but theres this kid in my spanish class hes a sophmore and im a freshman. and ever since school started he always checked me out and stuff, and he'd stare at me all the time. every time he'd pass me he'd flick his hair at me. well i just thought that it didnt mean anything, until these past few days in the halls he'd point me out to all of his friends, and they'd be like "oh thats the girl who you like?" (but they didnt know that i heard), so i know that he likes me but he's kind of shy! i like him too and i want to go to homecoming with him but i want him to ask ME so what should i do? i dont want to ask his friends cause thats lame, but im afraid to talk to him. do you think he's embarrassed cause im a freshman?
okay well the only way he will ask you out is if you two have a conversation together. He is probably stuck in the same situation that you are.. if he didn't talk to you yet it's obvious that he's afraid to talk to you too. So if I were you I would say hello to him.. becuz you can't go to skool everyday wishing that he will say something to you. If you really like him you will talk to him. It doesn't sound like hes embarrassed becuz you're a freshman becuz if he was he wouldn't have told his friends that he liked you. I just think hes shy. Hope I helped.. and Good luck!! Rate me!
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how can u get a popular guy to like u when u r very very shy???
Talk to him. Have a nice conversation. If you really like this guy you can't be shy around him. He might not like you at first but im sure if you keep having conversations with him and he gets to kno you and u get to kno him.. he just might start to like you. I hope I helped!! Rate me!!
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OK so i'm at a new school and like i made this one fried ... lets call her susan. So susan invited me over to her house for halloween with some of her friends too. I don't know for sure but i've heard her friends talking about doing drugs and all (not planning it for halloween but talking about it in like the past sence) I'm pretty sure Susan doesn't do drugs or anything but i do think that she drinks. I don't do any of that stuff, nor do I want to. Do you think I should go to her house and take the chance? PLEASE help me... i'll rate EVERYONE!
I think you should go to her house and see how it is first. You should take a chance but if you see people doing drugs or drinking then call one of your family members to pick you up.The people that were saying people were gonna do drugs might have lied about it.. people make up rumors. Well, I hope I helped!
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I really want ot be popular..can you give me some tips? DONT tell me to be myself or tell me popularity doesn't matter, ive heard that enough. I want real tips. Thanks!
Been there, done that!lol.. I would say.. do something really cool with your hair-everyone loves that! Buy some nice clothes and make up ( not crappy make up ) and just start talking to the popular kids.. soon they will realize that you're a cool person! Hope I helped!
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I just got a Virgin Mobile phone for my b/day.. Thing is, I've already spent $70 on it in phone cards.. And I've had it for a month. I REALLY need minutes on the phone, because I ran out a week or two ago. Thing is, I'm flat broke & my mom isn't willing to buy me a phone card. Any ideas on how to make money? And don't say babysitting!
Well it really depends on how old you are but if you're old enough to get a job then I would suggest you do that. If your birthday is coming up just tell your family and friends that you want money. You'll be able to pay for your phone! Hope I helped!
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I just recently got over my ex..but now im realizing that i may like my best friend's ex. She is still far from over him..i could never go out with him..help?
I think you should tell your bestfriend how you feel about her ex and ask her if she would be mad if you went out with him... if she says yeah and she would be mad I wouldn't want to go out with him cuz friends always come first and if she says no then thats great but don't date him without asking your friend first. Hope I helped!
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hi
I'm 27 years old male from Windhoek,Namibia.
my girlfriend and i broke up after two years of healthy relationhsip.i still love her very much though and i'm pleading day and night for her to give it another try.i know her decision was made by the influence of some of her family. her family pretents alot with me,but i don't have a problem with them.altough i'm now living 400km away from her i still can't get her out of my mind.she was and still is the best thing that has ever happen to me.
please help me..what do i do to get her back.
Thank you
Haroldt
I think you should tell her how you feel about her and tell her how much you still care about her.Sometimes this can be really hard to tell someone that you still care for them but it's the only way you two can be together again.If you dont think her parents like you then I suggest you call them up and talk to them and tell them how you feel about their daughter.If you really care about her.. you'll call her and her parents and tell them. If you need anymore advice just ask me!
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Pleez tell me what you think!!!!??? Should you go a party of a girl you hardly know rlly with your whole school or should you go hang with your best friend because its her birthday that day???? pleez help and say what you would do or think.....??!! xo
I think you should hang out with your bestfriend. This is just me but the two most important things in the world to me are my friends and my family and I would never let them down especially if it's their birthday. Glad I could help!
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it took me almost a year to get over my ex boyfriend and even then i still wasn't all the way over him..i loved him so much and i still do only i was moving on sorta but now all the sudden im having tons of dreams about him and like all of them are of me and him being together and bein happy and shit, its freakin weird. i miss him so much..like hes my world and he makes me feel like i can be myself and he wont judge me or anything. i have no idea what to do. please dont tell me to move on because my hearts telling me not to. my bffl is neighbors with him and me and her and other people are going to this 4 story haunted house around halloween and shes bringing her boyfriend (most likely) and i want him to go..is that stupid even though we aren't together? should i try and make things work between us or what should i say/do??? thanks sooo much.
If you don't want to move on and you can't be dreaming about him forever then the only thing left to do is talk to him and tell him that you still have feelings for him. Tell him you were happy when you two were together and that you dont want it to come to an end.If hes really worth it then he will come around. I hope I helped!!
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Hi its Lissa...okay i well i got my progress report in the mail today and iim failing 3 classes and passing 3 (those aint that great either) and i told my mom and now shes all pissed like REALLY pissed she calls every 2 minutes n yells at me and she's like 'WHAT THE HELL!' n we have to go to my aunts funeral tomorrow at 11 am and now she's saying i can't go because of my grades, isn't that gay? shes my AUNT! and she's also like your not going into drivers ed and never getting a car EVER if u dont get all good grades and blah blah blah its really pissing me off i even started crying. im doing better now, i turn in most of my work im just not that smart and she expects me to be all smart and shit when im not...she keeps bugging me about it and im so annoyed...and thats just on the phone what the hell am i gonna do when she gets home from work!? she knows my 'situation' or she should cuz when school started i was really depressed and suicidal and everything was messed up, now im on anti depression medicine so im doing better and trying harder in school. my counselor even told me not to be so hard on myself i have a lot goin on and idk what to do about this...sorry this is long but ah..what do i do? thanks so much!!!
I think you should tell your mom everything that has been bothering you and that your under alot of stress becuz your aunt died. Tell her that your turning all your work in and doing all your homework and tell her that you'll try to bring your grades up.If your mom loves you she'll understand.I hope I helped!!
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I recently started liking my friend, "Ray". We were hanging out a couple weeks ago & we were flirting a lot. Then we kissed.. Twice. The next day, I talked to him & he admitted that he has a girlfriend! Does this make me a slut, because I didn't know that he was cheating on his girlfriend!
This doesn't make you a slut at all! It's your friends fault becuz if he would have told you before that he had a girlfriend then this wouldn't have happened. Don't feel guilty for someone elses mistakes Hope I helped:-)!! Rate me!!
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heyy whats up?? tomorrow at my school we have picture day.. i have curly blonde hair with blonde highlights n my mom wont let me straighten my hair.. what should i do with my hair fpr the picture... lol ~~signed~~ **Your frienD**
heyyy lol... if your not allowed to straighten it then scrunch it
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**OK my friends name is Nancy.(changed to be confidential)Her idea of fun is drugs. Any time she can get a hold of a drug she takes advantage of it. The drugs "I KNOW OF" that she has tried is coke, aderal, and defently weed! Chronic is what she lives for, everyday after school she smokes with her sister. Any other drug she usually doesnt tell me bout. She also drinks. I dont think she does alot. Whats the problem your asking? my friend just turned 13 4 months ago!! Yea...so everytime i try to tell her "Nancy you're so much better than that and you kno it!" she just goes "Dude its nothing it cant hurt me" Nancy is a smart girl, she could do much with her life! I never kno if an ingrediant in any of the drugs she takes she could be allergic to. I need help, what do I do?!
**Anoynomous**
If you think she is a smart girl and she can do alot with her life then you should tell her that. Tell her that she can get in alot of trouble and she has a great future ahead of her and drugs are interfearing with that. You sound like a good friend and I think she should listen to you! If shes really smart.. she will stop doing drugs!
I hope I helped!! Rate me!!
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My group of friends and I have been really close for a long time, until recently. We were all loyal to eachother and thought that we could put lots of trust into eachother...until we found out some things about this girl Cara. She had been saying bad things about all of us behind our backs. Individually! We all knew that she had been doing this for awhile and we kinda excepted it as being her. We would nod our head when she talked about another friend, but wouldn't participate in the verbal backstab. You see, she told every one of us that we each were the only ones that she could trust and the only ones that really understood her. That made us special and feel that we could trust her. WRONG! recently we found out that she had been doing this for years and giving verbal beatings to all of her so called friends behind their backs. Its not even that that ticks us off so much. You see, she always is depressed and moody and ruining our fun by being sad about things that she say are happening at home or at school, but in reality, she has a great mom and dad, and is getting excellent grades. We all didn't talk to her for one week and she retaliated. she told anyone with ears all about how we were all jerks. Than the next day, she acts all sad and trys to apologize. She says that she's truly sorry and all and we all want to forgive her. She says that she is going to change and she needs our help and just wants us back. So naturally we forgive her....but today she started talking about us and acting all depressed and moody again! We have no idea what to do because even though she is a mean jerk, she's that kind of person that you want to hate, but you miss and you want them to miss you and like you. She will also spread rumors about us if we be mean to her. We are so confused at what to do. It doesn't help that we all go to the same school, so we can't just ignore her because were in a lot of the same classes. HELP!
This girl seems like a jerk but I still think you should be nice to her and ask her what is bothering her and tell her to please stop talking about you and your friends. Tell her that to make friends you have to be a friend and tell her that shes not being much of a friend when she talks about you behind your back. Just tell her that you want to be her friend and eventually she will change. I hope i helped!
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ok lets see if i can get this right lol...
-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long)
ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...
he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..
- i said "no"
- he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl"
- i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..
i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he doesnt want to listen to listen when he knows its true...
and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...
-he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx
P.S. i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..then later on the other night on-line what this girls name is and
he said "marissa"
--- when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again
- i think i already hinted that i liked him...im just not suree if he is affaird to ask me out bc i said i rejected 5 guys-
I agree with you.. I would tell him to be himself around the girl he likes. I think you should tell him to tell the girl he likes how he feels about her and if she turns him down then shes not worth it.If you like him more then a friend then I think you should tell him how you feel too. By reading your story.. it seems to me that he just might like you too! Hope I helped!
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Hi there! I've got my own column on here (EMiLYELiZABETH) but today I'm needing some advice.
I'm 2O/f and tomorrow I've got a huge job interview with the police department. My question is... what should I wear and how should I do my hair?? It's brown with reddish highlights, half way down my back (about to the bottom of my bra). I like it either up or down, so that isn't an issue.
As far as what to wear, I was wondering about pinstripe pants or a skirt? Also, what kind of shirt? I've got a few nice sweaters or some that I can layer with.
Any help would be GREATLY appricated!! Thanks so much!
Em
I think you should wear a skirt ( not too short ) and a nice sweater. Make sure you look wise..you want GREAT first impression.
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Me & my friend "Carrie" are really close. Thing is, she's really close to her soon to be step sister (me & her step. are friends, too) I always feel really jealous around them, because they get to hang out every day of the week & they have so many inside jokes & stuff that it makes me really depressed. Like we were shopping the other day & they saw a Barbie at Toys-r-us (don't ask y we were in there.... lol) & they were like "oh this one's me & that one's u!" It was like I wasn't even there! I mean, don't get me wrong, I love both of them, they're my best friends, but my stomach turns whenever they say or do something that I don't get, cuz I'm not close to anyone but them for the most part. I'm so confused
I think you should talk to both of them about this and they will include you in their inside jokes. Really sit down and talk to them and tell them how you feel.. and if they get mad their not your true friends.
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Alrighty, well this is about that boy Jake that i wrote about before. As I said Jake calls me everyday and I like him a lot, but yesterday we were talking on the phone and hes like god how come you never call me or talk to me in school? Im sick of your sh!t I always have to call you but w/e forget it im sick of it and Im not calling you anymore! And he was yelling at me and all and I was telling him im sorry and all and hes like w/e it doesnt matter if you call me now or what i dont care. Well i said the reason i didnt was because i didnt know if he wanted me to, and he said that was the stupidest thing he has ever heard because he doesnt know if i want him to call me so thats not an excuse. And he kept saying that it didnt matter because the only reason that i would start talking to him was because he said something. So today I was looking for my friend during homeroom and i went up to him and asked if he saw her and he just walked away from me! I dont know what to do im so upset, i left school early because i was feeling sick worrying about it so much and i could focus :(!!
Someone please help me
I say to talk to him and work things out. You can't let this go. He can't be mad forever. When you do get back together and he gets over everything you should call him very often and talk to him in school. That way this wont happen again between you two.
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okay i was on a antiobitioic for a sinus infection, and its a form of penecilin, and i had these HUGE absolutley huge hives all over me, they were disgusting, i was wondering what exactly are hives?
You are probably allergic to this medicine. I am allergic to the same thing. Find new medicine and don't use that medicine again. Go to a doctor for the hives he'll tell you what to do.
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