I have a large group of really close friends. Two who some would say are the most popular are starting to be really badly bullied by this jelous cow with no real friends. She has been being horrible to them for a long time, but now things are getting nasty. One of these two friends today got really badly shouted, e.c.t at, punched in the back ( which is really bad for her, as she has a bad spine and needs to wear a back brace) and her hair pulled so badly, I mean really pulled. In the shouting, she insulted her so much as well- calling her a jewish bitch and so on. All my other friends and I did all we could to break up the conflict and she would have done much more if we weren't there. I have a feeling this is going to get much worse. We have told the teachers, but this is going to make her so angry. This is all over nothing, simply them being popular. Both friends were left crying. For ages we have ran away whenever we have seen them ( she has her gang). What can I do to stop this from getting worse? Also, the other friend has a bad self image (even though boys think she is best looking in the school) and has been a cutter in the past. What can I do to help my friends and stop the bullying?
Additional info, added Tuesday March 1 2005, 11:56 am: Just incase you didn't see it in the question, we have already told a teacher.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? jcpennypanties answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 5:57 pm: Go to someone above the teachers at school..like the Dean, Principal, or Guidance Counselor. Dont let those girls bully your friends, their simply jealous. Keep your friends close and if the girls start to bully them, stand up to them, let them know you've had enough and that your not going to take it. I know if my bestfriends were being bullied I'd be like back off,and my other friends would stand up to them also. As for the teacher you told report that to someone also, if she knew about a problem that was leading to something like fighting and didnt try to prevent it in anyway, that could be bad for the teacher. Just try and avoid the jealous girls as much as possible.And if all comes down to it, and their hurting your friends, kick their a**! [ jcpennypanties's advice column | Ask jcpennypanties A Question ]
SugaHigh answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 2:52 pm: ok.... I didnt even read the whole question.. sorry. But if the stupid teacher didnt do anything to help you need to tell your parets or call the cops. Calling her a frickin jewish bitch and punching is against ALL school rules and is extrmely wrong. Try talking to a guidance counseler. and if he/she is a jackass and wont help either than talking to a parent or cop is the best thing.
sorry for my language... bullys piss me off so fucking bad lol.
BlackRose18 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 2:37 pm: If any harm happenes to your friends bodies and they get a broken bone or something worse, your friend can sue this girl -- A teacher can really only talk to the student and tell them to stop, maybe detention -- Thats only going to make her even more mad and come back -- Tell her mom, police, SOMEONE and if worse comes to worse self defence is NOT crime -- You have the right to defend your body [ BlackRose18's advice column | Ask BlackRose18 A Question ]
123 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 2:29 pm: this happened 2 me ive got a glass bottle thrown at my head tell her mum or tell the police theyll put a stop to it.
Erinn_the_bamf answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 12:39 pm: This bullies are the weak. Stand up for what is right. However, don't fight physically. This will get you in trouble. Tell a school consuler. They usually know how to help. If your friends get hurt physically again go to the princapal. Or you can find their weakness and use it aganist them. But if worst comes to worst don't fight. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
icey0990 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 11:54 am: This is serious. You need to tell an adult..and even the police!this is assault and she needs to be prosecuted. tell your parents! Tell the principal. Dont worry about anyone getting mad..it has to be done! Get that girl in trouble! Dont let her do this continually. Your safety and your friends safety is in danger..and rhats not right. The school is supposed to ensure everyone's safety. If you tell..they will ensure your safety.
Your second question..get all the boys..everyone to kinda sign a poster or a book put together of pictures of her. Have them sign it and tell her how great of a friend she is/pretty/ etc. I think this would really flatter her. Try it out..and if it doesnt work write back to me
Hope i helped out
-melissa- [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
PrincezPeach08 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 11:44 am: I say that you should definetly tell a teacher or some adult (if you haven't already). I know that it can be hard because then the bully will get really mad if you tell a teacher, but this is one of the best ways to try and solve this. If you tell a teacher, the bully is probably going to be suspended or maybe if it gets worse expelled from your school. If you and your friends don't tell anybody, you are all going to be living in fear...fear for your two friends, and you will be scared everytime the bully is near. These kind of situations could go on for ages, so it wouldn't be very fun if all of you spent your whole year trying to figure out ways to stop the bullying. So tell somebody...a teacher,an adult or even you parents. I hope everything goes well!
~PrincezPeach~ ;) [ PrincezPeach08's advice column | Ask PrincezPeach08 A Question ]
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