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I've had my period for two years now. It's verrrrry irregular. It will skip months and come anytime during the month. I've gone 3 months with out my period. I never know when it's going to show up. I've heard that sometimes if you're skinny that might have something to do with it. I'm like 5'6 and i weigh 105 pounds. Do you think it has anything to do with it? What do you think i should do? Thanks.

Your weight shouldn`t have anything to do with it, but it might be a factor sometimes. For the first couple years of having your period, usually it is extrememly irregular, so don`t worry, most likely it is okay. If you still feel uncomfortable, go see your doctor and tell your doctor what`s going on, but most likely, they will tell you the exact same thing I`m saying =] Hope I`ve Helped ♥

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please read this and help me..i'll rate 5s..just please i desperately need help more than anything


i fell in love with a guy named harrison about 2 years ago, and we have been unseperable ever since then. we'd always have the occasional fights between us, and i was crazy about him, and he was about me too. i loved him more than anything in the world, and this was not just puppy love, this was the real thing. he was my first and possibly final love, and i lost my virginity to him. when he moved to iowa last year, we still loved each other and he never even attempted to go out with any other girl. he was the best thing that had ever happened to me, and i loved him..i truly mean it. he was always there for me, he was there when mother died, i lost my best friend, and when i had to have a heart surgery.


recently he died in a car accident. it wasn't his fault at all, it was horrible luck. he was driving on a highway and a drunk driver crashed into his car, killing him. i cried myself to sleep for months, and i just didn't care about anything but him. i was obsessing yes, but i loved him, and i know he loved me too. he was the only one for me, and i know he's gone now and i should move on and look for other guys, but i don't think i'll ever find anyone else like harrison. i will still of course try, but i cannot help but feel horrible. sometimes i feel i should kill myself so i can join harrison up in heaven, but i have never succeeded. i am hurt beyond words, and i don't know what to do anymore. please help me, anything will help right now. thank you so much for reading all of this.. love, lauren

I`m so sorry that all of this happened to you. I honestly don`t want to even imagine how horrible it was to go through this.

Do not kill yourself. He wouldn`t have wanted you to do that. He obviously loved you as well, and he would have wanted you to been happy - not sad. Of course, right now it is hard to be happy, but in the future, just keep in mind the good memories and how he wouldn`t want you to ruin your life. There will be no other guy like him, but one day you might just find someone almost as good as he was, and will love you, so don`t feel horrible for wanting to move on.

My advice is to keep a diary or talk to a therapist [or even a very close friend] and keep an open mind and talk everything through.

If you need absolutely anything, do not hesitate to message me. Hope I`ve Helped ♥

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i've been looking up different types of birthcontrol pills & it says:

$20–$35 for monthly pill pack at drugstores. Often less at clinics.

$35–$125 for an exam, if needed.

----does that mean they sale the pill pack at a drugstore? such as.. eckerds or walgreens without a prescription?

Unfortunately for your sake, they don`t sell them like Tylenol and stuff because probably kids that aren`t supposed to use it would and stuff like that, so you`d need a prescription from your doctor. Planned Parenthood is another place you can go to for even more info on birth control. Hope I`ve Helped ♥

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does anyone no any good tanning products or any good ways to get tan??

thankz

i rate high :)

A true good way to get a tan is actually swimming on a sunny or even cloudy [for some reason you get a better tan on a cloudy day actually =)] In the pool, I seem to absorb the tan better and I get a more even tan! Also, another great way is just relaxing in your backyard - either sitting, walking, whatever in your bathing suit =] If you need anything else, feel free to message =] Hope I`ve Helped ♥

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My hair is dry && damaged. How do I get it to have that soft sorta oily coating on it to make it smooth. I've tried Treseme, Garnier, Herbal Essance, and Pantene and I still have hair that feels like straw!!

I`ve tried so many brands as well =] My aunt recently had really dry&&damaged hair, and what worked for her [well I have done it before too lol ] was putting on a LOAD of conditioner before even shampooing. And even before going in the shower, either use regular conditioner on dry hair and let it sit for a while in a shower cap or down on like a robe, or buy a leave in conditioner. It truly helps! Hope I`ve Helped ♥

BTW =] Alberto V05 &&Suave && Matrix && Amplify work VERY WELL!

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i have a pimple and it is bugging me like it bugs most people but is there any way i can make it go away or get smaller by tomorrow? would putting toothpaste on it overnight help?

I`ve HEARD that toothpaste does help, but I haven`t tried it. A product that I reccomend to EVERYONE is Cetaphil, it`s like a gel and you wet your face, rub it in, rinse it off, and the next day you see a BIG difference =] Seabreeze is an astringent that also works very well. Witch Hazel, also an astringent I believe, works well, but not as quickly as the others. I also have another *must have* - it`s Neutrogena Skin Clearing Makeup- it`s a concealer with benzoyl peroxide, so it conceals && fights the pimple at the same time! Hope I`ve Helped ♥

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Does anyone kno any really good makeout tips?? 15/f

Honestly, my best advice is have fun, wear lipgloss, have a mint before, and be YOURSELF =]

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Ok, I love designing(drawing) outfits and dresses and stuff but I suck at drawing bodies. I was wondering if anyone knew of a website with like mannequins(sp?) you can print out and draw on. I don't want any porn crap, please. Thanks!!!

Hey, honestly, I have the SAME problem lol =] There`s a kit that my parents sent away for from some catalouge, but I`m not exactly sure which. It comes with bodies and you can draw your own designs on it. I honestly think it might have been from a children`s or art catalouge, so it might help searching it, because I don`t have it around otherwise I`d look to see if theres a company name =] Anyway, there`s sites online that you can get pixel "dolls" (not cartoon dolls, considered 'hand drawn') that you can print out and draw your own creations on. Usually, they come with no hair as well, and usually they are used on the computer for graphics and such. They`re also called "bases" - heres a site for you - http://www.xandorra.co.uk/?o=0

Hope I`ve Helped ♥ and if you have any other questions, feel free to message me =]

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I've always used a note to break up with someone because I'm shy and when I break up with my boyfriends, I wouldn't be able to look them in their face or be able to talk because I'd be so nervous. So my question is: What's the best way to break up with a guy? You know, like note, phone, in person, online?

I`m going to be completely honest with you. Whenever someone tells me something online that I know they wouldn`t tell me to my face, I get a little bit annoyed in the fact that they weren`t mature enough to just tell me, no offense. Don`t be nervous - EVERYONE goes through breakups. Tell them the truth and just break it to them nicely =] If you need anymore advice, feel free to message me. Hope I`ve Helped ♥

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hey i really would like to know where i can buy some sunglasses like.. the nicole ricci type! .. and they're big and the outsides are thick and white and the actual glasses parts arent black but kind of a dark brown! and i dont want them from somewhere really expensive like dior or something haha but around like $40 $50 or even less..i know there's some girls out there that know exactly what im talking about;) please help! i'll rate everyone that answers with a reasonable answer with 5's

Nordstrom and Target have similar stlyes for like $10-$25 and you can find an almost identical pair at Guess for $48, ck Calvin Klein for $80 [over your price range tho], Relic Pandor for $20 at Mervyns, JLO Alma glasses for $50, I believe, it was just in a magazine that I read =] Hope I`ve Helped ♥

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heyyy i was just wondering if it's safe to really get an account on ebay and buy purses and what not! i have wanted an account for a long asZ* time and im just not sure what its all about and how it works and everything! please help ill rate very high;)

Yes, it is safe. If there is a faker on or a scammer, Ebay usually 99.9% of the time pulls the item off and bans the user. Also, if you buy a designer purse or designer clothing and the person claims it to be real, and it comes and it isn`t authentic, you notify Ebay + Paypal and you send the item back and you are refunded =]

If you are the highest bidder, or use BUY IT NOW, you win the item =] You pay for the item on the bid that you won it for [you can put a maximum bid in, which sometimes people will outbid you on and sometimes your low bid will stay the same and not have to go up to your maxiumum bid]. If you don`t win, sometimes the person sends you a Second Chance Offer to buy the item again. You pay for the item + shipping all the time, unless they give you the shipping for free. Buying from other countries is pretty much okay too, just try to get a tracking number and be aware that it takes a while, anywhere from 3 days to 3 or 4 weeks. BE SURE TO CHECK OUT A SELLER`S FEEDBACK AND SEE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAID ABOUT THEIR ITEMS =]

Go to Ebay.com to sign up and they guide you step by step on how to setup your account. If you have any questions on how to bid or how something works, feel free to ask! Hope I`ve Helped ♥

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Okay..im a redhead..and alot of times wen i go out and meet guys n stuff theyre interested in me..but theyre more interested in the blondes or brunettes. Im not your usual redhead..i have tan skin and my hair isnt as frizzy and i dont have that many freckles. Do guys not like redheads?

I have alot of guy friends. Honestly, I`ve never seen them turn down a redhead. Guys DO like redheads =] and if they don`t like you for you, they`re not worth it - trust me, you will find the guy that will ADORE your hair. Be happy that you have red hair - not alot of people have it naturally =] ♥ Hope I've Helped ♥

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i want to go on a diet. every is like "no you are so skinny!" which is true, but i want to stay skinny! im not trying to loose weight, im trying to maintain it! so please help me out on ways to do that!

Don`t go on a diet - diets can turn out to make your weight go up and down and back up again. You are better off working out to maintain your weight - dancing, playing a sport, walking, jogging, whatever floats your boat =] will all work on maintaining your weight, and even toning it a little bit if you`d like. Hope I`ve Helped ♥

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I'm nervous about getting my first period. I'm really afrad that it will leak through and everyone will see. I'm jsut getting out of sixth grade and I'm supposed to be getting it soon. Will it leak through my pants??

I can understand why you`re nervous, but it`s completely normal and natural. Here`s the thing, now that you are approaching the age for getting your period, if you are concerned about it leaking through your pants, wear a thin mini pad every day. Mini pads are little pads that you can`t even feel, and some people wear them to feel refreshed. When you first get your period, it shouldn`t come out heavy, and believe me, you will just feel .. different, once you get it, and you`ll just know. If you need any more advicec, feel free to message me =] Hope I`ve Helped ♥

PS: If you do get it soon, since you are worried about it leaking, remember to wear DARK color pants when you have your period =] White is a definite no-no.

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I'm going to the beach for the first time in years. What things should I make sure to bring? (like make-up, how many bathing suits, what bathing suits, and other stuff..)

These are my beach essentials:

Flipflops [it`s easier to take them off to walk on the sand, and if you hate the gritty sand, bring an extra pair to slip into after your feet are cleaned from the sand, if there's a public little shower thing to rinse off in or whatever =] ]

One or Two Cute Bathing Suits that you are completely comfortable in.

A sarong/cover up

Bottled Water & A snack like Pretzels.

A very good sunscreen [good SPF]

Sunglasses

A cute sundress or outfit to put on after you leave the beach.

^^ That should be perfect, not over done and not too little. As for makeup, when I go to the beach, I don`t wear makeup because if you have lipgloss and the sand is blowing, it might stick on your lips. But, if you want to, go with a little lipgloss, a little eyeliner, and foundation, if you use foundation, see if you can get some with sun protection.

If you need anything else, feel free to ask =] Hope I`ve Helped ♥

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i really need help with my makeup..i have light skin, blue eyes, and light blonde hair. Like what color of eyeliner and mascara do i need to wear, b/c i think black looks to harsh with my skin..brands and colors would be helpful! thanks so much!! katie_xx

I`d suggest:

EYESHAD0W : I`d suggest blue eyeshadow, it would bring out your eyes - there`s a company that sells an eyeshadow pallette to make your eyes stand out - I think it`s Maybelline, not sure =]

EYELINER: Black, brown, or blue if you can find it because blue give a cute accent to your blue eyeshadow.

MASCARA: Black or Brown =]
^^ Black doesn`t look harsh with your skin, well, atleast my opinion/idea of it, it shouldn`t so just apply it lightly once =]

LIPGLOSS: Go with neutral colors or pale pinks.

CONCEALER [ IF YOU WANT THIS OR NOT I`M NOT SURE ] : NEUTROGENA Liquid Concealer. It also has the benzoyl peroxide stuff to help zits too, and even if you don`t have it, it prevents them.

BLUSH: I wouldn`t recommend, but if you want a little shade of color, go with a light pink or tan.

As for BRANDS.. any brand is pretty much okay, but stick to brands that are the most famous like Covergirl/Maybelline, etc etc. My suggestion is to go to SEPHORA [or like Macy`s and Nordstrom too] because you can look at the makeup yourself, get a little mini makeover, and see how you like the makeup before you buy it and the employees help with colors that would suit you best. If you need anything else, just message - Hope I've Helped ♥

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what are some good qualities you need to have in a friendship? for example ..loyalty. i need at least 3 of them. thanks i rate high for good answers

:D

These are my standards for a good friendship:
RESPECT - if they don`t respect you, they aren`t your friend.
HONESTY - a true friend would tell you when you look like you have too much makeup on or if you looked like a slut at the dance.
CARING/LOVING - a true friend shows compassion for you.
RESPONSIBLILY - a friend who goofs off and leaves it all to you doesn`t respect you at all.

Hope I`ve Helped ♥

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Ok so Im planning this perfect night with my boyfriend and i want a killer outfit...im 16yr female..and hes 18 i want to make him want me and get his attention...So please give me a good outfit idea...how to do my makeup and hair..and what ever else u can..Please help

Guys like when girls are themselves - so just be yourself really =] Personally, I'd wear a skirt with a cute top. For your hair, keep it simply, yet cute =] Like a ponytail with a little glitter spray or something. Makeup .. some mascara and eyeliner if you want and some clear lipgloss. Wear a cute and eye catching choker or necklace.If you need anything else just ask! Hope I've Helped ♥

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im going out to eat with my boyfriend and his family (his mom,dad, 2 bro's, and 2 sister-in-laws, and nephew and neice) anyways.. i gotta inpress them... dont know why but i know i do. So were going to applebee's.. im a very picky eater and i dont know what to get. i dont really like burgers and such. Any suggestions?i was thinking matzarella sticks but i dont know if that'd be rude because its a appetizer.. help. i know its dumb but whatever!

Getting an appetizer doesn't look that bad, but you might want to opt for a salad, since it's the safest choice. The only bad part is you can get salad stuck in your teeth. Personally, when I go to Applebee's I order their steak teriaki that comes out on the hotplate. It's really good, but if you're a picky eater, you might not like it. Try the Applebee's website, they probably give a menu, so you can preview things before you even get there so you have an idea on what you might like. Applebee's also has chicken, soups, and other things that you may enjoy. Have a great time out =] and I Hope I've Helped ♥

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how do you download it? do you have to buy it or can you go to a certain website? thankkss !!

You don't download it - just simply go to www.photobucket.com and get a free account. Once you are on there, they give you the option to upload whatever picture you want =] then it gives you all these codes, for url, html, etc etc =] If you need anything else, feel free to message ♥

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