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Sick of It!
Hey Guyz, I know this girl Kate and she has a best friend Abby. They Always hang out and stuff and are like Best friends. I know that its none of MY business (but it's bothering me) but Kate is ALWAYS,(When I say ALWAYS I mean it) Flirts with Abby's boyfriend Zack. Like today we had Club Day and she was like All over him whenever Abby wasn't around. Like Laying her head on his shoulder, holding his hand, etc. What should I do. And My Best friend has even told Abby about it but she wouldn't listin to her! Should I Write her (Sarah) a Letter (without my name)??
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you should ask abbys boyfriend to tell abby what kate does while she is not around. hoped i helped plz send feedback
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hey i dont think you should get caught in the middle because that will lead to more problems. I do think that you shoould make little hints to her to let her see it 4 herself so you dont get blamed for not minding your business. If your friend already said it to her then just slowly ease in and get your point across maybe your friend should of took a different approach instead of just accusing her. If you show her she has no choice to believe it.
Try it and tell me how it goes.
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dont mess with it.
i know its hard when you know one of your friends is gonna get hurt and you want to warn them, but this will definatly fix itself.
dont write that letter... ok? it will cause so much drama and you dont really need that in your life and neither does abby.
just dont trust kate around your boyfriend. wink wink.
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If it'll make you feel better. Doubt it'll make much difference though, sorry. Some things people dont want to believe and won't until it's right under their nose. Especially where best friends and boyfriends are concerned.
Rest assured sooner or later one of three things will happen:
1)it'll fizzle out
2)they'll get found out and confronted
3)they'll decide they're "in love", hurt Abby and break up a few months later once the excitement is gone.
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Wait..i thought her name was Abby?
Well anyways..you should just tell her. She won't listen to the letter. Have friends tell Abby(or Sarah..w/e her name is) also. Don't keep on attacking her with stuff that her boyfriend does,thought. But just at the point that it gets through her head that her boyfriend is doing this with her best friend. You should just tell her. Be like "Hey are you still going out with Zack?" And if she's like "Yea.." then you say whatever you want from then.
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