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Getting over him... He makes it so difficult though!!
Almost all school year I have liked this one guy. We were close as friends and he helped me out alot. Bottom line I liked him alot. Things have come up where me, and other people have completely convinced me there was no way he could like me. I got over him but now he's doing it all over again.
He could tell I was upset and kept asking about it but this time I refused to tell him. He talks to me quite a bit. He'll joke around saying he loves me or people say we make a cute couple. But sometimes he'll follow those phrases by insulting me. He tries to help me out and he flirts with me. One time I was just standing there (we were both in the same play thing) and he comes over, stands beside me, starts a con and after a while when I tell him I want to watch the play because I need to know when to come in, he just steps on my foot on purpose and then gives me a little poke. I step on his foot and basically we started playing footsies. I am over him but sometimes he makes me start to like him again but I always make myself remember he never would. It's getting me very angry that now that i've decided to finnally move on he's making it impossible to do so. What should I do?
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Like the person below me said, how do you know he doesn't like you? Have one of his really close guy friends ask him if he likes you. I honestly think he does. The best kind of boyfriends are best guy friends because they already know all your bad moods and there still here for you. He wouldn't be flirting and coming over if he thought of you as " just a friend " I don't think you should move on til you find out for sure he doesn't like you, because I think he does :]
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first of all...why wouldn't he like you? It sounds like he might like you to me... but i think you should just ask him... it's just a question, but i know how difficult that can be to do with your best friend... It's hard because you don't want to ruin the friendship, but at the same time, you want it to be more.... If you really want to get over him, say "do you like me?" and then if he says no, then say "than please stop flirting with me" and then he'll realize your seeing it differently then he is, but if he says yes... then...well there you go! let me know how it goes, seriosly, i could use some aww inspiring story on this subject...
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girl,if its bugging you that much just ask him"do you like me or not?"if you cant do that say"you know whats funny people say we would make a cute couple,isnt that weird?"and see what he says.
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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i had a problem like this last year. i was in LOVE with my best friend. he would do the same thing that your guy friend would do he'd flirt with me a lot but i never thought ever that he would like me people always said awee you'd be a cute couple blah blah blah..theres plenty of fish in the sea go out there and find someone new. thats what i did and im just as happy with them even happier. im always going to love my best friend but i dont think its our time to date right now and i think its the same for you and your friend to get over him start dating other guys and when the time comes for yall two to date you'll be very happy :]
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