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I have a boyfriend and hes nice but when we go to the movies like with him me and my friends he doesnt talk to them or at least say hi all he does in concentrate on me and my friends absolutely hate him for that. whenever i mention his name my friends will be like eww i hate him so much or they will tell every 1 that hes gay! Yah i think it is mean to not talk to my friends cause they are my best friends but hes not there for my friends hes there for me! But i dnt noe how to make my friends understand and to make them like him. Thanks <3 Confused
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Your friends are equally at fault here. They need to welcome your boyfriend into the group and make him feel comfortable. If they do that then I am sure he will open up more and talk to them. Also, try going places with just you and your boyfriend. He probably feels a little on display around your friends all of the time. I imagine it would be the same for you and his friends.
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well you cant make someone like another person.but tell them that he is shy and that he likes spending time with me. well they arent really giving him anything to warm up to. Half of them are probably jealous that they dont have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Always here to talk
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Tell your friends that...tell them that hes there for me because he doesnt like then in that way...and tell your bf that he should talk to your friends more...oh and tell your friends to keep and open mind next time you all do something together because if they have an open mind and your bf says hi to them...they might start to like him a little more so you dont have to hear them complain about him anymore! AsH!
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Well you can talk to your boyfriend and ask him to maybe pay a little more attention to your friends and if that doesn't work than talk to your friends and maybe tell them about your boyfriend and why hes ignoring them and hows he's feeling.I hoped I helped.
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So long as you like him it doesn't really matter what they think. But, I know its nice if they do like him. Why not ask him why he doesn't at least tell them HI. Maybe they make him uncomfortable or something. Maybe you should go out with him and not take along all the friends.
I think if your friends care about your feelings they should try to be nice to him for your sake. Do they make any attempt to be nice to him? Maybe one of them should make the first move. If you like him they probably just need to get to know him better. :)
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he sounds like a jerk... my bf kids around with my friends all the time and they kid back... but you could talk to your bf and say you know what these are my best friends... it would be nice if you would give them attention too!
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Your friends have no reason to be calling him all that stuff and being ignorant towards him. He might be shy around them and feel uncomftrable or maybe he just doesnt like them because of all the stuff they say about him. I wouldnt like that eather. Tell your friends one one more time. He isnt always supposed to talk to them and if he says hi then thats just fine! Also talk to your boyfriend and tell him to try to get along with your friends a little more. ♥//
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My friend had a boyfriend like that. He was a huge jerk... except he would talk to us, he'd just be really really mean. And we'd end up flipping him off, or something. Anyhow...
Relationships aren't going to work if your friends don't approve. They'll do everything in thier power to stop it, because they'll believe they're helping you. And sometimes, they actually are.
As for your boyfriend, explain to him that your friends ARE important to you. And if he really cared for you, he'd at least be nice to them, for your sake. If he refuses, well, that's his problem... be warned.. unless your friends at least sort of accept him.. you might have to choose between them and your boyfriend...
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Maybe your guy is just really shy. He might not feel very comfortable around your friends. Let him know that you would love it if he could try to get along with your friends. He doesn't have to be great friends with them, but for your sake it would be nice of him to atleast say hi and make casual conversation. Tell your friends that your boyfriend is a really nice guy and ask them to try to be nice to him when you are all together. Hope this helps!
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