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ok, well i have started cutting because of problems i have at home, well now i started to do it for fun, and i dont know why i like to do it, but i do. and its not for attention because know one knows i do it. well anyways, i get urges to do it even when there are no probems at home. i dont know whats wrong with me, i mean i know its wrong and i shouldnt be doing it, but i just love to hurt myself. i need some advice, weather its what i can do to stop, or if you know why i like to do it for fun. plz help (link)
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It's an addiciton, just like drugs, ciggarettes, and alcohol. You're used to it now. You need to tell somebody about it. Talk to a parent, or a guidance counseler. or at least a friend. you could get treated or go to classes where they help you stop. I read Cut, and I'm not sure, but I think at the end they have some websites and phone numbers you can call to get help. One of my magazines has it... I will check and let you know.
If u wanna IM me (( AIM )) at XoMrSoRtOnOx
hope i helped, and im sorry
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i've been hanging out with this clique since i was like.. iunno grade 5.. now, i found these people that i get along with but sumtimes bore me. i don't know how to tell them that sometimes i need some time with my other friends who i've known longer without hurting their feelings, because i'm like the only friend that they have and i don't want to hurt them. please help me (link)
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Just tell them you miss your old friends. If they are really your friends they should understand. Dont ditch them, and spend time with everyone.
hope it helps...
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My mom waon't let me have a b/f or watch some R movies. It seems like she is Overprotecting me from the outside world. What should i do? HELP!
Feelings from the inside out,
Jess P.S- I rate HIGH! (link)
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Tell her you're a big girl and you can take care of yourself. Remind her that eventually you're not going to be there with her all the time. And you need time to experiment now so you dont rush things later on in life.
it also depends on how old you are. The R thing could mean that you really shouldnt be watchin them
I gave my INSANELY strict parents the same speach and they let me do whatever I want now as long as Im safe, check up with them, and IM back by curfew.
Tell them that you'll call every now and then when you're on a date (( but only a few times )) and that you'll let you're mom at least check out the movie before you go to it.
hope i helped
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im 14/f...i weight 105. i would say that my appearance of me would be SKINNY!..i cheerlead.. but since the season has ended i wont be cheering again till summer. i have a fast metabolism (meaning i eat alot, and well my food doesnt stay with me!...i dont gain weight no matter how much i eat!) im trying to find ways that will help me gain weight..and then as i do so i want to work out, creating some abs! (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. But I dont have a fast metabolism..... anyway...
talk to your doctor. He may be able to give you a shake or a pill that helps you gain weight. Or you could take protein shakes. These will also allow you to workout and get better abs.
If it doesnt work you could sign up for cheerleading in the winter. A lot of girls, including me, on my squad do that. It helps give you practice and helps you workout and stay healthy.
HOPE I HELPED!
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does anyone know where i can learn urban (hip-hop) dancing? (link)
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look up dance lessons in a phonebook to get specifics. But most dance places teach it now. Or jus go downtown and ask somebody ;) lol
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is it just me?...or is it just the way my friend acts?...or are others like this also?..
there is this girl Angie...ive known her for about 4 years already..theres time where were close, like best friends. but lately shes been so annoying!..i get so irritated by her!..juss things she does!..shes so fake! and just doesnt know how to be herself! and she'll be so loud just to get attention!!...
anyone else hate this about someone?! (link)
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That could be annoying... but me and my friends are never quiet lol. ;)
Try telling her that shes awesome and doesnt have to get attention, she already has it. Try telling her that you dont like when she does it.
sorry i cant help more
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hurry i need advice quick wut does it mean when a girl is going to "play" a guy??? (link)
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when a girl goes out with a guy just to dump him or to seem cool, or when she goes out with more than 1 guy at a time :D
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In the begining of the schoolyear, I made a new friend, Carol. I started to hang out with her alot. Now, I don't want to be her friend anymore because she steals and smokes. Now, Elissa, my old best friend who i want to be close with again, is best friends with carol! In my Xanga (KirksSkater) they said to stop talking about them. All it said was "Which Do I prefer :Carol or Elissa" and it was a fill-in thingy for other people. Now, I have no friends because of them. What should I do?
AAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH
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Talk to E about it. Stealing and smoking is wrong, but instead of just not being C's frend anymore you should talk to her about it. And yes, We are backstabbing bitchez. Always and forever. hope i helped
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Okay there is this REALLY nice guy and I like him a lot.. and he REALLY likes me.. but then there is my ex bf who also likes me.. This new guy chris I havnt gone out with yet.. and I went out with my ex steven 6 times already and it didn't work out.. I am thinking Chris but a lot of my friends r picking Steven.. Please help me..
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hunni who gives a rats ass what your friends think? Follow your heart, not someone elses. If you really like Chris then go out with him. If after 6 tries that guy aint worth your time. hope it helps
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well i had my period a week ago, fer about 3 or 4 days idk, but then it got really light , like hardly ANYTHING at all on the pad , so yeah but now it feels like im going to get it. Is it possible to get it?
Also..My best friend had sex before and in january she got her period for over 1 week about 2 weeks i think she said, and now she didnt get it in february, could it be becuase shes pregnet, or because she had it so long in jan. she wont get it in feb? Thanks so much! (link)
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as for the question about you, you could get it, but you might not.
As for your friend, it depends on how long shes had her period for (( like 3 years, 1 year )) if shes had it for a while she should take a pregnancy test just in case. She could just have an irregular period
hope it helps
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my dad hits me. and i'm really afraid of him. when he comes home from work i stay in my room. but whenever i do something wrong. even when i get less than an A on a test he'll hit me and say i'm not living up to my potential. i don't know what to do. He hits my mom to and i get badly bruised from the battles. what can i do? who can i go to? and is there anyway possible that i can get out of my house and be adopted or something? help me Please. (link)
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Your dad could get arrested. What hes doing is horrible and makes me want to personally go over there and kick his mother fucking ass. Tell the police, or at least a guidance counseler, and tell your mom how scared you are. Hitting you because you do less than perfect is stupid, but the fact that you get bruises and he hits your mom makes it even worse. Your mom could get a restraining order against him also. If you and her are afraid to bring the police into it you could sneak out and move away and stay in a hotel or something.
Like I said, I want to kick his ass. I may only be 15 but I can take him ;) lol. It'll all be ok in the end
jope i helped hun
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okay. well i'm 14 years old and my best friend is a guy. and i do have a boyfriend whom i really love. but my best friend recently has been flirting with me and crap. but i only think of him as a friend and my boyfriend is starting to think i'm cheating on him. i want to tell my friend about what he's doing but i still want to keep him as a best friend...what should i do? how can i tell him to lay off? (link)
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Tell him you only like him as a friend and nothing more. That you really care about him, and love him, but not in a bf kinda way. Let him know that you love your bf, and that he will never come between you 2, but that he thinks you are cheating on him. And that you dont want to have to choose. Hope it helps
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this might be long
i got my first kiss at this campground i go to, and it was with this kid whos always been my friend, and we always hang out with like 8 other people. none of them know that me and him had a connection. well a couple of days ago my brother called me on my cellphone while i was out with my boyfriend and a couple friends and he said that the boy i kissed had called him and told him because he couldnt keep it a secret anymore. so my brother called me and told me he knew, and he was flipping out on me, and i guess he was being so loud that my boyfriend heard it, and he got upset and wouldnt talk to me and was always avoiding me. it was a long time ago that we kissed, but he didnt know that so he thought i was cheating on him, and he got pretty upset. i dont know what to do, because he wont listen to anything i say. and im afraid my brother will tell everyone else at the campsite, and i dont want them to know because then when we hang out things will never be the same. (link)
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Just tell him that it was a long time ago and you only have feelings for him, that you dont even like that kid anymore. That it was an unexpected thing and it was WAY before you met him/ like him. Tell him you were embarassed about it and didnt want anybody to know. Tell him you'd never cheat on him, or anybody else. That you think cheating is stupid. i hope it helps ya hun
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one of my friends asked the guy i like if he likes me and he said he doesn't know and he likes a lot of people. so when he says he doesn't kno...does that really mean "No but i'm not gonna say it"?? thanx! i rate high (link)
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It may, or it may mean that hes just trying to be sweet but he doesnt even know who you are. It could also mean that he doesnt know how WELL he likes you. Maybe if you tell him that you like him, or ask him out, hell say how he really feels.
hope it helps
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Hey,
well ive liked this guy for a long time now, and i heard he likes me to but hes gone out with a couple of girls...
now its like hes been ignoring me and i told my friend and she asked him and he said its cuz i was ignoring him...
but he said that he likes this girl danielle.
so what should i do?
i realli like him... (link)
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Tell him YOURSELF that you like him and would like to date him. If you make the first step he may realize that he likes you better than that other bitch ;) lol. hope it helps
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My mom got married in October. I was ok with my new step-dad before they were married. Now i don't like him. He talkes too loud, sits around doing nothing all day, laughs at everything i say, and is so annoying. I reminded my mom that she promised never to marry anyone i didn't like. Now she broke my promise to me and i'm stuck with a new dad! i've talked about it with her, but it dosnt help. she keeps saying that he's "the right one". but he's not the right dad for me! How do i learn to like him? (link)
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hmmm... im sorry to say that you cant make her devorce him now. And im also sorry to say that you should've spoke up earlier. The good news is you may get used to him, and he may change. Try asking him if he could help out around the house a little more. Or lie, and say you have a headache and ask him to talk a little quieter. If he really loves your mom, he;ll want to get along with you. Even though some men arent always nice enough to do that. Tell him that now that he's here you'd like him to try to change, just like you've had to make some changes for him.
hope any of it helps hun :D
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here it goes, my friend has always been nice to me, but after she she got this new group of friends... every time i come ova her house it's "Wanta invite my friend ova".when eva her friends are ova she's not herself anymore. i tryed to talk her about it but,now she thinks i hate her friends(which I do). anyway how can i keep my friendship and stil get time alone with my friend?!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Tell her you've noticed shes changed, and that you dont think its for the better. Dont tell her you hate her friends, cause that means you arent being a real friend. Cause technically she can choose her crew.... sorry if that came out wrong. anyway, tell her that you miss spending time ALONE with her, and that you miss being able to talk to her without worrying if the other girl is going to spread rumors about her. If all else fails, tell her you dont think her friends are good for her. Unfortunately, your friendship may end, and that may be the best thing. Im sorry if it makes no sense lol, and sorry i couldnt help more
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I have a large group of really close friends. Two who some would say are the most popular are starting to be really badly bullied by this jelous cow with no real friends. She has been being horrible to them for a long time, but now things are getting nasty. One of these two friends today got really badly shouted, e.c.t at, punched in the back ( which is really bad for her, as she has a bad spine and needs to wear a back brace) and her hair pulled so badly, I mean really pulled. In the shouting, she insulted her so much as well- calling her a jewish bitch and so on. All my other friends and I did all we could to break up the conflict and she would have done much more if we weren't there. I have a feeling this is going to get much worse. We have told the teachers, but this is going to make her so angry. This is all over nothing, simply them being popular. Both friends were left crying. For ages we have ran away whenever we have seen them ( she has her gang). What can I do to stop this from getting worse? Also, the other friend has a bad self image (even though boys think she is best looking in the school) and has been a cutter in the past. What can I do to help my friends and stop the bullying? (link)
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ok.... I didnt even read the whole question.. sorry. But if the stupid teacher didnt do anything to help you need to tell your parets or call the cops. Calling her a frickin jewish bitch and punching is against ALL school rules and is extrmely wrong. Try talking to a guidance counseler. and if he/she is a jackass and wont help either than talking to a parent or cop is the best thing.
sorry for my language... bullys piss me off so fucking bad lol.
hope i helped...
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My dog has REALLY bad dandruff(sp?) and i do not know what to do. Is this normal? Ive tried brushing him but theres just so much! Does anyone know of any good products? (link)
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Try caling the groomer at petsmart or petco to ask them what kind of product is best for your god BREED. it all depends on the breed. It is normal for some big dogs, and a few small dogs, but again it depends on the dog.
sorry i cant help more
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Hey how do u first kiss ur girlfriend without the chance of embarrassment like if she doesnt want to. got any techniques on kissin too (link)
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lol. I dont understand... but ill try my best. If its both your first times, then ask her if shed like to kiss you. If its your first time, try practicing on a doll (( i know its funny and weird... )) or on your hand. If its her first time, act like you know what your doing and just lean in for it. Most first kisses work much better if they are just a pack on the lips or cheeks.
as for kissing techniques and tips? Im the master, lol. but it all depends on what you want. Let me know if you need any more help
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