about

♥Hey, what's up? I'm Mari (aka TG...please don't ask!) and if you need any help with ANYTHING, I'm your girl! I'm pretty young and can be a total random psycho sometimes...all the time, but people tell me all the time that my deep thoughts, strong opinions, and excellent people skills makes me great for giving advice! My friends are always coming to me for it.I never ignore a question,though there are times i just won't be able to answer because, no matter how much i try to hide it, i don't know everything, so please don't be disappointed if i don't answer your question and don't let it stop you from asking me more. Also, please try to keep in miind that i DO have a life too, and as much as i love helping you guys, my life doesn't revolve completely around advicenators, so i won't be here every day, but don't worry! The longest i stay without advicenators is about 5 days. Oh, and if i only have bad things to say, I'll just keep my mouth shut (which is hard for me since I'm..."full of things to say", but I'll try!)0=D! Ask me! I will always GUARANTEE a helpful answer (even if it's only a little!). ♥ ...Anyway, if u wanna know anything about me, here's basic info:

(A)awesome stuff about me:i'm fun, outgoing, smart, creative, real...i'm just awesome!!

(B)irthday:12/29/91

(C)olors:baby blue, pink, light purple/lavender

(D)arkest secret: i was barney-phobic @ age 3

(E)yes:brown

(F)ears:el chupacabras, la llorona, and being bored for the rest of my life (i'm a freakin stupidass, huh?!?!?)

(G)reatest sport ever: basketball (even though i kinda suck, it's soooo cool)

(H)aunted by: my 6th grade nickname...(shut up!!!)

(I)nterests/cool stuff:music, fun, friends, music, astrology, happy bunny:), music, *REAL* magic (just not BLACK magic), mythology, giving advice;D, & MUSIC!!!!!!!!♥

(J)ealous of: ppl w/ grey eyes

(K)indness: i sometimes help out @ animal shelters

(L)ucky #:13 (no, i'm not a gangster, dude...i'm just weird)

(M)usic: hmm....difficult...R&B, i guess

(N)ame: Marisol Gonzalez Franco

*(O)bsession:MUSIC!!♥ (shut up! yall KNOW i'm obsessed w/ music!)

(P)lace:my room & SANTA CRUZ BEACH BOARDWALK!!!♥"in the warm Californian sun! boardwalk!!!"

(Q)uote: **Dude...dude.**

(R)ole model/idol:Selena♥Quintanilla (*RIP*)

(S)ong:♥*OBSESSION*♥ by Frankie J and Baby Bash....shut up! ;)

(T)alent:wOW...i have so many!!! overall creativeness...when i'm not lazy and i have time

(U)niqueness:the birthmark below my right ear

(V)ery:...random...look! a puppy!

(W)orst thing about me: a lil conceited, lazy princess, annoying sometimes (sorry, guys!), a lil hipocritical, and REALLY BAD-TEMPERED!!!

(X)tra info: i think blue's clues RULES!!!

(y)ummy food:enchiladas, lemon hot cheetos w/ cheese, sour and/or strawberry candy...obviously not all together, though!

(Z)odiac: CAPRINCORN (CAPRICORNS R AWESOME!!♥)




"late at night when all the world is sleeping, i stay up and think of you and i wish on a star that somewhere you are thinking of me too 'cause i'm dreaming of you tonight till tomorrow, i'll be holding you tight, and there's nowhere in the world i'd rather be than here in my room, dreaming about you and me..."
-Selena, "dreaming of you"


"amor, no es amor (if this ain't love) what am i feeling, what am i doing wrong?...amor, no es amor (if this ain't love) it's just an ilusion that i have in my heart, amor..."
-Frankie J and Baby Bash, "OBSESSION"

"i've given everything, i loved you endlessly, but when it comes to me, you don't even notice me"
-NB Ridaz, "notice me"

"sunshine, i could call you my baby boy, you could call me your baby girl, maybe we could spend some time, i can be your sunshine!"
-LilFlip, "sunshine"

"love feels like heaven, but it can hurt like hell."
-as said by my best friend, Anel Mariana Perez-Alpizar

!**♥ok, i think that's enough about me and my psycho crap, here's my actual advice (contrary to popular belief, i ALSO dedicate my advice column to giving advice!). also, feel free to ask me for advice! i'm ALWAYS here to help!**!♥

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Hi! Ok, This may seem weird, but I discovered that my bf doesn't like the smell/taste of mint. So I was wondering what type of non-mint things can I use to freshen my breath? Like candy or something... Please help. Thanx!

i don't know if this really helps, but some candy, like lemon, strawberry, and cherry smell really good...at lest while you're still eating it, because it gets a slight after-smell. tic-tacs last a long time, and they taste soooo good! try lemon or orange. also, i think i heard somewhere that RED LICORICE is one thing that REALLY helps...and t does, i've tried it! hope i helped! ♥MaRi♥

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ok so i burt myself like 2 wks ago and i was wondering what are some good creams or ways to get rid of the scar? its really noticable so i need 2 get rid of it pretty soon!

i'm not a huge expert on this stuff, but i'm told that cold cream or sruff like that with plenty of vitamin e is good for that kind of stuff. also, you might wanna try vitacilina, it works to cure pretty much ANYTHING! ~MaRi~

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i need some backup for this:
this "Gangsta rap" dude at school slapped one and punched another girl in the middle of the hallway two days ago. needless to say he got suspended. I work with one of the girls and the guy. he is a lazy grocery bagger, she's also a bagger.
Question: need opinions from both sexes on the issue of "guys can't hit girls". personally, i want to thrash him within an inch of his life, as do most of the other guys i have talked to. is that a bad thing?
other info: he's done it before, and has had his ass kicked multiple times for it.
did i mention that he also dresses like a drug dealing lowlife? oh yeah i did, stupid kids trying to live like gangsters in suburbia.
-hilter

ok, i don't know if this is really answering your question, but i guess i can tell you what i think about that. personally, i really don't think guys should be hitting girls like that. at least not like that. the thing is, though, i'm feeling kind of sexist because girls are hitting guys all the time...but this is where i know i'm right: girls just like playing around like that, and you know what? if a guys like getting girls mad at that point, whether or not they admit it. but if a guy hits a girl to seem like a lowlife gangster wannabe look-at-me-i'm-a-dumbass-who-thinks-he-looks-pimp, then he's just an idiot. i don't know if that answered your question, but if you have any more questions on that that will help me answer your question any better, please feel free to leave it in my inbox! also, i wouold wanna kick that guy's ass....ANYWAY, hope i helped *MaRi*

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Hey,this isn't a big question but don't delete! I rate! Ok, I'm kinda stupid when it comes to computers!I like them and all,but I don't know how to do stuff! Like how do you get your name,age,location and all that junk on your advice column? I can't seem to figure it out! Please help! thanx in advance! I rate!
~*Tiffany*~

that's ok, i'm the same way too sometimes!
anyway, i don't know if anyone else told you yet, so if you've already heard the answer, sorry! anyway, to put the location and age on your column, you just go to your profile settings (somewhere under "welcome *your username*!" on the column to your left). once you're there, you can just fill in anything you want other people to know about you, including your name, and stuff about yourself

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Do yOU find anything wrong with A white girl and a Black guy being in-love dating, and wanting to get married?

please, share your oppinion, and support it!
I am open to hear both sides!

WHAT THE HELL WOULD BE WRONG WITH THAT?!?!?!?! sorry, i'm just kind of shocked that someone would even think that. skin color... it's nothing... it counts for nothing. i mean, i don't know how to explain it without sounding cliche'd, but love has no color. it's just that the only thing that would be wrong with that would be if you WEREN'T in love or whatever. if you love each other, then there's nothing wrong with that. i mean, have you seen that movie *the color of friendship* ? hello?????? *the color of love* !!!?!?! ok, that was just stupid, but what would be wrong with that? there's really no difference between black and white except a stupid color that defines nothing. i hope that sounded like i meant for it to and i hope i helped! XoxO*♥MaRi♥*XoxO

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Ok so I have a good amount of friends and everything... but I am a bit shy. I just know I'd have WAY more friends if I was more outgoing. It's just really hard for me. Can I have advice on how to become more outgoing... and what I should do? Thanks.

-Hopeful

well, i'm pretty outgoing myself, but i wasn't always that way. but the thing is that whole "be yourself" thing really works! i can be a little annoying sometimes, but that's because i'm being myself. also, learn to laugh at yourse;f, and people might think it's a little weird, but they'll later think "she's cool!" i had the most embarrassing thing happen to me last week, i (shhhhhhhh....slipped...), but even though it kind of hurt, and everyone was laughing at me, i started laughing too! i'm probably dumb, but if i started crying or something, imagine how much worse it could've been! laugh more! and make others laugh with you! even if you think something is funny when no one else think so, just laugh! if you have an opinion that's kind of weird, but you believe others should see it that way too, then say it out loud! if you've heard a funny joke, but don't want to share it, why not? if you fee like just saying hi to a really cute guy, go for it! it's like being on a rollercoaster (i hope you've been on one, otherwise my example's screwed!). the first time you keep thinking "what if i fall? what if i get shocked what if i die what if what if what if......" but once you've gone on it you think "it's just a ride! come on!" if you want something, go for it! just think to yourself, "just do it!!! what the worst that could happen?" i know, it sound cliche'd and you don't think it's just that simple, but it is! just do it just do it just do it! once i was on xxsammiwammi's advice column, and on the side it says "live life like there's no tomorrow" and you really should do it. if you don't do something because you're too shy to do it, you'll keep thinking up even more what-if's. i'm not saying start out with the daredevil thing, but with small simple steps at a time. i hoipe i helped!!! now go play truth or dare...and pick dare!! *MaRi*

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Hey does anyone know what that song is called with the little midget or chipmunk singing in the beginning. the "lonley, i'm so lonely: song. what's it called? i know it's by Akon but idk what it's called.
Also, does anyone know where i can find that music video if there is one?

the song's called "mr. lonely" or sometimes just "lonely" i don't think it has a music video, but the lyrics are everywhere, like lyricsondemand.com or you can google it and PLENTY of stuff will come up. hope i helped!!! ~MaRi~



PS:when i first heard it, i thought it was like alvin and the chimpmunks or something too!

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What do you do if you find yourself more and more each day, liking a guy who does not believe in God? I am a christian and I have my morals, standards and beliefs and he doesn't meet my number one standard which is believeing in God and having a relationship with him but, on the other hand, I am so drawn to him I can't help it.He's a really great guy but should we just stay friends and nothing more?

wOW. this is kind of weird. if you like him, different beliefs should not get in the way. i guess it sucks that he doesn't believe in God, but you know what? that shouldn't get in the way because if he loves YOU and respects YOU, then even though he doesn't believe, he's a great guy, and that's what matters most. staying just friends with him just because of that is like, in my opinion, mean becuase it's like you disliking someone based on their religion. i believe in God, but i won't let that stop me from liking a non-believer, because that's not really my problem...there is probably even a reason, but that has nothing to do with you two. it's not like he doesn't like you for believing, right? no reason not to keep your relationship with him.if he's not disrespecting your beliefs, that is...because you're kind of disrespecting him. i'm sorry if this makes no sense but it's hard for me to sort out ideas, but i hope i still helped. any more questions, please feel free to leave them in my inbox! *MaRi*

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hey my friends going through suthing right now to get over a guy what are some songs that just mean "basically im over you and dont need you" because im really proud of her and i want to make her a cd of songs wtih this point

thanx ill rate high

i don't know if any one has put these, but
*leave/get out* *so yesterday* *surviver* *karma* *no more* *since u'v been gone* *done with you*

i'm in a hurry right now, but i'll think of more if you just leave one in my inbox, but i hope that i helped for now!!! *MaRi*

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What is the title of the song that goes.."I'm goin crazy, I wanna be your lady..." And who sings it???? i'll rate everyone a 5 if it's right.

the song's name is " Going Crazy" and it's sung by Natalie Imbruglia (i think that's how you spell her last name) it's one of my fave songs! anyway, if you want the lyrics go to lyricsondemand.com or just leave one in my inbox. hope i helped! *mari*

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i like to write songs or poems, well at least try. but everytime that i do at the end they always sound really stupid. so does anyone know any like tips or tricks that i could use to maybe get some decent ideas or to make it not sound so well...corny?

well.... i know what you mean actually... i used to do that kind of stuff too, and that same thing happened to me. i never really found a trick to make it sound al corny, and i don't know if this really helps, but just write what you think... you know, whatever's on your mind, or what you're feeling. it worked for me, and i'm HOPING it'll work for you too, because if you write what YOU are thinking or feeling, then it shouldn't sound corny at all... and if it does, then either you weren't really writing what was truly on YOUR MIND, but what you thought sounded better (which it usually doesn't if it's not from YOU), or you're full or corny thoughts! but don't worry! maybe you could add some of your funny thoughts, and it'll sound awesome! i REALLy hope i helped!!! *MaRi*

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My mom doesn't want me to get braces because she thinks my teeth are fine. But I think I do need them because there are like 3 teeth that aren't straight. Well we had a huge argument over this and now she's mad at me. But anyhow, I got my seperators today and they are really annoying. Do they hurt the day after? And when I get my braces will they hurt? Also, what should I do about my mom-situation?? She's not talking to me and she's very pissed that I am getting braces.

wOw. when i got my braces, it was the other way around with my mom lol! anyway, about you... don't worry, it won't hurt for long. your teeth will be sore for a day or two, and getting them tightened will kinda suck, but you'll get used to it. actualy, i'd say that the most painful part is getting the seperators. personally, i HATE my braces, but i guess that when i get them off i am going to think it was worth it, and so will you! (fortunately for you, though, you actually want them) i'm sure your mom is going to be happy you decided to get those braces and there's really no reason for her to saty mad at you for long, so don't worry about that too much. anyway, i hope i helped and enjoy then next year or two with your braces! =D *MaRi*

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im bulimic and anerexic. i dont eat. then when i do i puke. my best friend knows and wants me to stop. i want to but im not ready. what should i do?

there's no such thing as not being ready to stop when dealing with things like this. what could possibly stop you from tryng to get back on track with your eating? your friend is absolutly right. you get eating disorders, and there's nothing you can do to change that. but stopping is something that you CAN do now. did you know that you can die from your body becoming so weak of these disorders? that's what's important right now: preventing that from happening. personally, i think that you are VERY LUCKY to have a friend who cares about you so much. i'm sure your family wants you to stop. i know you may not want to, but GET HELP for this. otherwise, it may be too late. i've said this before, but i mean every word of it so i'll say it to you: i dont know you, but i care enough about you to tell you to overcome this problem, and you know what? you KNOW what you should do. you wouldn't have come to advicenators if you didn't want to stop your eating disorder fro taking over, so whatever advice you've gotten, TAKE IT. i don't really know what else to say (right now it's 2 in the morning, so my brain is..like, melting right now!), but just take really good care of yourself and stop bulimia and anorexia from what it's doing to you... you'll be sooo happy you did. God bless you and good luck. :) ~*MaRi*~

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hey im doing this concert thing at school as like a treat for everyon for raising over 10000 dollars from the fundraiser.. does anyone know any good duets for boyfriends and girlfriends?? ((im doing 2 duets with my boyfriend))

"my boo", "where are you" , "a whole new world", what dreams are made of", "dilemma", "baby it's you" , "bouncin' of the ceilin'" "sunshine" "hold you down"...there's about a million more i can think of... but not right now 'cause i gotta go... just leave one in my inbox if you want anymore! hope i helped! ♥ MaRi ♥

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ok, im 15/f and i think i like one of my really good guy friends. he flirts with me all the time in math or atleast it seems like he does..one of my really good friends cant believe i like him..what do i do cause i dont know if i can talk myself out of liking him like i do a lot. please help!!

i don't really think there's any way to talk yourself out of liking a guy, no matter how hard you try, and that's a fact (TRUST ME). but i don't even think that liking a guy who's already your friend is a problem. why would it be? it's just like any other crush you may have already had, actually. it just happens to be your friend. if you think he might like you too, then i say you go for it. why don't you try asking him out? oh, you know what? i have TONS of tips on how to do that without humiliating yourself if you want, but it's 2 in the morning and i'm getting sleepy, so leave me a question on that in my inbox, and i promise to help you out with that more!!! for now, i hope i helped! ♥ MaRi ♥

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The country that I live in is debating the Death Penalty. I Do not understand the understanding that the death penalty is ok. You are killing someone still aren't you? I realize that the people scentenced are usually murderers and other things along that line. I just want to know both sides of the story. I looked it up on Google and it is not what i am looking for. I want opinions on BOTH side.

i actually know what you mean. i've looked at both sides of the debate too, and i think they both make sense.i'm not sure if this is really what you're looking for, but here's my opinion, on BOTH sides: taking a human life is wrong. if a person is sentenced to die, aren't they doing to him/her the very crime they have thought of as so sinister that person should be punished? aren't they doing the same thing? yes. and being in prison for life is a worse punisment WITHOUT killing anyone. however, who is to say that a murderer won't try to escape prison? if a criminal is still alive, there is no way to be 100% sure that they won't be able to do it again. if you look at it this way: "the criminal deserves to die" it osunds horrible. but if you look at it this way: "the criminal does not deserve to live" it makes more sense.it is explaining pretty much the same thing, but saying it differently changes a perspective doesn't it? i could help you more if that's not what you're looking for, so leave another questionin my inbox if you want. but i hope i helped with that! *mari*

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My sister at a young age died of luekemia. I dont really uderstand where she got it from. But lately I've been finding random bruises on my boyd and i know my sister had random bruises and ashe was always tired and im always tired. Is there a possiblity that i could have it too?

i don't think it came from you. but i do think that there might be a connection. talk to your parents and ask if there's a history of the disease in your family and DEFINITELY go to your doctor. hope i helped *mari*

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Hi, I'm going to a carnival dance and I'm not sure on what to wear. The weather is in the high forties to low fifties, but the place of the dance is EXTREMELY HOT.

Is this a good outfit:

White tank, black miniskirt, and pink tweed heels

OR .. ANY SUGGESTIONS? AND HAIR SUGGESTIONS? I'll rate high for appropriate answers.

i like the outfit choice you made! but i think that it is gonna be REALLY hard to dance in heels. but if YOU want to wear it, go ahead. if they're pink, though, i suggest you add more pink to your outfit to go with your shoes, or pick some black or white shoes. add some sparkly clips to your hair (maybe pink) and make it into a half-ponytail with your hair going wild at the top. if it's gonna be TOO hot for that, though, then just make sure you have your hair up in a high up-do, making sure it looks really cute. i hope i helped! ~*MaRi*~

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I saw a UNIQORN hoodie by Tayrn Manning on Tori Spelling. It was fuzzy and had hearts,anyone know where to buy it? I'm in LOVE with it, but the only place that I know of is that C.Ronson in NYC sells the brand.

AND..does anyone know any cute sites to shop at, price really doesn't matter..stuff with designers like Juicy or L.A.M.B besides Kitson and Intuition?

they have EVERYTHING at eBaY!!! ♥ MaRi ♥

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one group of my friends drink a lot and i dont really care that much about it. im not against it or anything. my only concern is that i know sometime i will be involved in a situation where i will be asked if i want a drink... the thing is, i have never drank before, i don't want to say no, but i don't want to get the reputation that i always do that stuff. whats your advice?

oooOOhhH PeeER PreSSuuure... lol

ha. um... well, do you really want to drink? if you do, there's nothing i could do about it, but i would advise you not to. of course, if you really don't, there's nothing wrong with saying no. it's really not that hard. if someone asked you " hey do you want to drink this horrible tasting stuff that might get you a bad rep and get you sick to your stomach?", you would say no, wouldn't you? this is pretty much the same. abou the " i don't want to get the reputation that i always do that stuff" part, you probably won't get the reputation that you ALWAYS do that, but it might spread. plus, if people hear about it, they might think that since you did it once, you'll probably want to do it again. then they'll try to pressure you into it more, and it'll be easier for them, too. think about it. GOOD LUCK!! and make the RIGHT choice! *MaRi*

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