I need help on this problem that i have with my girlfriend r
Question Posted Friday April 13 2007, 1:14 am
I feel that me and her are made for each other, but she doesn't feel the same. What can i do to change that? I really, really love her, mind you and i don't want to lose her.
AskJR answered Friday April 13 2007, 4:35 pm: You didn't mention your age, but I'd have to guess a teenager. Why? Because adults already know that you can not "make" someone love you.
You dont's "really, really, really love her" you are feeling rejected and pissed off so are overcompensating for it by not giving up.
Sometimes we want what we can't have.
You can not make anyone love you or feel about you the way you feel about them. So stop trying-- you're wasting your time when it could be better spent on a girl that does like you.
katie_babey answered Friday April 13 2007, 12:47 pm: im sorry to say it but you cant make her love you. Its hard wen you love someone alot and they dont love you bak i kno because i had a bf that didnt feel like that either. It hurts alot wen someone tells you that they dotn love you but life goes on adn jsut try to find someone else. Im sorry but you just cant make someone change their mind bout how the feel bout you thats just how things go. It took me a long time to get over my ex bf but you will be fine and just find someone new. Im really sorry that she doesnt love you or she doesnt think that you guys are made for eachother. I mean you guys can still be friends that way you dont lose her completely but i know it will be hard for you to jsut be her friend. Sometimes you hav to let the best things in life go you will be fine without her if you do lose her. Ok well i hope everyhtin works out for you if you have anymore questions write me in my inbox and heres my sn if you ever want to talk
xoxokatiebabii
LagunaBabe answered Friday April 13 2007, 9:40 am: I'm sorry, but you cannot make someone love you. They have to feel it in their heart, and really mean it when they say it. I'm not sure if you're saying that the two of you are close to breaking up, but if you are, you could ask you to see how things progress first, or if they progress, and if not, then break up after that. I'm afraid it's just about the only thing you can do, I wish you the best of luck. [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
lizzielovesyou answered Friday April 13 2007, 8:17 am: well i hate to tell you but you cant make someone love you.i wish i could because i would of had the gu i wanted for a long time alot faster.just take her out and talk to her about issues,let her kow the real you.if she cant except you for who you are then shes not worth your time.
lot of love,lizzie [ lizzielovesyou's advice column | Ask lizzielovesyou A Question ]
xOViLLYxO answered Friday April 13 2007, 7:09 am: You can't just make someone love you. It takes a while for stuff to happen, but meanwhile just start hanging out with her more and become even closer. Even if after hanging out alot she still doesn't feel the same chances are she likes you as a friend no more no less. ♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
SuperDuperJess answered Friday April 13 2007, 5:56 am: Hey.
Well, girls can't just love someone straight away. It has to grow on them. Just keep on doing what you already do. Invite her round your house, go to the cinema, go bowling, watch a movie at either your house or her's, possibly tell her how you feel about her, tell her that she is beautiful, kiss her on the forhead, take her out for dinner, hold her hand when your around your friends-show her off, try and do some things that you both enjoy-together.
For any more advice-don't hesitate to ask me.
Good Luck!
mariahwannabe answered Friday April 13 2007, 5:53 am: you cant play with love and make , force someone to see your perfect for eachother.If she dosnt feel the same way, that is it, you cant change anything,it hurts but you cant.
You know that saying "if you love someone, let them go" i think thats what you need to do.
I know you love her but she obviously feels different, let her go,.You guys can still be friends cant you??
It will take a while for you to get over it, but it's best, you want her to be happy?Then let her go, let her find the person who she feels better with. [ mariahwannabe's advice column | Ask mariahwannabe A Question ]
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