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OoK well there's this guy who I keep seeing in the math hallway -n- well everytime we pass each other we always lo0k at each other.WHat does that mean? I haven't really learned his name but I'm dying to ask..Homecoming is coming up..??What should I do?..

hey! um hes prolly checkin u out. maybe he has a crush on u. um wen u guys pass each other again go and talk 2 him. ask him wut his name is and ask wut classes hes in and stuff. and like if u guys talk a lil more ask him 2 homecoming!! GoOd LuCk aNd I HoPe I hElPed!

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There`s this guy I like. I`ve known him for a couple years, just never talked much. Now he`s talking to me a lot more & stuff & he`s in one of my classes. How do I like start convesations & stuyff. I feel so stupid asking this. *blushes*

well ummmm just like ask if he saw a certain movie.. or talk about tha class u have 2getha. and maybe ask if he needs ne help in tha class (and maybe u can tutor him) just smile a lot and talk 2 him more. and stuff.


i hope i helped

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I have this friends and I really like her like more than a friend. A couple of months after we became friends I asked her out but she thought that it would be better if we stayed friends. After that was said, we became much closer and im kinda getting signals. what should I do, I really like her?

hmmm... well idk if id ask her again cuz she sed no tha first time and to me id find it annoying if a guy asked me again after i sed no lets stay friends.. but maybe just flirt back. after awhile tho im sure it will be ok to ask her out.

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Is it true that girls dont like gamers? By gamers i mean people who play video games as a hobby or a profession. Also is it true that they dont like computer techs? It seems like everywhere around where i live that girls find that to be a turn off. I live in Tennessee, if that helps. Just wondering.

tha only problem with that is if they r always talking about video games and computer stuff.. that drives me nuts. otherwise its perfectly ok. cuz so many guys play video games. and thats cool. maybe even a turn on, exept if they blab on about it. like i sed, ok bye!

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I heard that if you eat 6 small meals a day, instead of 3 big its better for you. Any truth to this?

prollie.. if its healthy meals.. not junk.

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I am 15 years old and have never had a boyfriend. Is that normal?

i think thats fine. =)

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Well, a couple nights ago I had some friends over and we were in my room drinking a little. :-\ and we did some stupid stuff though and my mom found out and she wont lemme do anything anymore!! Help!

IWantMyFreekinFreedomBackLol!

that was sorta ur fault for being dumb and drinking. so therefore u cant blame ur mom. and she has every rite 2 punish u. sorrie i know im not so helpful but im not trying 2 be mean. but u shud understand why she is doing that. and try learning from ur mistakes, and maybe talk 2 ur mom about it.

x HoPe ThAt WaSnT mEaN x

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when your someone tells somebody you like them does that mean they are flattered?

doesnt nessisarily mean that. but it can i gess..sum ppl just tell everybody b/c hey ur another prsn that likes em. so they go around telling ppl. or he can be like happy that u like em and tell ppl cuz they like u 2. it realli could be either 1.. but maybe they are flattered that u like em. but they mite not like u back.


xX hope i helped Xx

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I'm looking for a guy that woud fit me well but each time i go out with the guys i fing something i hate about them right away...what should i do?

well on full house.. tha one dad guy he always found sumthing rong in everyone he dated since his wife died.. because he was scared i think. and he looks 4 things 2 be wrong in ppl. maybe ur scared 2, or maybe u juz havent found tha rite guy... he will come, in tha meantime, dont be negative, look 4 the positive in guys!!!

Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX

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Ok well See i may have changed i dont know but im really confused of who i am. SOme of my friends want me to go back to my gurlie gurl fun normal self and some want me to stay my sorta Skater type self?! I want to g0 back and i dont ? I dont know! Im so confused ! Please help me!!!

Signed
*Confused~~

u can be both u know. hang out and skate sum days and be a gurly gurl with ur gurly friends other days.. but u reallie shud decide which one is you. it duzent matter wut thay say or think.. its who u r. r u a fun gerlie gerl or a skater chic?? u need 2 do wuts in ur heart and not do it cuz ur friends want u to.

Xo HoPe i HeLpEd oX

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I have 2 best friends who are leaving me out a lot lately, we used 2 b extremely tighht but now they're bein kinda mean. One of them is very controlling and the other is a follower so the follower follows the controller and they do stuff against me. I really hate it. I always feel like the second choice or the third wheel. What should i do... i rate high!

eh i know how that feels...well honestly they rnt worth it.. i mean find sum other ppl 2 hang with. they dont wanna hang with u, thay r missing out. soo juzt dont let them get 2 yea.. juzt maybe talk 2 them and tell them u dont like being treated like tha 3rd wheel..and if thay dont care, u shuddnt care and juzt find sum new friends 2 hang out with and act like u dont care any more. but if thay do care and they didnt realize they were leaving u out.. dont ignore them or ne thing like that, give them one more chance 2 prove that thay r ur friends..

Hope that made sense and i hope it helped u out!
~NICOLE~

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How do i overcome my shyness? Im like really shy around people i don’t know but once i get to know em im not what do i do? I don’t wanna be like this well at least this shy cuz people judge me.

just talk 2 ppl u dunno a lot more.. ask them questions and just be yourself.. im sorta shy round ppl idk 2.. but just talk 2 them and idk just be you. Dont worrie wut they will think of you or ne thing..tha only way they can get to know u is if ur talking 2 them and showing them ur grate personality!!


Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX
nicole

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heyy im 13 and i was wondering how can i start a good converstation with my boyfriend on the phone

start it off by asking wut he did that day and then tell him wut u did. and it will lead 2 sum other stuff 2 talk about.. ask if hes watching tha olympix or sumthing... idk.. but it will come 2 u wen u talk 2 him.

XoHoPeIhElPeDoX

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omg ok i have to get my wisdom teeth pulled! SOMEONE PLEASEE answer...how bad does it hurt? are you awake? and how long is your mouth all swollen? im really scared.. i ABSOLUTELY hate the dentist..and im scared to go.. but im more worried about the ?'sz i asked..soo please answer! p.s i rate!

ok my friend had her wisdom teeth pulled and it prollie hurt.. lol. she was outta skool for like 1 or 2 days.. she couldnt talk for hours.. im accually not that sure.. but im sure u'll be fine. dont worrie!!!

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how do you know when a guy wants to kiss you? (guys and gurls answer this!) what are some signs and if i can tell he does should i just make the move or wait for him to? give me some help on kissing! muah** lol thanks!

maybe if he is staring at ur lips, or if hes licking his lips.. thats all i can think of.. and umm not sure wut u shud do, but maybe wait till he moves closer, then move in.. lol i dont know why im giving advice on this, ive never kissed sum1.. lol. but ive seen it on movies and stuff.. lol idk.... in sum kind of crazy way i hope that helped!

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What's the difference between Taking a break and breaking up! I always saw taking a break as just an easy way of breaking up with someone...like just a nicer way ya know!

I dont have experience in this or w/e but i think it means that ur seeing ur other options and seeing if ur still worth it and seeing if they wanna still go out with u.. and maybe u'll be back 2 gether soon.. u know??? it also could be a easy way 2 brake up w/ sum1.. but i dont think thats exactly wut it means..


HoPe I hElPeD

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Does anyone know any quotes that are about love and her liking him so much and him not liking her at all? I need some for my profile... ANything about love will do! Thanks a bunch!

iLL rate you a 5 for a quote..whether i like it or not lol

i made this one up tha other day.. not sure if its good.. prolly not.. not sure if its really a quote... but.. here it is:

~After u "were in love" and ur heart was broken.. ur hurt for like a month.. then u think to urself... why the hell did i like him.. and u realize.. i wasnt in "love" and then u think... "wut is love?" and i guess u wont know.. until u are in love and get hurt and i month later ur like.. "wow i still love him"~

Tell me if its good okay??? and i know so many quotes.. so let me know if u need sum other ones.

HOPE I HELPED

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I've been thinking of growing a mustache and goatee.
I was just wondering though.....do girls like that or is it generally a turn-off?

TURN OFF

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hey guys! does anyone have any really cute unique babie names for (both boy and girl) that you like/kno of?! i need help thinkin of some very cute ones for my sister-in-law! i'm going to be a aunt! please answer quick.. ill rate high! :)

how bout....

gerlz-kristen, kirsten, marie, alana, jenna, mandie jay, misty, nikki, jessica, kandie, monica, ashlee, stephanie, angel, jassmine.

boyz-Jeff, david, michael, jake, alex, mark, joey, aaron.


Sorry those prollie arent too unique.. but i tried to come up with cute ones.. hope i helped.. and have fun being a aunt!!!
*nicole*

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i'm 12 and i started my 1st period june 15. i heard u were supposed to get it every 28 days and i'm about a week late if that's the case! could i be pregnant, i mean i havn't had sex, but could i be? plz help!

Thazz totalie normal.. no no no ur not pregnant.. how silly.

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