Ok. Yesterdy my sister turned 18. So she thinks that shes like tha shyt. Well She thinks that now shes 18 she dont have to listen to my parents.Ive been tryin to explain to her that wen ur livin wit sum1 else no matter how old u r u still have to follow there rules as long as ur livin wit them. So she moved in wit her bf. I think hes gonna b controlling and not let her do nething cuz he never let her in tha first place. Ne ideas on how i can Tell her she still has to follow sum1 elses rules wen she lives wit them and how i feel bout her bf w.o makin her mad?? sry its so long! Ill Rate if u answer!
Additional info, added Sunday August 22 2004, 10:07 am: I wanna think of all of for ur advice. Ive have been trying to talk to her but she never answers or her phone is off I leave messages and hopefully shell call me back.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? ElementaryHustler answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:58 pm: Just be blunt about it and tell her how you feel. If that doesnt work get in a huge fight with her bf and if she takes him over you then you have a serious problem because that usually means hes controlling her and all this other crap. If that happens then I don't really know what to tell you but til then just keep talking to your sister. Oh but maybe you should like start a fight with them 2 and maybe they will break up and she will find her own place or move back in with you. [ ElementaryHustler's advice column | Ask ElementaryHustler A Question ]
WiseMan answered Saturday August 21 2004, 2:21 am: Yeah its ur sister, she still loves u, tell her how u feel, it will make u feel better and make her change her mind, maybe. hope i helped [ WiseMan's advice column | Ask WiseMan A Question ]
kennyscowgirl answered Friday August 20 2004, 2:46 pm: Well I would sit her down and talk to her one on one. Make sure nothing is around the 2 of you so she wont be distracted. Just tell her everything you feel about her and her boyfriend. Dont make it sound like shes talking to her mom or dad. Think as if you were in her position. OKay I hope I helped a little. Tell me how it goes. goodluck [ kennyscowgirl's advice column | Ask kennyscowgirl A Question ]
StRwBeRrYShOrTy answered Friday August 20 2004, 1:38 pm: oen day go out just you and your sister and do sumthign tha u both liek2 do. then remind herhow much fun the 2 of you had 2gether and thatu miss her and stuff and then just gently get on the subjetc of her and her b/f. that way you dont have 2 b very blunt about ti and she wont get upset. plz rate-hopei helped =) [ StRwBeRrYShOrTy's advice column | Ask StRwBeRrYShOrTy A Question ]
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