Question Posted Thursday December 22 2005, 4:03 pm
i have been best friends with my friend sammie since about 7th grade. now i'm a junior & i'm not quite sure what to make of our friendship anymore. we are not in any of the same classes this year& we never see each other in the hallways either, so basically i don't see her in school. in the beggining of the year we still did stuff together, but now she has a new friend & doesn't seem to make an effort to hang with me. now i'm not against her making new friends (i have made new ones too), but we are nowhere near as close as we use to be. i still like her, but i don't know where this friendship is going & i would just like an opinion on what you make of the situation or if you have any advice on if i should let the friendship go or keep trying. thanks, for good advice i rate 5's.
smileyjoo32 answered Thursday December 22 2005, 11:45 pm: well..you probably have already heard this..but you make the effort..and also try to get to be friends with the new friend that she has... in the meantime..jut enjoy life and highschool...make new friends..be crazy...have fun!
xOViLLYxO answered Thursday December 22 2005, 7:37 pm: dont let your friendship go just talk to her about it and tell you how you feel then she will understand because most girls do so just be open with her and tell her the truth then invite her over or just hang out somewere '`♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
TakeItFromMeBaby answered Thursday December 22 2005, 4:35 pm: definitely keep trying. if yall were best friends theres no reason to let it all go. just try n make plans with her occasionally and hang out and stuff. and go hang out with her and her new friends. <3 hope i helped.
KiSSxMYxPEARLS answered Thursday December 22 2005, 4:13 pm: I think maybe you should kind of make it work. Just invite her hang out. You guys used to be really good friends so it wouldn't be THAT akward if you call her. If she says no to that, then I suggest just letting her go. You guys have made new friends and i think thats a good start. You shouldn't really make an effort into making the friendship work if she won't give effort into it either.
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