Q: WARNING: THIS IS GOING TO BE LONG BUT I SERIOUSLY NEED ADVICE ON THIS. PLEASE DONT LEAVE BECAUSE ITS TOO LONG. YOU MIGHT BE ABLE TO MAKE IT ALL BETTER FOR ME. PLEASE READ.

ok. so me and my mom fight non-stop. screaming yelling crying. the usual. its weird because we used to be really close and would always go shopping and crap and i would tell her everything yatta yatta. well i really want to be her "friend" er w/e. i mean not like besties but id like to at least have a positive relationship. seriously. usually, like as of right now, i hate her guts. with a strong passion. she ruins my life.

does anyone know anything i can say to her that lets her know i need her? this sound really cheesey i know. but its like ruining my life not to have a positive relationship. i mean. i get grounded for the f-ing retaredest things (if thats even a word..) and because of her i wont be able to spend this coming weekend with my boyfirend. (its our anniversary) and im superrr pissed.

anything.. please. this is serious. i hate my life. and its all because of her. i honestly wish my parents would divorce just so i wouldnt see her as much. but the only thing is she says that if my parents were to divorce (for the like 3rd time) she wouldnt let me live with my dad. yeah right. i would refuse to live with my mom.

ughhhh. please help..


oh and by the way;
if it makes a difference, she has cronic depression and doesnt always take her medications (which pisses me off). so shes always bitchy. my dad agrees with me that sometimes she goes over the top.

I KNOW THIS WAS LONG BUT PLEASE HELP!

xoxo
14/f

Q: ok so i use to go out with this boy named jacob he was soo sweet . nice . lovin . caring basicly wat a girl wants inna guyy but the only problem was . was that he was boring we never did anything other than go to each others houses . but thats beside the point . we broke up i think the beginin of December because i just felt like it wasnt goin any wher . now i miss him more than ever i didnt think i would want him bac but the tables turned on me & i really miss him ALOT & i wanna get bac together with him . i mean we didnt even speck after we broke up & yesterday was the 1st day sence . but i found out he has a girl friend . idk wat to do i mean if hes happy i dont wanna mess anything up because im not THAT big of a bitch ya kno . im scared 2 tell him how i feel cause he'll prolly just be like well your the one who broke up with me & i dont feel like hearing it .. WAT DO I DO ??

thanks for yall who answer me

Q: This is a long story but please read it I need help. My current boyfriend Kahn had a gf when i started to like him. He liked me too and we decided to go out when he dumped his other gf who was one of my good friends. But before he dumped her people found out what me and hi were planning to do. We ended uop going out but then i dumped him cause i didn't like him anymore. Then i started going out with robbby who i REALLY liked but all my friends started saying i was a slut to him. so we broke up and then i asked out Kahn again, even though i don't really like him. Should i dump him AGAIN, or shuld i stay with him because i dont want to be mean????????? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!

Q: So my first real boyfriend.. we went out for a long time. He didn't treat me right and for some reason he didn't really notice that.

So we were friends with benefits on the verge of a relationship again cept not.

Q: 15/f

I know this question is getting old but I'm in some need of advice. Preferably from a guy.

Alright, Well I'll just use my name and his.. I'm not ashamed:].

OK well heres the situation.. Mike was being all nice and sweet to me. I known him for a good year and I liked him last year and he liked me. Lets just say wrong move by me and I never got my chance with him. Well now this year we have a class together and we flirt like crazy. Well just recently my uncle fell ill and so Mike put "hope your uncle gets better sara" in his MSN Personal Message space. Well he's like my support system when I'm down. I always tell him he's the bestest and he says you are too. So basically it feels like he's into me but thats where I got lost I'm guessing. We had made plans to hangout just didn't know when exactly. Well we still haven't set a date yet but we know what we're gonna do and he seems excited. Like he was like
"Can I go into A.E while we're at the mall?" and I was like
"Yes of course, but can I go into boathouse while we're there?"
And he said yeah of course and that we'll go together.
Basically he lights up my life(sotospeak) But now I'm confused by him. His p.m read what I said up there and well my family came over and so I was downstairs with them so I was on msn as away, so I never had the chance to see him sign in. Well when I came back up his p.m said "get better soon nicole." Which I understand that his friend is sick and all and thats fine but what I don't get is, when I changed my status to online in a matter of 5 seconds he was away and then next time I looked(about 10 min later) he was offline.

I know I didn't give enough useful information for the question I'm about to ask but please make do with what I gave.

Does he like me even just a little bit or am I blinded by the light, and should just give up on a year long crush?

Thanks sooo much.

Q: Alright, well.
where to start. I've never really told nebody about this, but my best friend knows. alright, well, I met this guy online, and we became great friends, and one day he told me that he loved me. and he gave me the day, and I realized, I loved him too. Well, this guy... has to be the sweetest male alive, I love him with all my heart, we talk about everything, now, the problem is, he lives in South Carolina, and I live in california. I'm a country girl, hes a city boy. well, our diffrences dont bother us. comming in march, will be our 4 year anniversery. another problem, hes turning 20 this month, and i'm only 15. again, we dont view this as an issue.
we talk online practically 24/7, he stayed up till midnight califonria time for me last night for new years. we've sent letters back and forth, talked on the phone, we've done a ton of things. well, he wants to meet the year I graduate. well, theres two problems.
1. My Mother. she is the most over protective thing EVER. though my oldest brother had an online girlfriend in PA, and visited her for his graduation present, but they knew about his gf. buuut they dont know about me and my bf.
2. my religion. I'm mormon, and i'm not supposed to date until I'm 16 (this september) and i know for a fact my mom wouldnt approve of him. he doesnt approve of my guy friends, any of them over the age of 16, little lone 20.

though I do think i'll have some more freedom by then, I dont know if it'll work. plus, after hs, i'm planning college and a mission...and more college. by the time we can really settle down, he'd be like 32, and yes, we've planned all this out, and hes upset with that idea, but I dont know what to do!

well, I have a few questions

1. I want personal opinions, do you think we would last if we tried

2. since hes upset about him being the age he would be, should I just drop off like, going on a mission, or a few years of college? should i just go to an out of state college, and move in with him?

3. Do i keep this stuff from my parents? they once got into my e-mail and found a ton of e-mails from him, and i was practically dead meat, I blocked his sn and deleted his e-mail off my list in front of them, and they stoppped bothering me, so what he did was change e-mails and I unblocked his sn, that was 3 years ago. Do i risk chancing it now? do i wait until i'm 16 or 17 when i'm of age?

I really want to spend my entire life with him, and I know that for sure right now.

please guys, help!!

Q: okay so i'm a little scared i'm 13f and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me and i havn't even started my period yet and i'm afraid if i have it with him something bad might happen can someone please help me i'm afraid.

Q: I had sex with this boy
and I like him still.
This was during the summer, when school started he was okay and nice.
Then I moved out of his area , but I still go to his school.
He started being a complete jerk to me , and calling me fat and ugly and stuff.
yet, he stares at me constantly.
What the heck is this all about?
I dont understand at all.

Q: This is adressed to girls...
What do you think us guys mean when we say things like "I just want to be friends". I'm asking because my best-friend, a girl, told me she loved me, but I don't lover her, i like her as mayeb more than a friend, but i don't totally love her. Back to the point, I'm as king because that's what I told her and she seems to not want to be my friend at all anymore. Do you girls see that comment as a "leave me alone for a while" comment? Anyways, a little help plz.

Q: 15 f

ok so i have this boyfriend (duh by the title). we're only been going out 6 days and he has already said he loves me, he's rude when hes in front of his friends, he ditches me sometimes, never calls, we havent held hands, he tells his friends he likes me (they told me) but he totally doesnt act like it. today he tried to kiss me and i didnt want to and that just doesnt sound like feeling i should have for the guy im going out with. should i wait for him to get his head out of his bottom or just get rid of him?

and also this sounds extremely superficial but hes one of the most popular guys in school but not very cute and you can tell me that shouldnt matter but it does to me so please dont lecture me about not caring about what people think.

pretty much i think i should stick it out and get used to him. i havent had a relationship in a while and i usually chicken out (longest relationship is 3 weeks)so could it be "cold feet"?

please help me, im very confused.

Q: I'm concerned about a couple of friends I have...I was wondering what age is appropriate to have sex...12?...14?...16?...18?...older?...they say they love the guy but come on...what's too young?

Q: ok like now..im not sexually active but when it comes to the time .. i hear that fingering is a good way to get loosened up, so when your bf finger's you..like where do u look? wont it be awkward if you look at him while he's doing it? do you lay down..what?!

Q: me and my boyfriend are both virgins. we tried having sex the other day but it hurt way too much so i stopped him. i know its supposed to hurt ur first time but is there any way to decrease the pain.. or should i just stick it out?

Q: Well, there's this kid Mike.

We're already okay friends, and we talk a lot. We've had deep conversations, and we're so, so close to having a relationship. One of our mutual friends sees that something could happen.

I like him a lot-when someone signs onto AIM, I always hope that it's him, and we flirt a lot.

How can I go from making him just a really good friend to my boyfriend?

I'd really appreciate a guy's input on this, but anyone can answer. If you do not use proper spelling and grammar, your answer will be rated down, regardless of how amazing your answer was. :]

Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. We have both agreed to stay virgins until we are married .. but it seems like everytime we are together, we end up fooling around. I'm 16 and he's 17 .. but I'm worried that we are going to end up being so consumed with sexual things, that we won't be able to connect on the level that we used to. He is my best friend, and I love him very much - I plan on talking to him about this, I'm just not sure that I know what to say. Is this a problem? And if so, what do I say? I know he still loves me, and he'll be fine if we don't do sexual things, but it just HAPPENS.

Q: my best guy friend says that he wants to have sex with me before we graduate. we're sophmores. i dont mind because i care about him because he is one of my best friends but if i have sex with him will it ruin our friendship?

Q: Okay well my bf is 17 and I am 14..
We were thinking about having sex but we had 2nd thoughts because of diseases and pregnancy.
I don't know if he doesn't have any diseases and I'm not sure if I do.
But he really wants to do a lot of sexual things.
He wants to have anal with me and I don't really want to because I hear from a lot of my friends that it hurts.
But this may seem weird but we sometimes have phone sex and masturbate to each other while talking on the phone..
When we're together we're always making out and trying new things together but we haven't gotten to sex.
I'm not sure if I should have anal or sex with him.

Q: okay so, i have a friend his name is derek and um, i like him ALOTT and i dont know if he likes me but he goes to my school and uh he has a girlfriend but he flirts with me.. ALOt and he allwys cheats on his girlfriend.. not with me but with other ppl. and he dared me to act out what iw ould do if we had sex and i said you nkow hed finger me wed have sex hed rubb my boobs and like blowjob and shit and hardcore makeout.. and then on aim the next day he was like "u like me i know it" and i said "yes i do".. and hes like awh and everything and seemd nice about it.. then he was like i gotta go an said he would do all that stuff to me whenever i wanted him to. and i sent to him i put "lmfaooo haha okay :]" and then he sent back ":] gooodbye

Q: Let me first describe this one girl to you--
-her names hayley.
-shes the popularest one in school
-people worship her. [she even has people who go out to her locker for her & get her things!]
-shes really confident
-but shes also really mean. .. if she doesnt like you.
-shes really rich. she has a ton of REAL louis, chanels, coachs juicys & all that.
-her dog evne wears like these juicy jackets & stuff.

She had this big party, & you had to be on her A-list to get invited. I wasn't I was like on her B-list or something. & she posted it everywhere in school, & everything. Anyways, shes been REALLY nice to me lately, & i want to be better friends with her. Her one friend just moved away, & that means theres a spot open. & i want to make that spot for me. how do i do it?

don't tell me, to be myself or anything.. because, that obviously hasn't been working out too well.

kthanks

Q: i am 16 years old, and my boyfriend and i have been dating for 8 months. we have both performed oral sex on each other, but i have one question .. can girls cum? and how do you know if you're having an orgasm?

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