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I'm a guy and I just turned 18. I'm basically afraid of getting drafted, and so are my parents. They said they would do anything to get me out of it if I ever did get drafted, like move me to a different country or make me handicapped or something.
I just want to know how likely it is for a draft to happen. (link)
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unless there is a disaster that wipes out the national guard and reserves, your chances are very unlikely. i'm a male who's eighteen too. when i was a sophomore in h/s i thought that serving my country was the best thing to do, but after finding out the truths of our invasion of iraq in my political science class, my attitude has changed entirely. i suggest you don't fret over this and just support any people you know fighting in iraq right now.
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so basically i'm a freshman..and i have a major crush on a senior. he's not even that cute,but i just LOVE his personality! he's in one of my classes (a language class, i'm fluent in it .. lol so don't think i'm really smart or he's really stupid). he's like an older brother-personality..yeah i know that's weird i have a crush on an older brother..but i dont know! yeah well we talk sometimes we'll say hi in the halls and stuff like that, but other than that nothing. and believe me my school is NOT the type where a senior would ever ask out a freshman or where you could get away with dating an upperclassmen without people being like wtff. so yeah,what to do!? (link)
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follow what your heart says. if he has the same feelings, then you shouldn't care about what the other people in high school think. but be forewarned, many guys in h/s think w/the wrong 'head' if you know what i mean [especially when prom night rolls around.] for your own safety, i suggest you find out more about him. then go for it! =]
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ok so i have this boyfriend (duh by the title). we're only been going out 6 days and he has already said he loves me, he's rude when hes in front of his friends, he ditches me sometimes, never calls, we havent held hands, he tells his friends he likes me (they told me) but he totally doesnt act like it. today he tried to kiss me and i didnt want to and that just doesnt sound like feeling i should have for the guy im going out with. should i wait for him to get his head out of his bottom or just get rid of him?
and also this sounds extremely superficial but hes one of the most popular guys in school but not very cute and you can tell me that shouldnt matter but it does to me so please dont lecture me about not caring about what people think.
pretty much i think i should stick it out and get used to him. i havent had a relationship in a while and i usually chicken out (longest relationship is 3 weeks)so could it be "cold feet"?
please help me, im very confused. (link)
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if he's rude to you in front of his friends, he obviously has his priorities wrong. some people say 'bros before hoes' [no offense to you] but a guy shouldn't be doing these things to you. i took this off of my xanga, but you should look for...
...the guy who will text/call you every single morning and tell you 'good morning' and every single night to tell you 'sweet dreams.'
...the guy who will text/call you and tell you 'i miss you and wish you were here' just because.
...the guy who will blindfold you, take you to the beach and let you run your toes through the sand then make you guess where we are.
...the guy who will show up at your games [or competitions or meets] without you knowing just to surprise you.
...the guy who will hold you when you're crying and wipe away your tears.
...the guy who still thinks you're beautiful with no makeup on, wearing sweats and a big t-shirt.
...the guy who won't pressure you to do things you don't want to.
...the guy who will show up at your house with soup and a movie when you aren't feeling well.
...the guy who kisses you on the forehead.
...the guy who actually listens to you when you talk.
...the guy who's excited all day because i'm looking forward to our date that night.
...the guy who is content to just be able to hold you and wants nothing more.
...the guy who can't help but smile when you walk into the room.
...the guy who's perfectly content with staying in and watching movies and cuddling.
...the guy who won't lie to you about where he's going or where he's been or who he's been with.
...the guy who's not afraid to tell his friends how much he likes you.
...the guy who isn't always trying to act like a hard ass around you.
...the guy who doesn't care about your imperfections and loves you more for them.
...the guy who will hold you while we watch the sunset.
...THE GUY WHO REALLY WANTS TO MAKE YOU THE HAPPIEST GIRL IN THE WORLD.
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if he's not willing to do this, forget about him. there are plenty other fish in the sea. you're still young, btw. give the boys a little more time to mature. by the time they're juniors, their life will revolve around you. believe me, i used to be one of them. hope it helps.
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