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ok, well my momz b/f has HEPATITIS C that he got from another girl while cheating on my mom ..they have gone thru manny problemz in their relationship and he hurt he wayy too many timez...yet she still stayz with him .. and i cant get thru to her no matter wut..
but my real question is this : 3 days ago my mom told me that were moving into his house on friday .. she said she'd help me buy a car and give me 50 bucks a week for no reason and drive me to my old school everyday and all ill have to to do is take a train back home .. shez trying to bribe me to move in ...BUT the only thing holdin me back is that he has hepatitic c and i dont want my mom getting it and i feel lyk if i move in with them, then ill be supporting her chances of getting HEPATITIS C .. and everynite wen i lay in bed ill have to worry about wut they are doing in their bedroom and if shes having unprotected sex with him and if she'll get HEP C at any moment now ... i mean, i really love her and ive already tried talking to her about this but her mind is made up!! plz tell me if i shuld go and if i am overreating here or wut ..... but itz HEPTITIS C !!!!:( plz help me (link)
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This is a toughie. It will be hard to work up the confidence to talk to her about it but i really hope you do again. and you said you did before but keep doing. It will cross her mind someday but maybe not today. So keep going at that. I saw your other entrys about this and Im sorry about you having to go through this. I would be sooo confused. I mean you could live with your grandma but to be honest i would miss my mom too much and I would be wayyyy to worried about my mom But then again it seems as if your mom really cares that shes trying to get you too move and shs offering to pay you money weekly. I mean if she didnt care then she wouldnt be begging you. But all of this going on at once would confusse me just as much as you are right now. So your not overreacting. I hope You write back or keep in touch because I hope she relizes how worried you are. She just cant ignore your opinion on this.
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ok well there is this girl that i have liked for a long time now but thought she was always " out of my league " well finally i told my best friend that i liked her one day and the next day he went and asked her out well they broke up and now the girl found out about how i liked her and she liked me the whole time too so now we wanna get wit each other but my friend keeps sayin if we do he wont ever talk to me again so im not sure what to do
what would you do???
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Why would your friend do this to you?!?! You obviously liked her way before he did. and yet he this to his "so called friend". I would be sooo pissed! But Ask him first about why he doesnt want you to go out with her. and Ask him why he asked her out right after you told him you liked her. But I would still go out with he girl. you even said she likes you too!! I had a friend like this kind of. It wasnt as bad because if she found out who you liked then she would start to like them too but she never went out with them but it was still sooooo frustrating! Keep in touch!! and i hoped i helped al little!!
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How long should u wait to know someone before you should kiss them?????? (link)
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When ever you think the time is right :) You should make it meaningful, something you could never forget! Most of the time it just happens :) you dont plan on when your going to kiss someone. Love is a very great feeling!
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All of my friends at school are always asking me who I like. I tell them I like no one, but there is this one guy thats really tall and charming, but never really smiles. He asked me to come to his 'party' but I don't know if I should. I don't know him too well to go to his house. So someone please help me! (link)
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Omg hun go for it!! This will give you an oppertunity to get to know him!! Its a party so you are bound to know someone else there, so go for it and enjoy it!!
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Hi well my x boyfriend has been calling me for the past 3 weeks we change our # and some how he finds it , he follows me everywhere I go , and my boyfriend now hasn't let me out of his site.
What do I do? (link)
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Yeah I would most deffinatly tell someone like the oolice or something. Even a close friend, family or relitive. someone! He has taken things wayyyyyyy to far! I can imagine how fustrated and scared you must be feeling. I have a friend in college and her ex broke up so a week before he exams he deleted her out of her classes He gets online on her s/n's and messes with them even though she changes the passwords! Im not trying to scare you but dont let him get worse than what it is. Its bad enough that your current boyfriend is worried enough that he wont let you out of his sight! Keep in touch and let me know how things are going. I hope I helped a little bit!
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My friend just told me today.. that she ALWAYS throws up after she eats. As much as I'd love to help her, I just dunno what to say. Cuz she might get mad. I don't want anything bad to happen to her. The past couple days shes been telling me that shes been haveing bad stomach pains and she feels sick ALL THE TIME. I wanna help her, I don't wanna make her mad and say the wrong thing though. Should I just forget about it, and let her live her life the way she wants it? What would you do? Please I need help.. =(
*amYy.. my AIM sn is NaInErZzZ (link)
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Omg please help your friend out! I know from experiance. You are probably going to look at me of a very low perspective for telling you this but Im willing to take it because i want to help you out as much as i can and your friend! Okay so here it goes.
I was he same exact way. Mine may not be as bad but I was 15 years old weighing which isnt bad and I was 5'4". It started out with skipping breakfast..then lunch...Then i ate very little of dinner. I lied telling my mom i ate at my friends house but ofcourse I didnt. One time my mom took me to burger king ad I ordered so much food so it looked like i was eating alot. Then before we went home she had to stop in the store so i told her i would wait in the car and eat since i wa soooo hungry. well what i really did was throw my food out the car window! I would do anything to stay away from food!! I kept it for a secret for so long. Well my teacher caught me throwing my lunch away. He caught me more than once and suspected something. so he told my counselor and they kept a close eye on me since I wouldnt let them inform my mom. Now since Everyone was watching me i was forced to eat MORE so thats when I stared to eat 10x more then threw up afterwards! My councleor and teacher would take me to a restarunt and it was like they were watching me eat!! My friend who is my BEST FRIEND IN THE ENTIRE WORLD told my teacher about what i was doing. Ofcourse I was mad at her in the begining but the more I relized what she just did the more i relized she did it becasue she cared. It takes guts to help a friend when you know they are going to be mad at you! Anyways My teacher, guidance counclor and my best friend knew what was going on and they still agreed to not tell my mom But later on in that day I was called down to the office and Thats the day I started to get help. Now I cant say im 100% better and I dont think I ever will. Theres one thing I do know and its how many people do care..such as my friend! Shes the one who helped me when I couldnt. I cant thank her enough for it either! My nails and hair arent brittle anymore. I dont have dark circles around my eyes. I can acctually concentrate in school and i get much better grades than i did last year and most of all I dont worry 24/7 about how fat I think I am
I hope you dont just forget about your friend and try and help her! I know you can help her out even if you just talk to her and confront her about how much you care for her and what ever you do DONT FORCE HER TO EAT MORE!! that will just make it worse thats like taking alll the drugs away from a druggie! they will go crazy!!! She has to gradually eat more durring a period of time.
Once again I hope I helped a little and if you have ANY QUESTIONS please im begging you dont hesitate to emial me or talk to me online. my s/n is chesneysgal3. I dont like giving my s.n out but I really want to help because no girl should go through this! It was the hardest thing in my entire life!
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SODAS! I took up Mountain Dew and I put on alot of weight drinking it and I tried to stop it but its like going threw withdrawl. I get headaches and everything, I throw up and my stomach hurts and this always happens when I stop drinking it. I'm starting school soon and mountain dew wont be available as it will if I were home. What can I do?
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Im the same way! Well I dont get the painful head aches But I can relate some what. Any who you cant just stop completley it has to happen over time. Try drinking other things like water. Yeah I know that souds so dull "drink water" but its true. Like drink some mountain dew then a glass of water then some more mountain dew.... Then start eliminating the mountain dew even more. I finally got myself to stop drinking ROOT BEER everyday haha and I did lose a few pounds. I didnt think by stop drinking so much pop would acctally take a few pounds off! I hope I helped!
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so a year ago my mom moved like an hour away to live with her boyfriend now husband....and i moved in with my granny cuz i didnt want to move that far from everything...and my sis moved in with my dad....well eventually i moved back in with my mom its been about 4 months and I HATE IT ...my granny said that i can move in the downstairs apartment at her house. but i know im gonna feel bad my sis says i shoulddent becuz our mom left us blah blah blah (link)
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If you absoulutly hate it at your mothers house then maybe you should reconsider moving back in with your grandma. It was your mom that wanted to move not you. You shouldnt be unhappy and your grandma seems like she REALLY cares for you and thats good, Your very lucky to have her :) what ever you do decide to do feel free to leave a message in my box to keep in touch. I hope the best of it!
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I find myself really attracted to gay guys. They are very cute and a lot of them are so sweet! And they're funny and fun to be around! Is this abnormal? Since they are feminine, does this make me not straight? Can someone please help me??!!?! (link)
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Awwe, some gay guys are fun to be around because they can relete so well to us girls. They deffinatly know how to dress so ofcourse some are going to be attractive. as far as this being abnormal, i think not!! Hope I helped!
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well im a girl lol because some people like me to say that before i ask a ? but neways is it normal to pluck the top of ur eyebrows and the bottom because my mom said i shouldnt do the top
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Well My friend's mom use to work in a salon and she did eyebrows proffesonaly and she said your not soppose to pluck on the top of your eyebrow. I forget the reason why I just remember her telling me that. Its fun becasue my friend learned so much from her mom so when she was in college she would do everyones eye brown in the dorms lol. Hope I helped a tad
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Ok. Yesterdy my sister turned 18. So she thinks that shes like tha shyt. Well She thinks that now shes 18 she dont have to listen to my parents.Ive been tryin to explain to her that wen ur livin wit sum1 else no matter how old u r u still have to follow there rules as long as ur livin wit them. So she moved in wit her bf. I think hes gonna b controlling and not let her do nething cuz he never let her in tha first place. Ne ideas on how i can Tell her she still has to follow sum1 elses rules wen she lives wit them and how i feel bout her bf w.o makin her mad?? sry its so long! Ill Rate if u answer! (link)
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Well I would sit her down and talk to her one on one. Make sure nothing is around the 2 of you so she wont be distracted. Just tell her everything you feel about her and her boyfriend. Dont make it sound like shes talking to her mom or dad. Think as if you were in her position. OKay I hope I helped a little. Tell me how it goes. goodluck
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This may not be the right category, but I couldnt find a better place. I just found out today that one of my friends from school, that I graduated with passed away yesterday. His friends were going through his cell phone, found my number and called me. I had one class with the person, we always flirted with each other and talked about hooking up. I never called him after we graduated because I thought, yeah hes to good for me. Well, he still had my number in his phone and I feel bad for never calling him. I want to go to the viewing to see him one last time and to pay my respects to him. He was a great guy. But, then again, I dont want to go because I want to remember him from how he was before. I dont think I could handle seeing him in a casket. I dont know what to do. Should I go to the viewing or not? The viewing is Friday..so I need answers soon. Thanks!! (link)
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I am soo sorr to hear this. I think you should go and see him one last time. It would probably make you feel better in the long run. It shoows you had respect for him. Coping with death is so hard though. But if you dont go i gaurentee you will regret it later on and then it would be too late. Im so sorry once more and I hope you make it there. Hopefully I helped a little :)
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i was wondering, can you buy diet pills @ like a cvs or do you have to be 18? thanks i'll rate. (link)
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You have to be 18 and besides they never work. my mom even took them and one day when she was at work i went to take sum and they smell soooo gross i couldnt even get it to my mouth without gagging! They arent even worth it since they arent even healthy. Just exercies! gets those mussesle working!!! plus youll prolly end up eeing some hot guys at the gym!
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does anyone know any ways to get over someones death that you were close to? weird ? i know (link)
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Like others may have told you that people handle deaths differently but talking to someone you trust and rely on can help alot. Just knowing you have someone out there that you can talk to when needed helps a ton. Try thinking about all the good times you had with he or she that passed away. This is something that you cant just get over. It takes time and pacients and its really hard. I been to my uncles, and 2 cousins of mine and each one were differently handled. I hope this helps a bit.
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My parents both smoke... i dont like it at all and i know its killing the both the both of them! I dont want them to die and i dont want my lungs to suffer from it.. what can i do to tell them that they need to stop! I rate high.. please help me! (link)
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You should set both of them down and tell them what you think. Tell them how worried you are about their health and even yours! Tell them to do it for you maybe that will give them a motive! My mom smokes and I told her when I were to move my apt was going to be a SMOKE FREE area! Even if your parents dont listen just keep in mind that when you move it will be your rules!! You wont have to live with all the disgust! I hope it works out cuz i know how gross smoke is. It even turns you wall colors to yellow instead of white!
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i dont know what to do... i still like my ex .. like alot.. the second time we went out i broke up with him for someone else but i really didnt like thisother guy.. and so i regret it but he said he has to build up my trust again... but see hes moving to another town and not going to my high school and i really miss him now what should i do? should i call him and try to talk to him ? (link)
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I Know where you are comming from. Except I went out with my guy for 8 months. I most deffinatly think you should call him and try to talk. Maybe you should be friends then work your way back. I agree with him though he does need to earn back your trust so work it slowly. I have a good feelin that it would work if you show him how much you still love him and it was just a stuid mistake And you relized it the min you guys split. Just dont come onto him so storng. he maybe still hurt. Yes guys have feelings too. But I hope he relizes how much you miss him!!!
Good luck and wishes from me!!
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my mom is getting married to this guy whos really kool except he like flirts with me and comes on to me. he says stuff like hey sexy, hey cutie, hey pretty girl, and stuff like that and its really uncomfortable.. should i just let it go? (link)
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You should deffinaly NOT just let this go. If you feel uncomfortable around someone in your own home then you should talk to someone. in this case it would be your mom. Then see what she has to say and bring it up with him. I mean if you dont bring it up then youll be stuck with ot forever since they are getting married. Mabye hes not trying to be so .... lovey like that but you still need to talk about it to them. good luck and I hope I helped
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ok well, me nd my mom fite constantly and i dont no what 2 do! its liek she never wants 2 help me out at all, if she drives me 2 my friends house one day i'll b hearing about it 4 the next 2 weeks. my friends parents always offer 2 drive me places ebcuase my mom wont, it makes me so upset that i have 2 ask other peoples moms 4 rides when my own mom wont. and my dad works alot but he'll drive me 2 my friends and stuff more then my mom will and he works ALOT more than her. and its usmmer so i have 2 stay home with my sister until 3 when my mom gets home but then shes always like im 2 tired blabalbal. i just dont no it may make me sound kinda selfsish but im reelie not its jsu like my omm never wnats 2 help me at all. i dont no what 2 do, and i get so upset sow e end up yelling at each other and i get in even more trouble, please help. (link)
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My mom and I were the same way. But I never took the time to sit and talk to her about it. I just assumed she knew how I was feeling. I mean shes a mom all moms know everything! She was ALWAYS yelling at me but when I was starting to be grounded everyday for the dumbest things I knew something was wrong and it wasnt me. I talked to her and told her that I hated fighting everyday and I wish we were more close like other moms and kids. Here I found out how she was under ALOT of stress from work and home just every day things. So e both workes at it. Sure she didnt take me every where I wanted to go but she tried. Now we talk about alot of things and we help EACH OTHER OUT when we can. Dont get me wrong cuz i still have things I cant talk to her about. But maybe if you talk to your mom and ask her how SHE is feeling and how things are going in her life maybe you can help each other and that will create a bond.
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Ok..just a couple minutes ago my friend told me that she saw my boyfriend smoking with his friends. Sure I think that him smoking is a problem..but what really makes me mad is that he told me that he stopped smoking. And the other day his friend walked up to him and goes "omg dude! you were like drunk last night" and he told me that he didn't know what he was talking about. But now that my friend saw him smoking I don't know what to think. Should I believe her and just ask him about it..or what? Dang I'm so confused (link)
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I think you should tell him about it! I dont think your friend os going to lie about that and If you said that one of his friends even siad he was drunkn the other night that kinda points you in the right diresction. He is first off sneaking about it and lying. In a relationship Honesty and trust is a big factor. How can you trust him when hes lying? You cant change guys no mattwer how hard you try and you know it will just get worse. If I were you I would confront him and if he denys it ditch him you deserve wayyy better and I know there are guys out there for you!!!
hope it all goes well
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in the past weeks since schools started..theres been this guy and his friends that have been hanging around my locker..and well this guy came up to me one day and asked me for my name...and well...we kinda talked like once in a while in the hall way..but today..he asked me for my number..ah so i gave it to him...1 problem..i have a boyfriend..and well this guy is really awsome..and so is my boyfriend, and i just dont know what to do..about this guy...idk i think i kinda have feelings for him but idk i jsut really dont know what to do... (link)
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You should keep in touch with him friend wize. I mean you said you barley know him so maybe you should talk to him here and there but keep in mind you STILL have a boyfriend so dont be too overwhelmed with this locker lover. If he seems to be getting to smooshy and all you should tell him you have a boyfriend so your not breaking anyones hearts.
hope it helped a little and good luck with the guys!
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