Hey whats up! my name is desirea and i love answering peoples questions. I really can relate to good realtionships and of course bad. I can give u the best answer and if i cant i will tell u what i would do. I won't spoon feed u anything but if u should go and think on it yourself i will tell u so !
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ok heres my question....
I HAVE BEEN DATING THIS GUY FOR THREE MONTHS NOW! HES A GOOD GUY AND ALOT OF FUN! HES VERY POPULAR AND HAS ALOT OF "EXPERIENCE." WHEN I MET HIM ALL HE TALKED ABOUT WAS HOW BAD HE WANTED TO SLEEP WITH ME AND HOW BAD HE WANTED TO HAVE A LIFE WITH ME! I FELT THAT SAME WAY BUT THE ONLY DIFFRENCE IS THAT IM STILL A VRIGIN AND HE DOESNT KNOW IT YET! AND TO MAKE THE STORY MORE INTERESTING IVE BEEN HAVING FAMILY PROBLEMS AND GOT KICKED OUT OF MY HOUSE AND NOW STAYING WITH HIM! WE SLEEP IN THE SAME BED AND WHEN HES IN THE MOOD I FEEL SO BAD BECAUSE I TELL HIM THAT IM NOT IN THE MOOD OR I FEEL SICK BUT THATS NOT IT AT ALL, SO HE JUST ROLLS OVER AND GOES TO SLEEP!I FEEL LIKE SUCH A HORRIBLE PERSON! IVE LIED TO HIM SO MUCH ALREADY AND THE PERSON THAT I MET HIM WITH AND HE WANTS A LIFE WITH IS THE ONE THATS NOT A VIRGIN! IM SO SCARED TO TELL HIM BUT IF I DONT HES GONNA THINK THAT I DONT LIKE HIM AND I DO I REALLY DO! WAT SHOULD I DO? IF HE FINDS OUT I LIED TO HIM AGAIN HE MIGHT THROW ME OUT INTO THE STREET! pls help! and my tonight cause hes gonna try again and i dont wanna lie to him anymore! (link)
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hey whats up ! well in my eyes i think that you should tell him because the longer you keep pushing it off the worse its gonna make it for you. The longer you wait the harder it is gonna be to tell him and he is gonna prolly get upset then your relationship is gonna end. If he loves you then he will wait until you are ready not when he gets "In The Moodd" you shouldnt feel bad becauuse you dont want to . Thats good that you have not though because once you do its all down the wrong road because boys label you the same way believe me.
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Why do boys play with your emotions they make you think they like you and then they just diss you. (link)
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its all just a mind game to see how far they can get mainly because girls are sesitive and vulnerable.
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Hey Guyz, I know this girl Kate and she has a best friend Abby. They Always hang out and stuff and are like Best friends. I know that its none of MY business (but it's bothering me) but Kate is ALWAYS,(When I say ALWAYS I mean it) Flirts with Abby's boyfriend Zack. Like today we had Club Day and she was like All over him whenever Abby wasn't around. Like Laying her head on his shoulder, holding his hand, etc. What should I do. And My Best friend has even told Abby about it but she wouldn't listin to her! Should I Write her (Sarah) a Letter (without my name)?? (link)
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hey i dont think you should get caught in the middle because that will lead to more problems. I do think that you shoould make little hints to her to let her see it 4 herself so you dont get blamed for not minding your business. If your friend already said it to her then just slowly ease in and get your point across maybe your friend should of took a different approach instead of just accusing her. If you show her she has no choice to believe it.
Try it and tell me how it goes.
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Ok well here it is there is this girl that i like and i have told her i like her and asked her if she saw me as frinds or more and she said frinds for now and i jus wanna kno if there is anything i could do to make her not like me as much as a frind but more than that and i really like her
I will rate high thnx peace (link)
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Hey i wouldnt push on her so she cant stand you, but i would try to be more interested in what she is interested in and i would compliment her more. Dont start doing stuff to make you look stupid or anything just be more helping/caring.
good luck
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ok so im on my period...funfun...and my tummy hurts like never before...what are somethings/anything i can do/take to feel better? 13/f if that helps?(not my first time also) (link)
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Hey i always listen to music to not think about it.What you could do is put a heating pad on your stomach or get in the shower and let the hot water run on it. that works for me ! I would take some Midol or Ibuprofen also.
Cheer up its only 7 days !
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heres the thing: i IMed one of my friends to say something like "oh do u know mike's screen name i need to ask him a question bout homework" but shhh.. i really just wanted it so maybe someday i would get the courage to IM him.. cause DAM am i in love with him lol. basically all i need is for you guys to give me some ideas on how i can IM him without him knowing its me at first, or getting someone else to. basically i just wanna know how i can make it look like is someehow i got his sn (like someone sent me their buddy list) and wanted to know who it was. please guys.. everytime i see his name pop up on my buddy list i wanna say something so bad... (link)
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GESH JUST SAY SOMETHING(no but really)
I would find out something important in school and im him about it like an event maybe a test. Or if you really wanna score some points im him about sports. Dont say so much to embaress yourself just find a highlight and im him talking about it .
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does anyone know any REALLY REALLY good songs about missing someone and loving them but more about missing them and all that? thanks. (link)
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hey whats up ! I would tell you to listen to
1)We Belong Together-Mariah Carey
2)Don't Forget about Us-Mariah Carey
3)Pussycat Dolls -Stickwitu
4)Dangerously in Love-Destinys Child
5)Cater 2 u- Destinys Child
Hey it always helps me . Hope he comes back soon for your sake it sucks when you have someone who you care about so much away 4 any amount of time.
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Well this weekend me and my 2 best friends are having a sleepover and were outta things to do!!
Got any ideas?
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Depending on what type of person u are there are many things 2 fo .
If i was u i would catch a movie and then go home hang out and listen 2 music so the day would go by a lil bit faster. If not that go hang out with other friends that have plans 2 . That always works !
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ok well there is this kid named Billy, who I really like! He jokes around with me, he calles me his future wife and stuff. I like it and my friend says its flirting and tat he probably likes me. I'm not sure. I really want him to like me. Also he gets really close to me sometimes and hugs me really close. When he does it is like the best thing in the world! He told me him self that he likes a few people including his exgirlfriend. Should I back off or what? I need help please help
I rate well! (link)
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hey whats up i no exactly what your goin through i kinda hadta go through that at the beginning of the year. but back on you i think that you should back off to a certain point dont make it obivious that you like him until its clear that he likes you back.Mainly because boys like to mess with girls heads to see how far they can get and when they're done your the one getting hurt not them belive me i no! so dont push unless he pushes first*** And dont get caught up in anything stupid "I've had to go through that 2'
~good luck~
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There's a guy at my college whom I know and like really well. We have a lot in common (read the same kind of books, etc) and can have long conversations. Problem, though: he deals in chemicals of the illicit kind. And not just on the side -- he does it for a living. I don't have any moral problems with drugs, though I don't use them myself and none of my friends do -- not even the drug dealer, he just sells them. It's just that I'm afraid I will have a taint by association problem. In fact, I sort of already have -- the campus housing people searched my room for drugs once, simply because he had been in it. (They found nothing of course, since I use nothing. He thought it was very amusing, but I was annoyed.) Is it worth it to stay friends with the dude, since I like him so much, or should I cool off? (link)
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hey! thats kinda a your call question. but i do think that you should consider talkin to him about the consequences of doing what he does. Weither you should be his friend or not hey! i wouldnt stop. just know what u should be doing and dont get caught in the middle of what he's doing.
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