is. I don't think that it is breast cancer.. but I really don't know what else it could be. Help please! I'm freaked out.

P.S. I'm 13.
I dont really know what else it would be you might want to get that checked out and checked out while you can fix it-trix

Q: Im 17 and this is really embarassing but, I havent had my period yet. I feel ashamed and worried that something is wrong ! Im a virgin, if that matters that much. Im so worried & i feel bad because I tell my friends I have it, and I even use pads hoping it will come. Whats wrong with me? I need to know what to do!
Just talk to your mom. Some people dont get it until there 17 anyways. 17 is pretty much the deadline but you should go get checked out. When you are 18 you have to go to the gyno anyways your might wanna mention whats going on and your kind of curious. Or you could go in and get birth control pills to give you your period. They wont have to go down there either. -trix

Q: is it normal to every so often not have your period for a month? i have never had sex and im 14 thanks..
Yeah your just not regulating yet. Thats perfectly normal you dont regulate for 4-5 years after you first got your period so dont worry -trix

Q: im 13 years old and my friend karli says that i have been saying shit about tarah and its not even true! and she says it is! what should i do?
I would just talk to her and see why she is saying this i mean you need to ask her otherwise you wont know. You also got to confront your other friend and tell her that you dont know why she is lying to her that your saying shit about her.. but you never would cuz you dont want to loose a friend-trix

Q: I was just wondering if any of you guys out there are seirous about this- Okay, I was wondering when should you start having sex? And please please be serious.


Thanks~ Jessica
I would say when you think you are actually going to get married to this person. Thats when and when things are pretty serios between you and this person-trix

Q: Me and my friends r playing oker. how many tiems are you allowed to exchange in a game. thnx
once-trix

Q: What exactly is elijahs rock?
anyone who has the correct info on it I will rate 5
please only answer if you know it and give me a serious answer please
I looked it up for you and it looks as if its a person. But here go to this http://web.ask.com/web?q=what+is+elijah's+rock&qsrc=19&o=0 i hope that fills you in-trix

Q: What does two stepping mean?
Its a dance step. There is a song about it its called 1,2 step-ciara -trix

Q: How do you know when it's time to be come "not" bff's with someone?
You are starting to spread apart and dont hang out as much and dont let eachother in on your secrets and what not-trix

Q: I have this friend, and I love her so much!! (sisterly) And we are best friends, well, she just discovered boys and there is one that she really likes. whenever we're together, it's all she talks about and thinks about. all she wants to do is look at pictures of him and talk about him!! I love her so mucha dn i don't wanna lose her. I've tried talking to her, but she'll get all mad at me. PLEASE HELP!
Well I would just go with the flow and do the mhm... yup... ok... cool... I see.. That will show her your bored with hearing about him and that she is getting boring to talk to cuz that is all she ever talks about. Thats a good remedy and works for me whenever i hear constant stuff so give it a shot-trix

Q: i play basketball and i was wandering what can i do for practice. i mean what is like a really good practice for basketball? please help.

*i rate*
around the world or horse.. cuz u get to practice w/speed and all sorts of diff. places around the net

Q: I cant get a foundation to match my skin, because I am so pale. Does anyone know any good brands?
Get CG smoothers. Its really good and has numerous skin tone colors. Try creamy natural that works pretty cool w/people with pale skin but thats not the lightest either so if you need lighter there is more!-trix

Q: Does anyone know anything you can do to get rid of kanker sores. thanks in advance.
Well a canker sore is a form of herpes. Im just gunna fill you in on the cautions.. if it lasts more then 14 days (2 weeks) then u need to go get it checked out. It will heal by itself in a couple of days UNLESS it becomes host to a secondary infection. Some antiseptic mouthwashes work well. so try that-trix

Q: what is love
Love? Love is something that can't really be described but its butterflies in your stomach something that you love having that feeling. Its to have a great affection or liking for. a strong positive emotion of regard and affection. If your referring to a person then i know what im talking about. But its the smiles to your face. The butterflies in your stomach. The perfectness for the person to see you. You have to have everything perfect. -trix

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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