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i'm 13 and a girl please help me!
here it goes, my friend has always been nice to me, but after she she got this new group of friends... every time i come ova her house it's "Wanta invite my friend ova".when eva her friends are ova she's not herself anymore. i tryed to talk her about it but,now she thinks i hate her friends(which I do). anyway how can i keep my friendship and stil get time alone with my friend?!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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ok this is soo common! invite her to a sleepover or somewhere to hang out ALONE! maybe you can talk to her about it.. at the right time. You dont have to be best friends with her but you do want to keep your friendship. hoped i helped! good luck :) xoxo BLONDE911
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Tell her you've noticed shes changed, and that you dont think its for the better. Dont tell her you hate her friends, cause that means you arent being a real friend. Cause technically she can choose her crew.... sorry if that came out wrong. anyway, tell her that you miss spending time ALONE with her, and that you miss being able to talk to her without worrying if the other girl is going to spread rumors about her. If all else fails, tell her you dont think her friends are good for her. Unfortunately, your friendship may end, and that may be the best thing. Im sorry if it makes no sense lol, and sorry i couldnt help more
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hey, ok this may sound mean but, maybe u should get some new friends too to make her jelious lol, and give her a taste of her own medicine, (i think i spelled that wrong sorry) and when ur at her house ask to invite them over. She will see how it hurt you since she is experiancing it,
I hope i helped **hailey** <3 pleasee rate mee : )
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You could stop being so jealus and try to make friends with her new friends. Or you could try making some new friends to.
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Have you ever tried being friends with her friends? maybe they arent as bad as they seem.. or sorry to say it.. maybe your just being selfish? its ok.. its normal.. but you know.. try to lay off a bit ;)
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Tell her you barely even know her anymore because she's spending most of her time with her other friends. Tell her when you go to her house you go there to hang with her, not her friends. Tell her it's not fair for you and you just want to spend time with her without anyone else around. Maybe plan a day at the beach or something.When she asks you if you want her friends over say "no" and mean it and if she invites them over just go home and maybe she will think about what she's done. If she decides to stay with these group of people, make some new friends because if she's going to do that then you could do so much better.
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well first of all there are a lot of people who get new groups. What i think that you should do is just go up to her and tell her that you want your old friend back and that you really miss her.
But hey you can always meet new peolple and not just limit your self to one person.
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You need to talk to your friend again and tell her that when ever you are over her house when her friends come over, she isn't the same when she's alone with you. The next time she asks if she can invite her friends over when you are there, simply tell her "No" and explain everything again and tell her that you don't want a friend who acts differently with other people. Tell her that you really want her as your friend but you want to hang out with her alone sometimes and not with your friends.
-Karen
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Many people, in fact, do get new groups of friends in middle school. It's really hard to hold on to your friends when everything and everyone is changing. You should start to hang around with other friends too. You should never limit yourself to just one friend! I think that your friend may just be excited to have new friends, and that's why she wants to be with them so much. Or maybe she feels lonely when it's just the two of you, and thinks it would be more fun to include more people. You have to try to like her new friends. Maybe the reason you hate them is that you're jealous that they're always with your friend. Don't worry, this stuff is normal. I'm 13 also and have experienced times like this. Tell your friend that you're really sorry, you just felt like you two never got time alone together like you used to. If you want her to accept your appology, you are going to have to tell her that it's okay if she has other friends too. Think about it... how would you like it if you had a new group of friends, but your friend didn't like them? You wouldn't want to pick and choose which friend to be with, and which one not to. You're friend should be really glad when you tell her you accept her new friends. You should also try to get and know her new friends. If the reason you hate her new friends is because you feel like they're taking your friend away from you, forget about all of that and try to get to know them better. Who knows... maybe you'll end up becoming friends with them!
Hope I could help!
-Mallory <3
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dear girl help,
the next time your over your friends house and she says that say "NO" if she asks why say, "i've told you before, they aren't my kind of friends and when your around both them and me, well you don't act like yourself!" if she says ok and everything goes well, good! but if she gets mad, jsut ask where the phone is so you can call your mom or whoever's home. if you want you can try hanging out with the other girls and just act the same as them. you might start to fit in, but if that doesn't work, IM/email me and i think ill ahve something up my sleeve...
((shortie*))
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you should talk to her, and be like, "we never hang out anymore" or something like that, so its just the 2 of u
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