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♥Hey, what's up? I'm Mari (aka TG...please don't ask!) and if you need any help with ANYTHING, I'm your girl! I'm pretty young and can be a total random psycho sometimes...all the time, but people tell me all the time that my deep thoughts, strong opinions, and excellent people skills makes me great for giving advice! My friends are always coming to me for it.I never ignore a question,though there are times i just won't be able to answer because, no matter how much i try to hide it, i don't know everything, so please don't be disappointed if i don't answer your question and don't let it stop you from asking me more. Also, please try to keep in miind that i DO have a life too, and as much as i love helping you guys, my life doesn't revolve completely around advicenators, so i won't be here every day, but don't worry! The longest i stay without advicenators is about 5 days. Oh, and if i only have bad things to say, I'll just keep my mouth shut (which is hard for me since I'm..."full of things to say", but I'll try!)0=D! Ask me! I will always GUARANTEE a helpful answer (even if it's only a little!). ♥ ...Anyway, if u wanna know anything about me, here's basic info:(A)awesome stuff about me:i'm fun, outgoing, smart, creative, real...i'm just awesome!!
(B)irthday:12/29/91
(C)olors:baby blue, pink, light purple/lavender
(D)arkest secret: i was barney-phobic @ age 3
(E)yes:brown
(F)ears:el chupacabras, la llorona, and being bored for the rest of my life (i'm a freakin stupidass, huh?!?!?)
(G)reatest sport ever: basketball (even though i kinda suck, it's soooo cool)
(H)aunted by: my 6th grade nickname...(shut up!!!)
(I)nterests/cool stuff:music, fun, friends, music, astrology, happy bunny:), music, *REAL* magic (just not BLACK magic), mythology, giving advice;D, & MUSIC!!!!!!!!♥
(J)ealous of: ppl w/ grey eyes
(K)indness: i sometimes help out @ animal shelters
(L)ucky #:13 (no, i'm not a gangster, dude...i'm just weird)
(M)usic: hmm....difficult...R&B, i guess
(N)ame: Marisol Gonzalez Franco
*(O)bsession:MUSIC!!♥ (shut up! yall KNOW i'm obsessed w/ music!)
(P)lace:my room & SANTA CRUZ BEACH BOARDWALK!!!♥"in the warm Californian sun! boardwalk!!!"
(Q)uote: **Dude...dude.**
(R)ole model/idol:Selena♥Quintanilla (*RIP*)
(S)ong:♥*OBSESSION*♥ by Frankie J and Baby Bash....shut up! ;)
(T)alent:wOW...i have so many!!! overall creativeness...when i'm not lazy and i have time
(U)niqueness:the birthmark below my right ear
(V)ery:...random...look! a puppy!
(W)orst thing about me: a lil conceited, lazy princess, annoying sometimes (sorry, guys!), a lil hipocritical, and REALLY BAD-TEMPERED!!!
(X)tra info: i think blue's clues RULES!!!
(y)ummy food:enchiladas, lemon hot cheetos w/ cheese, sour and/or strawberry candy...obviously not all together, though!
(Z)odiac: CAPRINCORN (CAPRICORNS R AWESOME!!♥)
"late at night when all the world is sleeping, i stay up and think of you and i wish on a star that somewhere you are thinking of me too 'cause i'm dreaming of you tonight till tomorrow, i'll be holding you tight, and there's nowhere in the world i'd rather be than here in my room, dreaming about you and me..."
-Selena, "dreaming of you"
"amor, no es amor (if this ain't love) what am i feeling, what am i doing wrong?...amor, no es amor (if this ain't love) it's just an ilusion that i have in my heart, amor..."
-Frankie J and Baby Bash, "OBSESSION"
"i've given everything, i loved you endlessly, but when it comes to me, you don't even notice me"
-NB Ridaz, "notice me"
"sunshine, i could call you my baby boy, you could call me your baby girl, maybe we could spend some time, i can be your sunshine!"
-LilFlip, "sunshine"
"love feels like heaven, but it can hurt like hell."
-as said by my best friend, Anel Mariana Perez-Alpizar
!**♥ok, i think that's enough about me and my psycho crap, here's my actual advice (contrary to popular belief, i ALSO dedicate my advice column to giving advice!). also, feel free to ask me for advice! i'm ALWAYS here to help!**!♥
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ok in my english class I have to write a paper on a assigned topic. My topic is abortions. I need opinions and any information that is good and bad about abortions. Please I need help on this. I have my own opinion but I need more than just what I think.
ok. personally, i think abortion is a horrible thing. if it's wrong to kill a baby who's 1 week old, what makes it okay to kill a baby just because it hasn't been born yet? in certain situations, such as rape, it may be okay. still, i think it's totally wrong to get pregnant and then just kill the baby...then that makes it seem like a girl can get pregnant whenever she wants and not worry about having the responsibilities of raising a child and do it over and over and over again.i totally agree with thug girl's advice/answer. but still, i think you should put mainly YOUR opinion about this. if you need any more info, just do a google search on "opinions on abortions" or " are abortions right?" or simply "abortions". or you can just ask friends and family what they think, but i hope i helped! ♥ MaRi ♥
i'm 13 and i have this one guy who likes me alot i dont like him as anything other than a friend..now that he likes me i hardly speak to him because i'm afraid people will start talking about "us." i miss him a lot though because he used to be one of my best friends! hes also a really good guy but i just dont like him. i dont know what to do or how to act around him!
dont stop talking to him thats dumb! and if he's such a good friend of yours, why would you want to? besides, if you stop talking to him that doesnt mean he'll stop liking you...trust me. he might think you're kind of jerky though cause that's just messed up.how would you feel if a guy did that to you?jerk,right? actually, if you stop talking to him and act weird in front of him and stuff, then there will be suspicions... (TRUST ME ON THAT!!!). there's this guy who likes me (and we're not even really friends) but i didnt stop talking to him and no one really says anything about it (except just like joking around and stuff). but before that, to another guy, i did the same thing you're doing to your friend and people started spreading ALL KINDS OF RUMORS! now we just dont talk BECAUSE of the rumors. you know what? you dont have to do anything about it because if he likes you...he likes you, and theres nothing you can do about it. just keep things going as usual. if this makes it easier, tell him what you just posted, and i'm sure he'll understand. just like it's not his fault he likes you, it's not your fault you dont like him.which is how you should think of it: just like it s not your fault you dont like him, its not his fault he likes you, so dont treat him like that!sorry this is really long and confusing, but it's just hard for me to sort out my ideas! still, i hope i helped! ♥ Mari ♥
I'm a thirteen year old female. Recently Iv'e started eating super healthy. When I'm at home eating the food there, or eating foods with nutrition information I'm fine, but whenever I eat at someone else's house or eat out and the food served looks fattening or sugary I panic. I don't know whats in it and so on. Sometimes I make up excuses for not eating things. My friends jokingly said I was anorexic before. That didn't bother me. However, now they have started to say it seriously and my own mum said I was eating in an anorexic way. I know people suffering from anorexia have poor self image, but I think I am at a perfect weight. Please tell me if I am anorexic or not. Honestly.
honestly, i don't really think you're anorexic. as long as you're EATING ( at least 3 times a day and healthy portions) you're fine. however, i think you should stop worrying so much about that sugar and stuff. a little bit of sugary sweets it ok here and there, and it won't exactly make you gain like 30 pounds or something if you eat at your friends' houses every once in a while cuz if you say you're the perfect weight, a big mac can't do you much harm! so, you're not anorexic. keep eating healthy (that's good!), and it's ok to eat at mcdonald's every once in while though ( to make people stop talking about you and to stop any possible, if any, chances of becoming anorexic, which seems pretty unlikely.) i hope i helped!!!:D
~MaRi~ 0:D
I wasn't completley sure what category this goes under, so I took a guess. My dad always tells me not to pop/crack my knuckles. And he always yells at me when I do. Is there a certain reason why you shouldn't? I heard you can get arthritis from it, I heard that your fingers will get bigger, and I've also heard that nothing will happen. So like why shouldn't I be cracking my knuckles? Can it really do that much damage?
trust me, nothing will happen by cracking your knuckles, no matter what anyone else says. it's just some dumb urban myth or something, and the only damage it can possibly do is really, REALLY annoy someone, but that's pretty much it.TRUST ME, I HAPPEN TO KNOW FOR A FACT THAT NOTHING WILL HAPPEN!
~MaRi~
ok, so my best friend's boyfriend raped her, and i don't know what to do. i know i should tell someone, but she's being dumb, and saying it was her fault, but when you get down to the point SHE WAS RAPED. i don't want her to be mad at me, but i should tell someone right? either that, or i could kill him, but i wouldn't do that. so help????!!!!! please. thanks everyone
Sincerely,
Confused concerned friend
wOw. if someone did that to MY b.f., i would kill him. you know what you have to do, and you dont have to ask anyone from advicenators for it. you have to tell someone. what if he rapes her again? or worse? what if next time, he beats her up or something? what if next time, it's someone else's best friend getting hurt by this...pig just because you didn't stop him? there's no way she can get mad at you, because even she knows she has to tell someone, but she's probably scared.i mean, put yourself in HER shoes.you would be scared to tell someone and would say that you don't want anyone to tell, but you know you would want SOMEONE to stop him. ok, i don't know either you or your friend, but i care enough about both of you to tell you that you have to tell someone before that idiot does this again.help her.
make the right choice.
~MaRi~
How is the best way to get a tan? Sun or tanning salon. I need one bad after this winter I am so pale. Any ideas?
a spray-on tan could work, as long as you do it evenly without overdoing it or getting it on your hair or something. a tanning salon isn't bad either, but i don't suggest you go lying in the sun all day 'cause the UV rays are REALLY bad for your skin. i hope i helped!!! =)
*Mari*
14/f i have trouble with cutting my self and i really dont kno what to do!!! any advice would be nice!
i'm really sorry you think that you have to cut yourself to make things better. the truth is, it makes NOTHING better, you're hurting yourself, and even though i'm assuming others don't know, you're hurting them too by not letting them know what's going on and by hurting yourself. THIS IS DANGEROUS!!! it can go a lot farther than that, and you have to stop. i know you might think that just because you tell someone it's not going to help you, but BELIEVE ME, it will. i GUARANTEE it. tell someone about your problem, like your parents or counselor or something and they will help you. JUST REMEMBER: YOU'RE NOT MAKING ANYTHING BETTER! WHAT YOU'RE DOING IS WORSE THAN WHATEVER REASON YOU MAY HAVE FOR DOING IT (I DON'T KNOW WHY YOU DO IT, BUT I KNOW IT CAN'T BE ANY WORSE THAN YOU HURTING YOURSELF LIKE THAT). I DON'T KNOW YOU, BUT I CARE ENOUGH ABOUT YOU TO TELL YOU TO STOP. PLEASE STOP!!!
take REALLY good care of yourself!!
-Mari
A few days ago i wrote about likin this kid austin i took the advice everyone gave me so thanks!:) but he said no, ok neways this kid john likes me and i have known him since kindergartin but he not that cute and kinda heavy. but hes a really nice guy. problem is HE REALLY LIKES ME but i feel no way about him like that, anyways i can tell him nicely that i dont like him, and dont say its not you its me. and plz no rude comments
i know you dont wanna use the whole its not you its me thing but if its the truth... just tell him how you feel- be completely honest so that you dont lead him on like that. tell him how much you like him, but that you just dont feel the same way about hikm. tell him its not his fault, but its not yours either. i dont really know what else to say.
On Valentine's Day, I got a note in my locker that had a poem in it, and it was signed Secret Admirer. At first, I thought it was just this guy, right? And I go around laughing about it. And then I get a second note today, which tells me that the person is a girl. She says that she really likes me, but if I don't like girls, no hard feelings. I know who it is, because I asked a couple people and I just got this feeling. The person who wrote it is a really close friend of mine, and I feel awkward around her now, even though she doesn't know that I know. What should I do? And I can't even rule out the possibility that I might be gay, even though I think I'm straight. I might be bi. I don't know. What do people think?
just go right out and tell her that you know-and you don't like girls. in fact, it's not even necessary to tell her that, just that you don't like her...not like that anyway. and that it's got nothing to do with anything but the fact that you don't see her as anything more than a friend. basically what you would do with a guy you don't like- this shouldn't be too different.
What should I get my friend (13/f) for her b-day?
She likes happy bunny
She likes boyz
She likes fun stuff for her room
i dont know if this really helps, but maybe you can get her something with happy bunny (saying something about boys) for her room!
There's a dance coming up at my school. My boyfriend is in a lower grade then me and he can't go. But My Mom is trying to get me to ask my best-guy friend to go with me. I dont Know If I should. Help please?
i think you should ak your friend if you think you'll have fun with him (that's the point of going!). of course, it doesn't matter it doesn't have to be him, but it HAS to be someone you'll feel comfortable with and have fun with. or maybe... you don't HAVE TO bring a date... going alone or with a group of girl friends might be fun!
have FUN at the dance!!!!! ♥ MaRi ♥
i was wondering if y'all could suggest what you find to be the best face cleaner to get rid of zits. i use oxy but it doesn't work as well as i want it to. thanks so much!!
oxy should work for you, but since it doesn't, try Clearisil or something... actually, never mind. PROACTIV is what works miracles!!!!!!
whats a good name for a female chihuahua? I rate 5s for really cool and creative names :)
you can pretty much name her anyhintg you want, like things you like or people you know or characters from movies/tv shows, or the cute little words that come out of two-year-olds' mouth that sound like a name, or even the name of a type of food.
or...
Tinkerbell, Lili, Princess, Pretty, Chiquita (that means ''little" in Spanish, only girlie), Cutie, Twinkie,Mari, Babycakes, Shishi (weird, i know), Teeny...
or maybe give her another animal's name. hope i helped! if you need more ideas, i'll give you more later 'cause i'm have too many things in my mind to sort it all out right now! anyway, good luck with that!
Some people say that if you put toothpaste on a pimple overnight than it will go away. Does anyone know if this is true? Has anyone tried it?
that depends. i tried it and my zit didn't completely go away, but it got better and i could barely even see it. my cousin tried it and all it did was burn her skin and make her pimple smaller... but RED. i guess it depends on your skin, so try it on a small part of you skin (like when you try some new kind of lotion or something) and see if it works. if it doesn't, Proactiv works MIRACLES!!!!!!
ok like um my best friend is dateing a guy who is related to the guy that im in love with and i really need him i mean i have tryied to let go and i cant i really need him im in love with him i would do anything for him plz help me on how to get him back x0x0 love *clueless*
what the hell does this have to do with your friend? okay, never mind. about your problem:if you're so OBSESSED, then i suggest either of these:
1)ask this guy out (wOw)
2) get someone to tell him you're totally in love with him
3) do whatever you'd do with any other guy you like (this shouldn't be any different)
4) please. i beg you to get help. (up in the head)it is not healthy to be so obsessed. that's what my friends tell me all the time about hot cheetos, sour strwberry candy, and my favorite song obsession (lol)
I was at my friend's house the other day and we decided to make him pass out. Then i wanted to try it just to see how it felt. So i hyper-venalated myself, held my breath, and let him pick me up with my arms crossed at my chest. Before i knew it i woke up and was on the floor. Everyone was staring at me and i didn't remember anything but it was really cool. I did it about 12 more times. Is there a health risk when you do this? Can it cause serious damage to your brain or anything??
what the hell are you doing? this can do serious damage to your brain and if you lose enough brain cells, you can DIE! would you put a permanent marker up your nose? this could do just as much damage if you keep doing this. plus, you never know what can happen to you if you dont wake up right away. i know doing some thing dumb can seem fun(ny) or daring sometimes, but stop before you kill yourself!
TAKE CARE!!! -MaRi TG
Hi everyone,
OK, me and my friends had loads of stuff planned for this half term holiday but they've all cancelled on me! I always argue with my mum so I spend most of my time away from her, upstairs on the PC or in my room. Seen as my friends have cancelled on loads of stuff, I have nothing to do!
Anyone got any suggestions that don't involve going out by myself or spending time with my 'rents?
Thanks!!
well, if you're bored, you can NEVER go wrong with the internet!!! do a google search for sites about anything you're interested in (i for example looked up a bunch of witchcraft sites) or anything fun or things you wanna try , or favorite celebs or pretty much ANYTHING. or, there's also the possibility of hanging out with friends ( you've gotta have other ones, right?). if you need any more help, ask me and i'll come up with MANY MORE IDEAS! (i'm in kind of a rush right now)HAVE FUN!!!
My 8th grade graduation is coming up in May and i need to know some appropriate songs to sign cuz i have a good voice and i want to pick a song to sing thats right for the occasion! Can someone give me some suggestions in a list? It should be slow im guessing ..thanks in advance!!
i don't know if you've heard the song by Vitamin C it's called Graduation. i know you might be getting this for an answer a lot, but i honestly think it's a good song for the graduation, (look at the name!) and they played it at mine. but no matter what, make sure to choose a song about friendship and memories and stuff. hope i helped!!!
~MaRi~
Okay there is this guy named Justin which I am going out with him. And there is this other guy that I like named Michael. Well, Michael doesn't like me, only as a friend. But I am going out with Justin and he likes me alot but i don't like him. Should I stay together with Justin(even though I don't like him) or should I brake up to try and get togehter with Michael(even though he doesn't like me ?).
okay, this is a little weird stuation, but here's what i think you should do: break up with Justin. gently, of course. it's just wrong to lead him on like that. and the longer you wait, the harder ON him and FOR you it'll be. as for you friend Michael, if you really like him and think you at least have a chance, then you should give it a try. if it doesn't work out, then that's not your fault and it probably wasn't meant to be and at least you guys are at least friends (unfortunately, it wasn't like that for me, so you're lucky.). you should at least give it a try.
i really hope i helped!!! :) tell me how it goes!
LOVE, MARI:)
Is it wrong to have a crush on one of your good "guy" friend?
umm.....why on earth would that be wrong?!!!!!!i have a HUGE crush on my BEST guy friend...anyway, there is NOTHING wrong with that. why would you get that idea?
um........correction: i USED to like him... REALLY!