i went out with this guy and 1st i liked him then i didnt and it kept going on and off and then i broke up with him. so heres my problem i still feel like i kinda like him like when he signs on aim i jut want to talk to him!! and he still likes me so if i tell him i like him hell ask me out....but when i think about going out with him i feel like i dont like him anymore! but when were not going out i do!!! im really confused!
XoXoXoXo77 answered Saturday March 24 2007, 12:08 am: i know how you feel.
this happened to me once.. me and my boyfriend broke up and i was soo sad but then we got back together and i wasnt sure if i still liked him. so this is kinda the situation youre in. basically, i figured out that i really did love him and he was a great guy. i realized that its kinda like you want something until you have it.. then you dont appreciate it.. but it doesnt mean that you dont like it. if that makes any sense at all. you probably like him.. you just take him for granted when you go out. its normal.
try your relationship again and if within a few weeks youre still unsure.. then maybe you guys arent right for eachother.
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yourrtrustyhelpline answered Friday March 23 2007, 9:55 pm: well, i think you just like the idea of him. you probably just like the idea of having him as a boyfriend. if you don`t like him once you get with him, then you probably don`t really like him. if i were you, i would just be friends with him, to save him from the suffering of getting together, breaking up, and doing that over and over again, because if you keep getting back with him, that`s what`s gonna happen. [ yourrtrustyhelpline's advice column | Ask yourrtrustyhelpline A Question ]
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