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dump him or stick it out?
15 f
ok so i have this boyfriend (duh by the title). we're only been going out 6 days and he has already said he loves me, he's rude when hes in front of his friends, he ditches me sometimes, never calls, we havent held hands, he tells his friends he likes me (they told me) but he totally doesnt act like it. today he tried to kiss me and i didnt want to and that just doesnt sound like feeling i should have for the guy im going out with. should i wait for him to get his head out of his bottom or just get rid of him?
and also this sounds extremely superficial but hes one of the most popular guys in school but not very cute and you can tell me that shouldnt matter but it does to me so please dont lecture me about not caring about what people think.
pretty much i think i should stick it out and get used to him. i havent had a relationship in a while and i usually chicken out (longest relationship is 3 weeks)so could it be "cold feet"?
please help me, im very confused.
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dear u,
i think you should talk to your boyriend
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You guys are still pretty young, we all are..and I know you've heard it a thousand times, but at that age, guys tend to care too much what their friends think. You've just gotten into the relationship, so at this point everything's up in the air. If you're having these feelings this early on, you guys just may not be too into each other. I don't think either one of you should expect TOO much out of the relationship, but there are certain things that should be covered. Honestly, you probably know best what you feel about this. You two are still quite young and maybe he doesn't know how to act with a girlfriend. You should definately talk to him about how you feel..it's the only way you'll figure out what he's thinking. Be yourself
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if he's rude to you in front of his friends, he obviously has his priorities wrong. some people say 'bros before hoes' [no offense to you] but a guy shouldn't be doing these things to you. i took this off of my xanga, but you should look for...
...the guy who will text/call you every single morning and tell you 'good morning' and every single night to tell you 'sweet dreams.'
...the guy who will text/call you and tell you 'i miss you and wish you were here' just because.
...the guy who will blindfold you, take you to the beach and let you run your toes through the sand then make you guess where we are.
...the guy who will show up at your games [or competitions or meets] without you knowing just to surprise you.
...the guy who will hold you when you're crying and wipe away your tears.
...the guy who still thinks you're beautiful with no makeup on, wearing sweats and a big t-shirt.
...the guy who won't pressure you to do things you don't want to.
...the guy who will show up at your house with soup and a movie when you aren't feeling well.
...the guy who kisses you on the forehead.
...the guy who actually listens to you when you talk.
...the guy who's excited all day because i'm looking forward to our date that night.
...the guy who is content to just be able to hold you and wants nothing more.
...the guy who can't help but smile when you walk into the room.
...the guy who's perfectly content with staying in and watching movies and cuddling.
...the guy who won't lie to you about where he's going or where he's been or who he's been with.
...the guy who's not afraid to tell his friends how much he likes you.
...the guy who isn't always trying to act like a hard ass around you.
...the guy who doesn't care about your imperfections and loves you more for them.
...the guy who will hold you while we watch the sunset.
...THE GUY WHO REALLY WANTS TO MAKE YOU THE HAPPIEST GIRL IN THE WORLD.
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if he's not willing to do this, forget about him. there are plenty other fish in the sea. you're still young, btw. give the boys a little more time to mature. by the time they're juniors, their life will revolve around you. believe me, i used to be one of them. hope it helps.
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