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I've had my period for two years now. It's verrrrry irregular. It will skip months and come anytime during the month. I've gone 3 months with out my period. I never know when it's going to show up. I've heard that sometimes if you're skinny that might have something to do with it. I'm like 5'6 and i weigh 105 pounds. Do you think it has anything to do with it? What do you think i should do? Thanks. (link)
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Idk...some people are just diff. Its not going to b smooth the 1st couple of years but from what i've heard...its normal. AsH!
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I like this guy and we've made out a couple times. Now im thinking of going further and jack him off and finger me..im just so selfconscious about my hair..i can try to trim it but theres just a lot of hair..and forget shaving..i get these red bumps no matter if i use lotion and stuff...so what should i do? trim? just not do anything? he would probably be turned off if i didnt do something about my hair right. : / be honest all you guys if you answer
thanks (link)
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Just do what you feel like doin...he should like you for who you are and not what your hair looks like...classic line am i right? And you need to shave...but how do you shave...what kinda razor do you use? Send me an inbox and tell me...if ya wanna...cuz then i can get a handle on the shaving thing....trust me...SHAVE! Get back to me...AsH!
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My X-botfriend dumped me about a few months after he asked me out. I had liked him for a whole two years, and was really excited when he did. After he dumped me I was devistated, and we decided to stay friends. I saw him at a get together with all of our friends and some of the new ones. I don't know if it is just him, but he acted like we were still together. He huged me alot, and lied on my stumache, tickled me, and chased me. My friends acted afended, and kind of stand-offish when we acted like that. My friend says that he told her that he doesn't like me anymore, but to me, he acted like he still does. So here is my quwstion: How do I find out if he still likes me or not, so that I can move on in life?
P.S.
(I already tried asking, and my friends tried asking also!)
Can you help me? (link)
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Just get one of your friends to ask ihm for you...but they could say something like..."do you like * because you really seem like you did that one day..." or try really asking him in a firm tone and everything. Say stuff like 'if you dont like me anymore then stop flirting with me and messin with my emotions.' Or ask why he broke up with you in the 1st place! AsH!
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Well Its always been my dream to make a cd and have it in stores and like all that stuff! well I have gotten this offer and I can get this thing its like a record deal.. you make a cd and everything and it goes in stores ALL over the world.. but its just to see how many people will like you.. and id make about $7,000.. which is like nothing.. but if alot of people got my cd.. Id get an actualy record deal and more money.. so my question is.. Should I go for that or should I just make a demo and send it to a bunch of record lables and then try to get signed by a big record lable?
please and thanks
maddie (link)
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Try the deal where you make 7,000 first and if that doesnt work...then you can always do the demo thing too! AsH!
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I have a boyfriend and hes nice but when we go to the movies like with him me and my friends he doesnt talk to them or at least say hi all he does in concentrate on me and my friends absolutely hate him for that. whenever i mention his name my friends will be like eww i hate him so much or they will tell every 1 that hes gay! Yah i think it is mean to not talk to my friends cause they are my best friends but hes not there for my friends hes there for me! But i dnt noe how to make my friends understand and to make them like him. Thanks (link)
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Tell your friends that...tell them that hes there for me because he doesnt like then in that way...and tell your bf that he should talk to your friends more...oh and tell your friends to keep and open mind next time you all do something together because if they have an open mind and your bf says hi to them...they might start to like him a little more so you dont have to hear them complain about him anymore! AsH!
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my skin, like on most of my body is covered in (little) bumps. ive had them my whole like but i dont kno what they are and personally, all i want to do is get rid of them! i hate it. its not a rash or anything like that but it wont go away with lotions, exfoliation, or creams, or anything else i have tried. plz help me!!! i rate 5's!!!!! (link)
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Ask your parents to take you to a doctor or a dermatologist! AsH!
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i love my dog to death but she can really piss me off. it then pisses my whole family off. but my dog hurts my majorly like she scratches me, ruins my hw, etc! wut can i do to calm her down? (link)
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You could always just leave her alone for a while like if shes resting then dont wake her or you could give her a treat and buy her toys...sorta win her over...and when shes done playin wit toys and she focuses on you...see how she reacts...and if she is still hyper...then that night just b how she is...(like if shes still a puppy)...it takes time for a dog to calm down sometimes...it depends on what breed it is tho. AsH!
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ive ever had a boyfriend. and im 16. whats wrong with me?? im not completly ugly, but im not like super pretty.. i think i may be prude. how do i get over that and have some fun??
THANKS SO MUCH!!!! (link)
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If you are being prude then STOP! =D I mean...if you dont want to b lonely then you should just do more activities or something. Go to more places! B outgoing like me!! YAY! Its fun to b outgoing...unless you ave a problem with that then you could always just b shy and try and meet a guy that way! But i dont think that would work! AsH! P.S. Do the obvious thing when the time comes...
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ok so i really want to know if this guy likes me.i swim and he is on my swim team, and like when we go underwater he always smiles at me and waves, and when we do drylands he always pats me on the back or playfully hits my arm, and when we kick and stuff like that we always talk the whole way. i mean he is great, he is nice to me and everyone else, he is actualy my height and everyone likes him. whenever we go to swim meets he tells me to cheer for him because he wont do well unless i do. and he asks me to hold stuff and he just goofs around w/ me and he talks to my friends a lot. does he like me?
thnx! 5's for everyone! (link)
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Thats so cool...you 2 are a week apart! I think you should ask him to do something some time! Unless he asks you first. (Obviously...) If you say hes great and he always basically flirts with you...then do somethin about it! AsH!
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ok,i went to NH with my friend and missed this party. There was a girl there and i didnt want her to be friends with MY friends. 2 girls -- Jill and Sandy are my friends and i didnt want her to be friends with this girl Tiana. I just dont want them to like her more than me..i know im being a bitch but i dont want Tiana to be friends with Jill and Sandy..Sandy told me she was acting like her bffl...and that made me kinda pissed.. how can i accept that Tiana is going to be friends with them? Tiana used to be my good friend but we split up..and i just want everyone to be friends and i can accept it. (link)
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JUST PLAY THE IM-JUST-LIKE-YOU CARD! Act like her...outgoing. Pretty soon you wount b acting like her...you'll b acting like yourself. (I used to b shy but now i am outgoing...believe it or not to some people who might b reading this)...I think you should just b outgoing and keep an open mind and just include everyone and soon you eount have a problem. AsH!
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Alright. I've been dating my boyfriend for over ten months and we've started to have a lot of problems. Around the six month marking period we starting getting into a lot of arguments and got upset with eachother easily. This has been going on for the past three or four months. He's in a different state for a couple of weeks and I usually get to talk to him, but for some reason this trip is different. I've talked to him maybe 30 minutes in total in a week or so. So I went to a party today and I met a guy that I had seen during drumline camps and stuff. He invited me along with a bunch of other drumline people to come over to his house. We got to talking and stuff and he texted me while we were watching fireworks with everyone if I wanted to hang out with him sometime, that'd be fun. So, I texted him when I got home and told him that'd be fun. The thing is IDK what to do. I don't know if i can go on much longer with my current boyfriend the way things are going. This other guy is dropping hints like crazy that he wants to know me better. "I haven't had a girlfriend in over a year, so yeah" and so on. please help. (link)
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Do what eva feels right. If you love your current boyfriend then dont dump him for the otha guy. But if hes drivin you mad with his moods and stuff...then you should mayb dump him if you want and go out with the other guy. Like I said...what eva feels right! AsH!
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I'm sure you guys are really sick of period questions. Heaven knows there's a lot of them.
Anyway, I've had my period for about 6 years now, so not much has been new to me. Okay, so today is the day I should be getting it (seeing as how I keep a calendar)... and I noticed some blood, but then it kind of ebbed off. I'm not sure if it's completely stopped, but what's up with that? I've been exercising lately, something I never do, so could that be why it's weird today?
Yeah... no idea what's up. (link)
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Exercising may be a little weird for your body right now...because...as you said...its something you never do. AsH!
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Hey guys. Well.. tonight I went to a club for the first time, and met this really great guy. He asked to dance with me, and we did for a while, and attempted to talk a bit (but the music was so loud, so we went and sat down) He introduced me to some of his friends too. Anyway, I had to leave early.. and out of nowhere I asked for his number. This is TOTALLY out of character for me. I'm usually shy around guys, but hey. He gave it to me and then I gave him mine, and then he walked me to the door. I may be being paranoid, but was this coming across a little too eager or forward? I had a feeling he wanted to ask, but I could be wrong. Also, should I contact him first or let him contact me? I'm just totally new to this kinda thing and lost.
Thank you! (link)
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You should wait mayb a week then if he odesnt call by then...just call him...he m,ight be bust and forget and b missing a good opportunity...AsH!
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i really like him and i cant stop thinkin about him. i dream about him everynight and sometimes i call him under private number just so i can hear his voice. his best friend and me went out for 2 months, and i thought i loved him but then he cheated on me. josh wouldnt tell me that he cheated, but his best friend (anton) told me. and to tell me a secret that his best friend told him NOT to tell me, but to tell me anyways, i thought that was sweet. i dont know what to do. i dont even know if he likes me or not. if you dont think i should go out wtih him, how do i get over him? and if i might should take a chance, what should i do to get him? (link)
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You could just go up to him and ask him if he wants to go to the mivies or something...and things might just settle along the way...or you could write a note and hace someone give the note to him and tell him to meet you somewhere and then just do what eva feels right from there. You could just not waste any time and jusy flat out ask him if he likes you or not...which eva you choose...it will turn out for the best...AsH!
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i need help!!! i am 14 and i am having a baby and my mom is really strict...should i tell her about it? hide it from her? what do i do!!! help me! i rate high!!! (link)
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YOU'RE GONNA HAVE TO TELL HER SOONER OR LATER...I mean...she might notice after a while...you need to except the fact that you are having a baby and that you have to tell your mom! AsH!
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last night we were online talking and i asked him who he was talking to, his ex gf carrie who goes to mentor and i dont even know her but i have heard about her and im like oh.... because i got extremely jealous and i never thought i would get jealous from him talkign to a girl and i dont even know why i did.... must have been because shes his ex and then hes like "she seems upset" and im like maybe she needs your makeup sex and i was being super gay about it and stuff and he stopped talking to me online and signed off to call her which made me feel bad....and.... then i signed off to go to bed cuz i felt upset and he called me and asked what was wrong and i said i didnt wanna talk about it and stuff and i went to bed but we still werent fighting and then today things were fine but i was still a little gay and just every little thing has annoyed me and i feel like talking to him im always being interrupted and i can never say what i have to say and everything i say is used against me and i feel bad for everything i say or do and i feel so frustrated and hurt and mad and sad all at the same time so we were on the phone and hes like "youre always selfish and i have never said anything" so i got super hurt and defensive and pissed so i was like "whatever im going bye" and he said bye and i hung up. and he just has a way of making me always feel bad. cuz hes like "sorry im a shitty bf" and i didnt say nething and hes like "thanks for telling me im not" and stupid crap like that. and hes like "ur selfish and i dont know how to get through to u". i dont wanna talk about it to him because he never says nething when im with my guy friends....but then again none of them are my ex's! im sick of always being scared to do anything because he will make me feel bad.... i cant deal with always feeling bad for everything! its like he can do whatever he wants but i cant because its wrong if i do it. what do i do? (link)
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JUST DO WHAT YOU NEED TO DO! Some people get jelous more than others and scared more than others...but you ogtta just talk to him about it and just get it over with...talk to him in person so if you get mad you cant just hang up and "hide" again...you need to just get it over with...and then mayb if he gets mad ...if he even does...say "im sorry that im such a crappy gf"...=D r something like that...AsH!
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ok so, i am only 13 years old. and i think i might be in love! my boyfriend is only 13 too. and i heard that he is like...an intch close to loving me! so now im scared bc i have never been in love before and i really dont want to get hurt. so do i break up with him before i get hurt or do i go with it and get hurt! i really need some help and ill rate high to anyone that gives some good advice. (link)
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YOU SHOULD NOT BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!!!!! WHAT ARE YOU CRAZY!? This relationship of yours could go on for a long time if you put up with eachother! =D In most relationships poeple get hurt but not in the right ones. AsH!
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i have a bf of 2 weeks..for the 1st week we talked all the time on the phone and stuff but then we just stopped..we talk ocasionaly on the computer and stuff but not alot like most couples..i still like him but going out with him isnt as great as i imagained..he always seemes irrated by me and i dunno if thats just his guy tone..i dunno if i should break up with him and see what else is out there..im just scared b.c i love the idea of having a bf and dunno if ill find some else
plz help/ill rate (link)
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Just make it interesting when you go out with him...idk how but just jump start it somehow...dont just break up with him right away...all relationships have their awkward stages. And this is yours. If this keeps going ask him whats wrong. Try new things with eachother and maybe that will make things more interesting and exciting. AsH!
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im really tired of being single and miss having a boyfriend, but im gonna be a Jr. and i think i should get serious about school and my future. Should i get a boyfriend or just worry about school?
THANX
-twiSted (link)
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Well...i think you should try and focus on school and your future and once you've got a handle on it...then a relatinship will just fall into place. AsH!
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sorry this is so long but i am really confused and i would love for any advise from anyone!
ok here is goes. me adn my ex boyfriend (josh) we out all last summer and he cheated on me so we broke up and havent talked since. well the other day i was on the phone with his best friend (anton) and josh was over there so me adn josh talked and we are cool now. well i like anton but anton is a huge player. he has cheated on almost every girl he has went out with. he is also not a virgin .. me i havent even tounge kissed a guy before. well anton told me that he is actually ready to get into a serious relationship with a girl. i really wanna be that girl, but im so scared for anyone to know that i likw him. im scared he is gonna cheat on me or hurt me just like josh. me adn anton dont talk alot adn we dont know each other really good. i really like him and i dont know what to do. i even dream about him at night. can anyone please give me some advise on what to do?? thanks if you do!! (link)
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Just try it out and keep ur eyes and ears open for any signs or talk of another girl...i mean you shouldnt let a guy get you down even if he is cheating on you in the end...but it is gonna b hard to deal with if he does...everyone knows that...but he might be telling the truth about a serious relationship...but he wasnt to serious all the otha times... AsH!
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