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Let me first describe this one girl to you--
-her names hayley.
-shes the popularest one in school
-people worship her. [she even has people who go out to her locker for her & get her things!]
-shes really confident
-but shes also really mean. .. if she doesnt like you.
-shes really rich. she has a ton of REAL louis, chanels, coachs juicys & all that.
-her dog evne wears like these juicy jackets & stuff.
She had this big party, & you had to be on her A-list to get invited. I wasn't I was like on her B-list or something. & she posted it everywhere in school, & everything. Anyways, shes been REALLY nice to me lately, & i want to be better friends with her. Her one friend just moved away, & that means theres a spot open. & i want to make that spot for me. how do i do it?
don't tell me, to be myself or anything.. because, that obviously hasn't been working out too well.
kthanks
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jw.. do you go to bridgewater middle school?
oh, its cuz theres a hayley at that school who seems to fit your descriptoion.
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if this is the life you want fine here are some ways to work into the group
1. make sure you have the greatest clothing every day
2. don`t wear the same outfit in 2 weeks (at least)
3. time for you to go shopping! beg your parents to get you 2 bags of designer
4. juicys is amazingly gorgoues soo get some clothes there
5. be funny not annoying. talk mello, have confidents when speaking
6. wake up early to do your hair and make up (if you don`t look good one day your probably not gunna fit in
7. all your little flaws needa be fixed (fat to skinny) (ance to clear face) ( bushy eye brows to gorgeous shaped) ect.
8. be nice to those your know and the rest talk dirty
9. get nails gone (fake one, you chinese people do them)
10. start meeting more people be open, ohh and boys, pshh trust me (be nice not mean don`t start drama, they don`t like it) ohh the more guys you talk to, the more you get popular, remember that
last one (when your really starting to be friends): THROW A PARTY A-list ONLY!
good luck!
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Is she really worth going with? She sounds like Regina from mean girls. I would say it's really up to you but I'd rather you go with normal friends where you can really laugh, enjoy and shit.
I was like you once. I was with a popular clique once but it was so stressful trying to maintain my status in there. You sure you really want tt?
I know that you wanna go with her because you'd be able to be popular and well-liked. I can understand. But once you're in there, things'll be different. Been there, done that. I'd say be happy with the friends around you.
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dear u,
If they dont like you for you they are not the right friends hope i helped
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If she's mean to the people she doesn't like, then she doesn't have confidence. Confident people don't have to look down on others to make themselves feel better, and that's exactly what she's doing. I have a hard time seeing why you would want to be friends with a person like this. Seems to me that she sees people as dolls. Do you really want to be one of her toys? Say you become her "friend". She's just going to use you! Think about it. What you want is to be able to go to her locker and get things for her. You are worth more than that!
I'm not going to tell you how to waste your time with someone like this. She'll only end up hurting you. Focus on yourself. Paint your nails, write a short story, and rearrange the furniture in your room. Then get some real friends who will actually care about you.
I'm saying this for your own good.
-Beulah
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Are you sure you want to be friends with her? If you are you can try these things:
1. be brave a bold- walk up to her with confidence and tell her hi and what's up...basically create a convo with her.
2. Bring something from home for her; eg a cookie or a candy bar or something! It'll help.
3. How do you normally make friends? I normally just go and sit by them and talk to them. However you do it try it on her.ur trying to make a friend.
PS- Don't be fake....cause at some time the fakeness you used to be her friend will go away!
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Why would you want to be friends with someone who is so shallow and treats people badly? This girl sounds like a spoiled brat who has never had to work for anything and values material posessions and social status over people. My advice is to stay away from her.
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alright, this is gonna be harsh and not what you want to hear,
but you don't want to be her friend. well..really..you don't need to be her friend. being popular in school gets you no where in life. it doesn't look good on college applications, and it doesn't get you a career. yeah, it may seem important now, but do you really want to be a servant to a girl who doesn't really care about you?
and you can never replace friends a person has once had.
and why do you want to be fake with people? if you're fake, no one will take your seriously. be yourself. forget her. find some true friends.
i apologize for being harsh, but it's the truth.
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