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I'm currently just a friend to this guy.
He's sweet and thougtful. I told him once I realy like him, but he never responded on that subject. I can't tell he likes me or not. (He kissed me twice....)

When I write emails or txt msg to him, he will respond right the way,(I like that) but he usually just rwspond my question, not really asking me question (almost it seems doesn't matter to him).
If I asked him out, he will usually says yes, but 3 out of 5, he will cancel it or come out some kind of excuse that he can't make it.

I'm confused. Does he like me or not?

I think he does like you but maybe is nervous about the whole going out thing. He sounds really confusing so I think you should just ask him and be striaght up with it. ♥

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ok well i started my period today and i dont have any pads. i have one to last me about half of another day. well i mean my parents are divorced and i live with my dad. i am afriad to tell him but that is the only way i can get pads. if i tell my mom then she might tell my dad. i dont want him to know so plzz give me advice on what to do (how to get pads without him knowin.)

Ask a friend who lives close. But you have to understand every girl is going to get a period at one point or another so your dad will know sooner or later. It's not embarassing..♥

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hey im a guy 13, and i was wondering whats the most important thing to girls to make a guy hot. is it clothes, looks, popularity, sports, scent etc......

All girls are different to me it's personality but looks too, also if hes funny, eyes!, doesn't act different in front of his friends,smells like the good stuff all dudes use,not a loser,and althetlic,and what ever clothes he likes it don't really matter. ♥

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well i have a bunch of guy friends. and we're all really tight!!! but now like randomly they all started liking me, but i have a boyfriend!!!
how do i stay friends with them?!?!!?

If you have a boyfriend and you really like him then tell the other guys you just want to say friends. ♥

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im a 13/f and i have never kissed a boy in my life. I have never even gone out with a boy in my life. I have wavy brown hair and am about 5'4 with an athletic figure. I want to know if theres somthing wrong with me and why i cant get a bf. plz help me

Girl,don't even worry. Nothing is wrong with you. That's a good thing if you haven't gone out with a guy, because you will always have something to worry about. Your only 13 your have a long time to find a guy. If you really want one then you just have to start flirting alot and hang out with guys and call them and stuff. ♥

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I feel that me and her are made for each other, but she doesn't feel the same. What can i do to change that? I really, really love her, mind you and i don't want to lose her.

You can't just make someone love you. It takes a while for stuff to happen, but meanwhile just start hanging out with her more and become even closer. Even if after hanging out alot she still doesn't feel the same chances are she likes you as a friend no more no less. ♥

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19 f

ok so theres this guy i like. he treats me right. and he doesnt push anything on me sexually wise. He says he wants me to be happy and that will make him happy. I really like him but im afraid of getting hurt. This is the first guy that ive fallen for in a long time. Is this guy really interested in me?

Aw, he seems like a good guy. All guys will hurt you at one point or another. You just have to see which ones are worth the pain and which aren't but he seems like a good guy, and I think he is interested! ♥

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14/f About a month ago a boy who I liked asked me out and I said yes, but it's like as soon as I said yes I realizied that's not what I wanted! I want to break up with him but I don't want to just tell him I don't like him anymore. He knows my parents are okay with it. What do I do?

Don't keep going out with him if you don't like him. Just tell him you want to be friends still but you just don't have enough feelings for him to go out with him. ♥

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does taking lime after sex stop pregnancy?

Noooo. ♥

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hey everyone! please recomend your favorite song. i need a new myspace song seeing as the old got deleted. umm songs with lyrics dealing with heartbreak would be best. rock or pop would also be good. thanx

Right here with you - White dawg
Broken - Chris Daughty
Circles - Marques Houston
Forget you - Forget you
Who Knew - Pink

& you can get lyrics at azlyrics.com

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okay so i reallly like this boy in my class, and i;ve known him since like 2nd grade. and we are in 7th grade now. So he found out that i like him and he still acts like he;s my bestfriend and stuff. but idk if he likes me or not! help ):

If he found out you liked him and if he didn't like you he still wouldn't be acting like hes your best friend. He would try to back off or ignore you, which hes not so he might like you but you wouldn't know until you actully talk to him about this. ♥

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Theres this boy, Jacob. He's one of my best friends, and I'm in love with him. I really am, don't tell me I'm too young or anything. But I don't know if he likes me that way or not. he did earlier this year, but I don't know anymore. And my friend likes him, too. I've cried over him so many times, because i thought that he liked her. I was really upset, but I dont know, as long as he was happy then i wasn't too sad. I was afraid that she'd hurt him or something. But anyway, its been so much pain and hurt. should I just try and see if I can stop loving him? Is love worth all the tears and pain?

Don't give up on him. I have learned that the hard way so that's I'm telling you not to. If you friend likes him cool, but that shouldn't stop you from liking him too. You need to call or IM him or get a hold of him someway and talk to him about this. It might sound weird but if you really tell him how you feel, you never know he might feel the same way. You can't just stop loving someone what you have liked for a while just not possible, even if you try it won't work and I have learned that. Love is worth all the tears and pain =)

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Almost all school year I have liked this one guy. We were close as friends and he helped me out alot. Bottom line I liked him alot. Things have come up where me, and other people have completely convinced me there was no way he could like me. I got over him but now he's doing it all over again.
He could tell I was upset and kept asking about it but this time I refused to tell him. He talks to me quite a bit. He'll joke around saying he loves me or people say we make a cute couple. But sometimes he'll follow those phrases by insulting me. He tries to help me out and he flirts with me. One time I was just standing there (we were both in the same play thing) and he comes over, stands beside me, starts a con and after a while when I tell him I want to watch the play because I need to know when to come in, he just steps on my foot on purpose and then gives me a little poke. I step on his foot and basically we started playing footsies. I am over him but sometimes he makes me start to like him again but I always make myself remember he never would. It's getting me very angry that now that i've decided to finnally move on he's making it impossible to do so. What should I do?

Like the person below me said, how do you know he doesn't like you? Have one of his really close guy friends ask him if he likes you. I honestly think he does. The best kind of boyfriends are best guy friends because they already know all your bad moods and there still here for you. He wouldn't be flirting and coming over if he thought of you as " just a friend " I don't think you should move on til you find out for sure he doesn't like you, because I think he does :]

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so i'm 15 and i have a bunch of guy friends... but they have crazy mood swings and i never know what to expect from them... i'm really starting to get frustrated with all this drama and stuff... like one day i'm all they're interested in, and the next i'm not even there and they're mad at me for something.... grrr. so why do guy's have these crazy mood swings and what can i possibly do about them?

That's how all guys are, you just have to learn to live with it because they will never change. You can't do much about them because even if you talked to them they wouldn't change. ♥

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i went out with this guy and 1st i liked him then i didnt and it kept going on and off and then i broke up with him. so heres my problem i still feel like i kinda like him like when he signs on aim i jut want to talk to him!! and he still likes me so if i tell him i like him hell ask me out....but when i think about going out with him i feel like i dont like him anymore! but when were not going out i do!!! im really confused!
so do you think i should go out with him again or would it be better if we were just friends??

Go out with him one last time and see how things go :]

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i went out with this guy and 1st i liked him then i didnt and it kept going on and off and then i broke up with him. so heres my problem i still feel like i kinda like him like when he signs on aim i jut want to talk to him!! and he still likes me so if i tell him i like him hell ask me out....but when i think about going out with him i feel like i dont like him anymore! but when were not going out i do!!! im really confused!

That happens ALOT. You don't really know what you have til it's gone but when you have it you tend to seem to not care, thats how it is. You probly do like him but you know you have him when you going out so you don't care. But when you don't have him you need him..♥

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Okay well to make it short me and my boyfriend have been dating for a yr and 1/2. And a few months ago we started arguing alot. Im scared hes cheating on me and i dont know what to do. He seems annoyied with me all the time he never calls me he always yells and screams at me. And he never likes me looking through is phone he like has a fit if i ask to see it. And theres this girl that likes him. He wont admit she likes him but lets not state the obvious. So anyway i was looking at her myspace, she had a hat on and my boyfriend has the SAAAAME exact hat and they are both in the same lunch. They were sitting at the lunch table together with a few other people but sopposibly "He sits at a different table" I know its his hat he told me plenty of people have that hat. BUt i mean seriousily how many people in his lunch have that hat im sure not many. And when i looked at her comments on the pic soem girl was like haaa i wonder whose at that is.? Is it me or is he cheating on me i dont know? I know everyone says OHhh youll know when hes cheating on you BUT HELLO I DONT KNOW! some one please help.!!

Wow, to me it does seem like something is going on. You need to talk to him and tell him striaght up how you feel. It may be hard but you need to. No relationship is good if you have no trust in each other. Ask him about the hat. Give him a little heads up say I don't know if we will be able to last anymore, or something around there. If he doesn't like you look through his phone and doesn't call you as much and everything else you said those are signs of cheating but again you never know. ♥

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i have had sex with two guys in alittle over a year, but i did it about like 15 times. i think thats alot. is it ? i dont want my vagina to keep getting looser because guys think thats gross. what can i do to make it gradually get alittle tighter. will not having any sex for awhile help ?

Yes that is alot of times..I'm not sure what you can really do to make it tighter but not having sex in a while will help. ♥

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This might be a little complicated to put into words, but I do need advice pretty badly.

Ok, so I went out with this boy for a while, like 4 months. He is a senior and I am a freshman. Fair enough. Anyways, while I was with him, I became friends with his friends, including this girl, let's call her K. So K and I were best friends for a while, then when my boyfriend and I broke up, we didn't talk much.

Basically the whole point of this is, K is a REAL bitch. Like, pure evil. She is a horrible person. Me and her have gotten into many fights, and I just dislike her completely, and she knows it too because I have told her straight to her face that we shouldn't talk anymore. She is a cruel person.

The thing is she won't leave me alone! she IMs me randomly about my friend T, who she is all of a sudden "best friends" with (and of course has to say it oh so loud whenever I walk by.) This girl is phsyco, always telling me she's wanted to punch me in the face and stuff. I would love to give her a beat down, but she would probably snap me in a second. She has changed my ex, who I have been being fine with until K steps in and is getting him into drugs.

What the HECK to I do to
Get her off my back.
and to stop her from ruining my ex boyfriends life?

AH. Okay first off if she says she was going to hit you she would have done it by now.Second off when she IMs you block her and just always ignore her.She's a waste of your time. If she still keeps talking shxt and saying she will hit you, get your friends together and go up to her and say something, just incase she hits you you have a few people with you, which I doubt she will.

About your ex, there isn't much you can do.Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. If he still doesn't listen then just let him do what he wants. He will realize how K is sooner or later.

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Okay, a few questions here about tanning. If you go to a tanning PLACE.. then.. okay.. lol here:
[1] What do you wear?
[2] Do you go in a room alone?
[3] Do you lay down in a closed thing or what?
[4] Will other people see you?
[5] About how much does it cost?
[6] Are there any age limits?

1. Nothing
2. Yes
3. Yes, You lay down then close it
4. No, Your alone.
5. It all depends on the place
6. Usually it's 14 with parent permission

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