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i have a bf of 2 weeks..for the 1st week we talked all the time on the phone and stuff but then we just stopped..we talk ocasionaly on the computer and stuff but not alot like most couples..i still like him but going out with him isnt as great as i imagained..he always seemes irrated by me and i dunno if thats just his guy tone..i dunno if i should break up with him and see what else is out there..im just scared b.c i love the idea of having a bf and dunno if ill find some else
plz help/ill rate
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well.. i have two sides to this problem;
1)maybe he`s just nervous with you, you know guys, their really shy when their around girls.. maybe he just wants to lay low for a little, like i say in most of my advice`s, talk it out, figure out the problem that you 2 are facing and solve it, for better or for worse.
2)who knows.. maybe he might be cheating on you, i dont wanan jump to this conclusion but, if he starts to maybe stop spending time with you, he could possibly be seeing some1 else.. this is the other side of guys, besides being shy when it comes to expression and feelings, guys tend to be more.. how do you say it? attracted. you know??-- just talk it out with him, sort out your feelings.. do what feels right.
hope my advice helps you out!
xo0x- Kata
** and trust me, you`ll find someone else faster than you know.. like they say, there`s plenty of other fish in the sea, it might not be today, it might now be in 5 more months from now, but you WILL find someone else..
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Well maybe it was going well because you liked the idea of having a boyfriend and not really likeing him as much as you would with someone else. My advice is go for another week and then see if you want to brake it off. If you do then let him down easily. I hoped I helped
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Just make it interesting when you go out with him...idk how but just jump start it somehow...dont just break up with him right away...all relationships have their awkward stages. And this is yours. If this keeps going ask him whats wrong. Try new things with eachother and maybe that will make things more interesting and exciting. AsH!
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ok well this happened to me with a guy names...well lets call him mj. we kept calling and then he was getting annoyed of me i say that if he cant handle you calling a few times then cut him loose because a good boy friend doesnt care how many times you call. hope i hleped *Kelley*
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You said that you liked the idea of having a bf and are afraid you won't find someone else... I think that you shouldn't be going out with a guy just because you are scared there is no one else. A bf is someone who you really care about and love hanging out with. The feeling should be mutual, too... he should love hanging out with you as much as you do with him. So maybe you should talk to him and see if he really likes you and if not, then call it off. Also, if you don't really feel that strongly about him, then break up with him. Don't go out with him just so you can have a boyfriend. Find someone who you really like.
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You have to stop comparing your relationships to other relationships, or I'm warning you, you will NEVER be happy with it. And it's only been two weeks, so give it some time... relationships need patience to truly develop.
And if you're not satisfied with the way things are going in your relationship, try to change it. If you make an effort, he could start trying to make one too. If not, you could ask him to.
There will always be someone else out there, and when you're meant to be with someone, you'll be with them. If not, well, then you can live without a boyfriend for a while. Being single is usually a temporary thing, and you've got plenty of time to date and have boyfriends. Don't limit yourself to a guy you don't really like just because you don't want to be single.
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I've sort of been in that situation before as well. The relationship ended up not working out, and it wasn't fair because he never made time for me, and expected me to wait around for him. But your situation might be different, you never know. Talk to him about it, and see how he reacts. Also, don't ever just stay with a guy because you're afraid you wont find someone else. If you feel you deserve better, just don't worry about it, you'll find someone else whose better and treats you better like you want.
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I'm pretty sure you'd find somebody else eventually! These things just take time. But anyway! About your guy... don't compare yourself to other couples. just be comfortable between yourselfs and about how you feel. I made this mistake with my last guy :( If you feel like you don't talk enough, discus it with your bf! See how he reacts, if he's understanding and wants to make it work better or doesn't agree... well just see how you feel from there. Either the feeling is mutual to make it work or it won't be in which case you might be better leaving it.
Hope this helps :)
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I think you should break up...it's not really going to get any better, is it? You shouldn't go out with him just because you want a boyfriend. If you don't think he's really all that great, there's really no point. Especially if he always seems irritated to see you.
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1st you should tell him how you feel. Explain to him the situation but make him listen to you. thats the only way nething can happen. maybe he'll get the point and yall will start talking more or maybe he feels the same way. if talking doesnt help, i say just move on. you dont have to have a boyfriend all the time. Sometimes its better not to have one neway.So just find a time when both of you can talk....... Xoo -- Kelsey
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Ya,sometimes it just sorta gets old. But it sounds like u reallyl like him. Just call him sometime and start talkin bout how much u r glad yall r goin out and if he is like ya,ya whatever i would dump him and move on but if he is like,Ya im so glad we met too! Then you will know hes not irritated. You don't even have to call him you can just talk to him on aim or somthin. Hope i helped! Good Luck!
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talk to him and tell him how you feel. but if he is getting annoyed by you then he doesnt like and you should break up with him and find a new boyfriend.
*~Stephanie~*
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Seems like you dont want to be alone well you should break up with him.If he is irrated by you then he is not into you .If a guy likes you would know it because he would be nice,sweet and gentle towards you not the way your bf threats you. There are so many guys out there which are much better than him. You deserve better not a jack ass like him.Even if it takes you a while to find mr.right its always good to be single:)!I hope I helped!
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ok look ask him (if he is getting annoyed by you because it seems that way) ask him (if he still likes you any more as a girlfried)
well i hope i helped
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