My X-botfriend dumped me about a few months after he asked me out. I had liked him for a whole two years, and was really excited when he did. After he dumped me I was devistated, and we decided to stay friends. I saw him at a get together with all of our friends and some of the new ones. I don't know if it is just him, but he acted like we were still together. He huged me alot, and lied on my stumache, tickled me, and chased me. My friends acted afended, and kind of stand-offish when we acted like that. My friend says that he told her that he doesn't like me anymore, but to me, he acted like he still does. So here is my quwstion: How do I find out if he still likes me or not, so that I can move on in life?
P.S.
(I already tried asking, and my friends tried asking also!)
Can you help me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Amber922Nicole answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 6:05 pm: Well maybe you should ask him...and tell him to be serious about the situation...tell him that you want a straight up answer with a straight face and no hesitations...and see wat happens if he says no then you move on, if his reply is yes then you mines as well give it another shot....and if its a "i dont know" then you move on because you dont have time in life for that kind of stuff... you need a possitive answer on these kinds of things!!
StArGiRL75 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 11:28 am: Just get one of your friends to ask ihm for you...but they could say something like..."do you like * because you really seem like you did that one day..." or try really asking him in a firm tone and everything. Say stuff like 'if you dont like me anymore then stop flirting with me and messin with my emotions.' Or ask why he broke up with you in the 1st place! AsH! [ StArGiRL75's advice column | Ask StArGiRL75 A Question ]
esohe answered Monday July 4 2005, 4:10 pm: There wa a boy that ask me out, but he dumped me 19 days after we met, i was heartbroken and sad, but i never saw since he brokeup with me, he didnt call me till now and i still want him and i still love him.
My advice for you is that, the boy dumped you before you dump him and now he still want you, i think he was affriad that you might dump him first. I think he still like you all you have to do is go and ask him about it. Trust me if my ex came back and said let go hang out, i will be happy to go out with him. i hope i helped good luck and give feedback. [ esohe's advice column | Ask esohe A Question ]
MELiixMARiiE answered Monday July 4 2005, 3:22 pm: Well what I think is that he might have just been flirting with you..because some guys are just like that, they just have flirty personalities, just like some girls do. Because if he liked you again, don't you think he would have asked you out because you were flirting back which would send some signals of you liking him? And you said you DID ask, so then wouldn't that give him the opportunity to tell you he does?..So my suggestion is to just leave it alone, unless he does come up to you or IM you or something and ask you out again, cause then maybe you should, cause I mean theres no harm...=).. hope I helped!!
cookierat123 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 3:44 pm: ok, this is my advice to you. if your friends cant do it then...do it yourself. go up to him(ALONE) and say "name" ive noticed youve been flirting with me alot and i wanted to know if you still liked me or somethig? he might be embaraced to tell your friends that he still likes you. well, i hope i helped and if you want more help then put it in my inbox. [ cookierat123's advice column | Ask cookierat123 A Question ]
dancinqueen08 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 11:43 am: I'm guessing that he's just flirting with you with no intentions of going out with you again. Some guys just have flirty personalities and act that way with girls (even if the girls are just friends). Don't read too much into it especially if he just dumped you and you've already asked around if he likes you. He might just not know how to interact with you other than the way he did when you two were going out.Otherwise, I'm not sure of a way to find out if he likes you other than just straight up asking him. Hope I helped. [ dancinqueen08's advice column | Ask dancinqueen08 A Question ]
LoveableHottBaby answered Sunday July 3 2005, 10:54 am: O0o man mixed signals i h8 that well like hes prolly messin wit you i h8 that too thats like soo mean lyke he did dump you an you knoe he doesnt like you n e more an hes acting like he does?! thats like so wrong cuz then you get so confused...well prolly avoid all of what he does that makes you think he styll likng you culd b all like well yOU dumped ME an then you culd ask him like if he relly does styll like you an stuff an he'll hopefully back off from ther g/l hope i helped! <33 *~xoxo~* [ LoveableHottBaby's advice column | Ask LoveableHottBaby A Question ]
crazyoutyamind answered Sunday July 3 2005, 10:38 am: walk up to him and say ( the day at the party you acted like you still liked me is that true ) well hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions drop em in my inbox good luck [ crazyoutyamind's advice column | Ask crazyoutyamind A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Sunday July 3 2005, 4:04 am: You've tRied asking?? Asking who??? Asking him?? I would say that's the best, and to be peRfectly honest.. the ONLY thing to do. You can ASSUME his feelings all you want, but it is puRely an assumption until spoken fRom HIS lips. And if he WAS the peRson you "alReady tRied asking".. and you'Re STILL unshoRe of his feelings.. then I would guess he is simply uninteRested, wouldn't you think so??? And the best way to get oveR someone is to find someone new, so maybe it's time to hit a mall oR get in touch with some old fRiends?? :) Best of luck to you!! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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