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My name is Melissa :]. I live in California.I seriously do. Fresno,CA. Look it up. I didn`t know what or where Fresno was until my dad came home & told us we were moving there.. I live in like the friggen richiest part of Fresno called Clovis[it`s another city that`s in Fresno.]Nothing ever happens in Clovis.No robberies,killings,etc. Things always happen in Fresno. This city is so effing small that you find out about everyone`s problems. It`s like Gossipville. My highschool is even worse. People talk smack like it`s their hobbie, so i`ve had my share of gossip about me. Doesn`t really bug me, unless you continue to do it. Then I get pissed. Who wouldn`t?! Fresno is okkaayyy, if you meet the right people. But Clovis will always be the most boringest place ever.



I've been through alot. Anything really. I don`t really trust people that easily, but if I do, then congrats, you`re awesome. Don`t straight up ask me what i`ve been through. If I really really really really really really really really know you, then I might tell you. But you know, it`s hard telling people what you`ve been through because it brings back so much horrible memories. I got over some shit, but it still leaves marks..Welcome to a world where being yourself isn`t good enough..



My closet is full of clothes from Hollister,Abercrombie,Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and all those preppie stores that you hate. I can`t live without my cell phone or a purse. Don`t judge me. If you do, I friggen hate you with a passion.I have alot of confidence, and you might think that i`m cocky, but i`m not. I actually think low about myself, but what girl doesn`t? I sometimes think that i`m better than a few people, but i only compare to those who are pretty shallow & fucking dumb. Like gossip starters, stalkers,backstabbers, & anything like that.I'm probably the coolest 15 year old that you`ll ever meet :]. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born in San Francisco. I move alot. I stayed in new york for 4 years because of my daddy's job. But now i'm back here in california.I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I`m full of sarcastic remarks.Anything acustic(sp) realllyy turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;]



I have a boyfriend & his name is Junior. He's gorgeous.HE PLAYS THE ACUSTIC GUITAR & SINGS FOR MEEE!! Oh man, I just feel like grabbing him. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world..I love it when we watch re-runs of the O.C. I love how he can watch romantic movies with me. I love it when he lets me win in video games.I love when he kisses my nose or forhead. I love it when he trips me lol. I love it when he gives me piggy back rides & won`t let me fall when i`m standing on fire hydrants.I love it when we eat chicken nuggets together & share only one drink. I love it when he squeezes my face cheeks together & kisses me. I love the way he runs up to me at school & jumps on me. I love the way we skip together holding hands. I love it when I take out the crust of my bread && he eats it. I love it when I turn out to be hecka sick & he comes to my door with soup & his blanket. I love it when he sends me like .. friggen 2 page love letters & he sends them through the mail & i get them. I love it how he believes in me & teaches me to make better choices and incourages me. I love the way he can easily cheer me up with the simpliest things like smiling. I love it when i start crying and he cheers me up by doing the "balony dance". Lol. I love the way he pokes my cheeks with his finger. That`s love, baby.♥

I say tre-cool & dunzo alot.


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what do you do when a guy you dont know and its like a internet relationship and like you're not even that close and he just pops and asks wil you marry me??????????? what should i do?????????

Damn..that girl Melinda down there just thinks of the worse..

Well DON'T MARRY HIM DUHH!! Just say "Woah..haha um not yet."

If he just keeps on saying stuff like "We are going to have great kids" or "How do you think our house is going to be when we move in together?" THEN LEAVE THE CONVERSATION AND BLOCK HIM.

That's just plain weird. Well hopefully you'll just tell this guy off. =)

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How do you know your a level moderate I or II or III does it tell you are what cuz im confused ??

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is it ok to wear an (light) orange polo with a denim mini and pink flats?

Woah that first girl was just a plain bitch. I agree with Juicy girl though! Maybe just use white flats instead of pink ones. Honestly, i think both are cute! But it kind of doesn't match. Just a tad though. And use cute little jewelry. =)

But since we aren't there and we're probably all thinking different, and you think it goes good, THEN YAYYY! Wear it. =) It's cute either way.

Ha i'm probably late on answering this question =P


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i have this amazing boyfriend who i love talking on the phone with for hours and i love him now i no this is going to sound shallow but whenever i see him i think ew how ugly cause he got pimples should i break up with him or what i need help cause i am seeing him in like 2 weeks 13/f >3

Well..i know people are saying to NOT break up with him, but your not attractive to him, you probably don't like him as much, & you just keep on..trashing him.

If you do love him, then don't break up with him. He's an amazing boyfriend & looks shouldn't matter. He's got pimples. So what? They'll go away & that's a part of puberty. Everyone breaks out. Not just him. You love talking to him & you love him, so what's wrong? OH THAT'S RIGHT..THE PIMPLES!! Oh..and the thin lips.. =)

If you just think he's absoloutly hideous & it's making you like him less, then break up with him. You can't go out with someone that you don't like just so they won't get hurt. For example, if you stay with him just so you won't hurt him, you'll eventually think he's a waste, you wouldn't want to do anything with him, & you won't talk to him as much. That's wrong. Don't stay with the guy just because you feel bad for him. Of course you wouldn't want to do that. So break up with him.

Honestly, if you love him, you shouldn't break up with him just because he has pimples & thin lips. But if it is making you like him A LOT lesser than ever, then break up with him. I probably didn't make things easier but yea. I hope i helped a little!

PS- DON'T PLAN ON BREAKING UP WITH HIM ON CHRISTMAS OR DURING THE HOLIDAYS. THAT'S JUST FUCKED UP..

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Ok, I've liked this guy for a long time, over 4 years, and we're good friends. I talk to him in school and everything, but I just can't tell him I like him because I'm scared he will reject me. But lately, he's been more friendly than normal, and a little while ago, when I was talking to him online, he said "Do you wanna go..." "Uh" "Nevermind." I think he was going to ask me out,but I don't know. Do you think he likes me and I should ask him if he wants to be my boyfriend? Thanks ahead of time.

Maybe for now you should just flirt. Don't lose him because i think that you guys might go out. But flirt a little bit and find out if he really likes you. If you do find out, then ask him out.Lol make the move. Guys ♥ confident girls =P


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I know everybody sees this question 5000 times a day but, I'm not sure if I'm reading her right. This girl, let's say "Hermione Granger", and I have been out a couple of times and I really like her. But Hermione always seems to break dates. She says she feels bad about it, but does it anyway. When I asked her if she'd like to go out with me, she said she would, but she would be usually busy the night I asked and I see very little of Hermione anymore. She acted like she liked me, but girls never say what they mean. I say actions speak louder than words, but I wanted y'all's opinion:What should I do here? As I read the notes, they want me to add my age:19 and my gender should be self explanatory.

Lmfao Hermione Granger..isn't that that chick from Harry Potter? Lol..that's funny..Anyways

If she was really interested in you, you know she wouldn't do that. Maybe you guys should just be friends for now & slow things down. Don't put too much effort into it if she's not willing to make it work either. Move on. Find someone better.


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Is gatorade healthier/better than water?

Gatorade has sugar. Water doesn't. =)


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Wat do I do?! My boyfriend just left for Dallas and I'm never gonna see him again. But i've thought it over and over again. I didn't really like him. It's all confusing.

Well yea. He's moving & you really don't like him so it'll be just really weird going out with someone who lives whatever miles away from you & you don't even like him. Yea. Break up with him =)



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Hey Guyz. I found an article from VH1.com and copyed it and put it on my site. But At the End of The Article I added this "I Got This Report From VH1. Here Is The Site (GAVE THE URL TO THE SITE) So All Credit Goes To Vh1 and MTV. So Can They Like Get Me For This?

Lol. No. You gave credit. So don't sweat it.



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I have been interested in this guy for a month now, and we've flirted and talked on the phone late at night. I gave him a Christmas card and since then he hasn't talked to me. I called him last night, and he says he has a girlfriend now. I don't see him with anyone, so what's really going on? Should I still flirt, or move on? I really like him.

Move on. Find someone who'll treat you better. Flirt with some other guys. That's probably the best thing you can do right now. =)


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i have been best friends with my friend sammie since about 7th grade. now i'm a junior & i'm not quite sure what to make of our friendship anymore. we are not in any of the same classes this year& we never see each other in the hallways either, so basically i don't see her in school. in the beggining of the year we still did stuff together, but now she has a new friend & doesn't seem to make an effort to hang with me. now i'm not against her making new friends (i have made new ones too), but we are nowhere near as close as we use to be. i still like her, but i don't know where this friendship is going & i would just like an opinion on what you make of the situation or if you have any advice on if i should let the friendship go or keep trying. thanks, for good advice i rate 5's.

I think maybe you should kind of make it work. Just invite her hang out. You guys used to be really good friends so it wouldn't be THAT akward if you call her. If she says no to that, then I suggest just letting her go. You guys have made new friends and i think thats a good start. You shouldn't really make an effort into making the friendship work if she won't give effort into it either.


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Hey Guyz, I know this girl Kate and she has a best friend Abby. They Always hang out and stuff and are like Best friends. I know that its none of MY business (but it's bothering me) but Kate is ALWAYS,(When I say ALWAYS I mean it) Flirts with Abby's boyfriend Zack. Like today we had Club Day and she was like All over him whenever Abby wasn't around. Like Laying her head on his shoulder, holding his hand, etc. What should I do. And My Best friend has even told Abby about it but she wouldn't listin to her! Should I Write her (Sarah) a Letter (without my name)??

Wait..i thought her name was Abby?

Well anyways..you should just tell her. She won't listen to the letter. Have friends tell Abby(or Sarah..w/e her name is) also. Don't keep on attacking her with stuff that her boyfriend does,thought. But just at the point that it gets through her head that her boyfriend is doing this with her best friend. You should just tell her. Be like "Hey are you still going out with Zack?" And if she's like "Yea.." then you say whatever you want from then.


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Does Old Navy have their flip flops in right now?

It's winter. No.


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My guy friend and I are both 17 and we've known each other for about 11 years now. He a good friend and everything but sometimes he says things too me that really hurt my feelings.


The other day he was at my house and we got bored and decided to go to star bucks. Well I had just gotten out of the shower so I just had my hair up in a bun and I had very little make-up on. As we were leaving he turned to me and said, "You're going out like THAT?" So I was like, "Yeah, why?" Then he told me that he thought I could have atleast tried to make and effort to look good. How mean is that?


He also feels the need to tell me when I need to start working out again, when my hair needs to be re done, he even tells me that I "look like shit" when I'm sick.


It's great that he feels that comfortable around me and all, but a lot of stuff he says is really mean and makes me feel like crap.


What am I supposed to do?

Woah. What a jackass. Confront him. Tell him it really hurts you. He might be joking, but that's just a little bit toooo far. Tell him how he makes you feel and maybe it'll hit him how mean he was. He'll realize it soon.


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Okay well heres my problem. I like this girl but she only likes me mainly as frinds and wut i wanna kno is what should i do to get her to like me as more than that because i really like her

Thanks A Lot
I will rate high thanks peace

Well i mean, you can always flirt. But you really don't want to try too hard because it could seriously get annoying and obsessive. I say just be friends with her for now & take things slow.


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14/f
I am a choreographer for hip hop dances. But my only problem is, I need good songs to dance to. Anyone have any good FAST PACE hip hop songs?

This is how I rate.
2 songs or less=1
3 songs=2
4 songs =3
5 songs=4
6+ songs= 5

Beyonce- Check up on it
Juelz Santana- There It Go
Keak Da Sneak- Super Hyphy
Mac Dre- Get STUPID
Nelly-Flap Your Wings
Nelly- Grillz
Nelly- Errytime
Chamillionaire ft/ Lil Flip-Get Your Shine On
Ebony Eyez- Ass In Your Face
FrontLine-Bang It
Dem Franchize Boys-Oh i think they like me remix
Teairra Mari-No Daddy
Ying Yang Twins-Shake it Like a Salt Shaker
Xscape-What's Up
Ying Yang Twins ft/ Mike Jones-Badd Bitch
Ying Yang Twins ft/Pitbull-Shake


=) Need anymore lemme know.


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ok,
this guy asked me out over myspace.
i said yes.
now he dosnt talk to me.
i have to start everything and he dosnt reply.
i met him once before i even found him on myspace.
and i asked if he wanted to hangout
he didnt reply.
then i left a bulletin asking for peoples advice.
and i was like.
now the guy i like dosnt like me.
he replyed.
the guy you like better be me.
so now i left one HOPEING he will see it saying how this guy dosnt talk to me.
so now what do i do.
is he playing me?
i mean.
if he dosnt reply to hanging out.
PLEASE HELP ME I RATE HIGH

Oh yea. He's playing you. Just dump him. Obviously he doesn't want to hang out with you and it seems like your putting all this effort into the "relationship" for nothing. Move on! He's totally not worth it.



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I have no idea what to do. There is this guy named Nick that I am totally crazy for. And me and him have gotten so close. He comes over now and then and hangs out. He HATES talking on the phone but with only me, he is on it for about 5 hours a day. He flirts with my hardcore and everyone thinks he likes me but I just can`t tell. He tells me a lot of stuff I am surprised he trusts me with and everytime we talk about me liking him, (yes he knows), he changes the subject. But when we are together...he acts like he likes me too. His mom and I get along and she told me that Nick gets shy around girls he likes. Nick isn`t relaly shy around me. Cuz we flirt non-stop. I mean, he was shy at first...but now we can flirt and not be embarrassed. What are some clues/ways I can tell if he truly does like me?

It seems to me that he likes you already. But maybe he just doesn't want to tell you just yet. I say ask one of his good friends & maybe that'll help you alot.


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Anything in parenthesis can (not) be ignored.

I can't talk on the computer now, so if, well, actually, I CAN talk on the computer now, I mean, like, I'm at the computer NOW, writing this message, but I'm doing this NOW, while you're reading it LATER, except for you I guess it's NOW, like, when you're reading it... I mean, like, wait, gosh. This is so confusing.

I haven't gone away but I'll be right back.

The statement below is True.

The statement above is False.

Which statement is correct?



Since history never stops, when does the future begin?




Ummm....YES!



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Ever since sophomore year in high school a group of friends and I have always gone to South Padre for spring break. We're all sophomores in college now so this year is going to be our 5th. Well I have another friend that isn't apart of our group and she's going to Italy for spring break this year and asked me to come along.


Now, I'm not sure who to go with. I know what you're thinking though, "Italy, what an opportunity" But, I just went over the summer so it's not like a big deal. So should I just say no and go to South Padre?

South Padre. You said Italy isn't a big deal, so just go with your group of friends to South Padre. I mean, IT'S A TRADITION! =) Traditions rock and they shouldn't be broken. Hmm..ever thought of inviting her to South Padre too? That way she won't get hurt as much when you say no. Just a thought =)



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