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Should I?
Hey guys. Well.. tonight I went to a club for the first time, and met this really great guy. He asked to dance with me, and we did for a while, and attempted to talk a bit (but the music was so loud, so we went and sat down) He introduced me to some of his friends too. Anyway, I had to leave early.. and out of nowhere I asked for his number. This is TOTALLY out of character for me. I'm usually shy around guys, but hey. He gave it to me and then I gave him mine, and then he walked me to the door. I may be being paranoid, but was this coming across a little too eager or forward? I had a feeling he wanted to ask, but I could be wrong. Also, should I contact him first or let him contact me? I'm just totally new to this kinda thing and lost.
Thank you!
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ok well i know how you feel let him call you then real that sucker in like a fish lol good luck
hope i helped ya
JaDa*
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Well i personally say wait a few days and if he doesnt call u .. call him. but im not too positive if thats what you want to do. And your not really being eager because he did give it to u, right?! Good Luck <3
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No thats perfectly normal.. I think since you made the first move for the phone number he expects you to call first so do it girl <3
=) samantha
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Well in my opion it was not to eager about asking him for his number>When i wnat something i go for it!! Well if you really want to talk to this guy then call him first unless you have second thoughts then you can let him call you.I hope I helped
claire
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Well obviously you really like him since you asked for his number. My advice is to call him! You don't have to wait for him to call you! This is the 21st century. Girls can call boys. So go for it because I think hes really into you!
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No of course not do you know how many people ask for numbers! It may be tricky to deside to call or not though, I know this isnt exactally what you want to hear but he may not have taken it that seriously it was just one night but who knows? If he really does like you then he is also probably trying to deside wheather or not to call you. I think that you should wait a day or so for him to call you and if he doesnt give him a ring, what's the worst that could happen just expect everything! Hope I helped!
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its absouloutly ok if you went out of character, its good tht yu asked for his number ,cause he was prolly going to ask for yours, so im sure he was glad you asked for his first, you should call him first and just be like you wanna hang out next time? and see where it goes from there
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You should wait mayb a week then if he odesnt call by then...just call him...he m,ight be bust and forget and b missing a good opportunity...AsH!
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If you want to contact him, do so.
I'm a guy, and I don't think there's anything wrong whatsoever with a gal contacting a guy. Or asking him out, for that matter. Maybe that's just me.
The other thing is that I have a very hard time keeping in touch with people I don't see every day, and, with me, there would be a 50% chance (if I wanted to contact the woman) that I would never get around to it.
So, maybe you should wait a day or two, but no more than that.
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this just shows that you had a good time with the guy
let him contact you first if you contact him first it might seem to him to eager
hope i helped if you need anything feel free to ask
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well.. if asking for his number was, a little out of character for you, it`s ok, it`s how you meet guys! if your not out of your boundaries then it`s tough to get a guy sometimes. alritee.. so asking for his number was a good start.. now talking to him. I think that you should call him first! haa, don`t be shy, just go ahead, relax and call. What could go wrong? Talk about the night at the club, talk about his friends, talk about anything really! =] just be calm, cool, and collected! be yourself and have fun with it..
hope this helps!
xo0x- Kata
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No that wasn't too forward at all, it was really great that you had the confidence too and even better that you got a number!
Anyways, the calling bit is really up to you. Some girls think a guy should always call them, some think it's fine to call them.
If I where you I would call in up in a day or two and ask him out, (Don't just say Hey you wanna go out with me.) Have a plan like "Meet me for coffee at 3 on Staturday." It helps alot and makes you seem more serious, also that way you get to control the enviroment.
Good Luck!
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No not at all... If it's off characater for you then you musyt have something for this guy. Because you wouldnt break the mould unless it was somtheing reallllly good!!! And to answer your question no u weren't being too forward or eager... how could you be? Ask yourself that, i mean if you really like the guy and stuff then you won't know him if you can't contact him. Annd if it where to eager then he'd not have given you it. So forget about it, you made the right choice. I recon you should contact him. It isn't traditional fot the woman to ask but come on this is the 21st century! You don't want to let this guy slip through the net if you broke who you where to ask him his number. Callhim and ask him on a date to somewhere quite. Not a club; get to know him better. So go where you can sit and talk. Then take it from there. But dont worry bout it. You weren't too forward at all... Go on give him a call.
hope ive helped. anthony x
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