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stupid.
This might be a little complicated to put into words, but I do need advice pretty badly.
Ok, so I went out with this boy for a while, like 4 months. He is a senior and I am a freshman. Fair enough. Anyways, while I was with him, I became friends with his friends, including this girl, let's call her K. So K and I were best friends for a while, then when my boyfriend and I broke up, we didn't talk much.
Basically the whole point of this is, K is a REAL bitch. Like, pure evil. She is a horrible person. Me and her have gotten into many fights, and I just dislike her completely, and she knows it too because I have told her straight to her face that we shouldn't talk anymore. She is a cruel person.
The thing is she won't leave me alone! she IMs me randomly about my friend T, who she is all of a sudden "best friends" with (and of course has to say it oh so loud whenever I walk by.) This girl is phsyco, always telling me she's wanted to punch me in the face and stuff. I would love to give her a beat down, but she would probably snap me in a second. She has changed my ex, who I have been being fine with until K steps in and is getting him into drugs.
What the HECK to I do to
Get her off my back.
and to stop her from ruining my ex boyfriends life?
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AH. Okay first off if she says she was going to hit you she would have done it by now.Second off when she IMs you block her and just always ignore her.She's a waste of your time. If she still keeps talking shxt and saying she will hit you, get your friends together and go up to her and say something, just incase she hits you you have a few people with you, which I doubt she will.
About your ex, there isn't much you can do.Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. If he still doesn't listen then just let him do what he wants. He will realize how K is sooner or later.
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If your ex boyfriend was smart, he would realize that K is bad news. If he's willing to start doing drugs and ruin his life, there's nothing you can do about it accept let him know that you're worried about him. Let him live his life and he'll learn from his mistakes sooner or later.
Next time K IMs you, block her! You don't have to listen to her. You've obviously made it clear that you want nothing to do with her, so don't talk to her. And don't fight with her, because I'm sure you are smarter than she is and if you start getting physical, you'll both get in trouble and you'll just be sinking down to her low-life level.
All you can do about your ex is tell him that K is bad news and you're worried that if he starts hanging around with her he'll get into serious trouble. And as for getting K off your back, just ignore her completely. You have no reason to talk to her, so don't.
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